A Deep Dive into the Most Powerful Communication Tool You've Never Been Taught
By Anton Volney, author of Hell & Paradise and creator of Permission to Be Powerful

"They weren’t calm because I out-argued them. They were calm because I made them feel safe."

If you've ever wanted to stop a fight before it starts...
Or transform an argument into intimacy...
This book will show you how.

This Language Makes Defenses Melt is a fast, gripping, and deeply practical guide to Nonviolent Communication (NVC)—the emotional kung fu used by hostage negotiators, spiritual masters, and people who are tired of ruining relationships over miscommunication.

In this short but soul-shifting read, Anton Volney breaks down:

• The 4-step formula that turns tension into connection

• Why logic fails but empathy wins

• How to speak in a way that disarms even the most guarded people

• What makes people defensive—and how to become emotionally “unthreatening” without being weak

• Real-life examples, scripts, and practices to try tonight

This isn’t soft.
It’s sharp.
It’s honest.
And it will change how you talk to everyone—especially yourself.

If The Four Agreements met Radical Honesty and had a baby with Nonviolent Communication, this would be the love child.
Short enough to finish in one sitting.
Powerful enough to shift your relationships for life.