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2040年には、独身者が人口の5割になり、
既婚者(64歳まで)は3割になるーー。
この衝撃的な数字を見て、みなさんはどのように感じたでしょうか。
「既婚者である自分たちは、少数派になってしまうのか……」
「このままだと、少子高齢化がますます進むだろうし、日本の将来はどうなるのか……」
と思ったかもしれません。
あるいは逆に、
「これから『一人で生きていく』ことに不安しか感じていなかったが、20年後には自分たちが多数派になるらしい。
ということは、社会のあり方も大きく変わらざるを得ないはずだから、今よりも暮らしやすくなっているかもしれない」
と前向きに感じた方もいらっしゃるでしょう。
では、実際のところはどうなのか?
というわけで、これからの日本は「一人で生きる」のが当たり前になる、という予測をテーマに据えて、
独身研究の第一人者・荒川和久さんと気鋭の脳科学者・中野信子さんに対談をしていただきました。
この本は、大きく2部構成としました。
・前半(第1〜4章)は、独身者(ソロ)と既婚者のそれぞれの生き方や幸せ、
「孤独」という「個人」にまつわることについて。
・後半(第5〜7章)は、視点を少しずつ個人から社会全体のほうに転じ、
ソロと集団、多様性と個性といった社会的なテーマに移行するという流れになっています。
そして終章として、今の時代では無視できなくなった「withコロナ時代の生き方」という時事的なトピックで締めくくります。
「ソロ男の外食費は、一家族分の外食費の2倍近い」「恋愛が得意な人は全体の3割だけ」
「実は、アメリカも同調圧力が強い」などのデータやファクトを縦横無尽に繰り出す荒川さんに対し、
「認知的不協和」「ステレオタイプ脅威」「シャーデンフロイデ」といった学術的な用語を引き合いに出しながら、
それらの現象を鮮やかに読み解いていく中野さん。
お二人それぞれの知見が詰まった鋭い現状分析、緻密な未来予測をお読みいただきながら、
20年後のみなさん自身の生き方について考える一助としていただければ幸いです。
<目次>
第1章 ソロ社会化する日本
第2章 孤独とは悪いことなのか?
第3章 ソロの幸せ、既婚者の幸せ
第4章 恋愛強者と恋愛弱者の生存戦略
第5章 ソロ化と集団化の境界線
第6章 自分とは何かーー一人の人間の多様性
第7章 世の中を動かす「感情主義」のメカニズム
終章 「withコロナ時代」の生き方を考える
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