The Sex You Want
A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love
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Rena Martine
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When it comes to relationships, our society has plenty of expectations. We're supposed to know how to speak up for ourselves in bed, be caring partners, and, of course, love ourselves first. But no one tells us how to actually do all those things, and we are left feeling unsatisfied, confused, and ashamed when we don't measure up. Former Deputy District Attorney Rena Martine was in that position. After rejecting the ideal white-picket fence life, she embarked on a journey to redefine intimacy in a way that felt true. In the years that followed, Rena defied all of society's sexual norms, built a presence as a global women's intimacy coach, and created the intimate life she craved.
Now she brings those experiences to you! With no-holds-barred honesty, stories from real-life women, and sparkling humor, The Sex You Want will help you: build a secure relationship with your most important partner—yourself; get in touch with your expectations for relationships so you can date more intentionally; demystify lifestyle practices outside of the heterosexual-monogamous-vanilla box with frank discussions of female sexual fluidity, kink, and ethical non-monogamy; find apps, products, and communities to satisfy any curiosity; and bring deep intimacy and exciting variety into your bedroom and beyond.
Contains mature themes.
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- Mariel Sena
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Learning these tools, and listening to the advice from the authors mouth, wow!!
This book should be required reading for any person who inhibits the world having identified or currently identifying as a woman. I feel so grateful that not only Rena wrote this book, but she also recorded the audiobook version. There is so profound about an author who is sharing their memories in our memoir, driven self-help book from their own mouth.the bravery and vulnerability Rena has in sharing her and her client stories is something I’m grateful for. Absolutely worth a listen!
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