In this eye-opening episode, we welcome Christian Lolies, Certified Family Systemic and Constellation Facilitator, and CEO of Systemic Lens. Christian is a Global Youth Leadership Summit mentor and a leading voice in a fast-growing healing modality featured on Oprah’s book list, It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn. Christian dives into how families can break free from intergenerational trauma, patterns, and emotional baggage—stopping the cycle from continuing to the next generation.

Christian shares powerful insights on Family Constellations, a therapeutic approach designed to heal reoccurring emotional challenges passed down over generations. He reveals how uncovering family secrets and restoring relationships—even when all parties aren't present—can bring incredible harmony and change. Parents have a unique opportunity to be the "keepers of the gate," preventing old wounds from shaping their children’s future.

Through his work, Christian has observed that children are mirrors of the adults around them, often reflecting unresolved emotional baggage. He introduces the four fascinating principles of family constellations, key to unlocking unity, empowerment, and love in family dynamics. Christian also shares his personal journey—growing up surrounded by tension and tough environments, then spiraling in his teens to a life of drugs and destruction until he chose to make a powerful change with his environment including a high-level corporate career which then led to finding his true calling. Now, his work transforms families and gives kids the chance to thrive.

This episode is a must-listen for any parent wanting to stop the cycle of trauma and create a healthy, loving environment for their teens.

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It Didn’t Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn

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