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Light and bright

Overall
4 out of 5 stars
Performance
4 out of 5 stars
Story
3 out of 5 stars

Reviewed: 05-16-23

This book is a testament to not taking yourself (or life) too seriously. I found her take on things intoxicatingly bingeable, if for no other reason than it being a reprieve from the cultural norms where everything is a problem or dramatic or intense. She’s fun. And this book reminded me to take each chapter in life moment-to-moment and not read too deeply into everything.

With that being said, I was waiting for her to get deeper, specifically with acting. Call it projection or blame it on the title, but I was hoping for a little glimpse into her relationship to her career beyond it being what she fell into. At one point she does say acting wasn’t her life “yet”, which made me anticipate the moment it did become her life and what that was like in terms of passion. Instead, I got a lukewarm feel throughout and was shocked when the last chapter came to a close. So it wasn’t quite the payoff I was expecting, but I still appreciate the lightheartedness of it.

Not everything has to hit hard in the humanity. This was fun, and it made me feel like anything is possible. And the organization and performance was crisp. So for all intents and purposes, I enjoyed it, even if it left me a little less than satisfied.

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An Important Story

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4 out of 5 stars
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4 out of 5 stars
Story
4 out of 5 stars

Reviewed: 12-09-22

I can see why people called this book boring, or shallow, or pointless. Halfway through I started to drift from it, and I considered throwing in the towel. BUT, something I felt from start to finish was that this was an important story. And not because it recounts the most extreme life or has characters that make us want to be better versions of ourselves. I found this story to be profoundly important because it tells a story true to many of our realities: that life isn’t straight, a lot of stuff doesn’t matter, and whoever you think you should be is just rhetoric. While this message may seem nihilistic, it’s actually beautiful.

Here we have characters who exemplify a wide range of humanity and love each other and let go of each other, and who remind us that we’re all just looking for people to survive with and for versions of ourselves that make us feel we’ve lived.

And buried in all that is the ongoing reality that women do, and always have, had a sexuality. It was so comforting to hear a story about a woman who isn’t indifferent to men nor identified through them. She learns what she wants of life, and of men, and how that relates to her womanhood is acknowledged, but it’s also beside the point. Cheers to Gilbert for illustrating the plight of woman without preaching about it, and for creating a character that is so much more than a talking point.

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