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菅沢 公平
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永松 茂久
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【売れてます! 発売前、発売当日と立て続けに大重版! 3刷10万部突破!】
【85万部突破ベストセラー! 2021年1番売れてる会話の本『人は話し方が9割』シリーズ最新作! 】
【1分で心をひらき、100%好かれる聞き方のコツ】
【相手が自然と話し始め、勝手にあなたのことを好きになる最高の聞き方!】
【もう会話で焦らない。凹まない。モヤモヤしない。】
【聞いてくれる人がたった1人でもいることで「救われる人」がいる】
「目の前に人がいると『何か話さないと』とつい焦ってしまう……」
「自分ばかりが話しすぎてしまって、いつも後悔してしまう……」
「結局、今日も言いたいことがうまく伝えられなかった……」
このような悩みを抱えている人は、少なくありません。
でも、大丈夫。
本書では、これらの悩みを解決する方法を、ズバリ、お伝えいたします。
ベストセラー『人は話し方が9割』でもお伝えした「聞き方」の大切さをさらに詳しく、わかりやすく解説しました。
目次
【はじめに】話なんか苦手なままでいい
第1章 なぜ「聞く人」はうまくいくのか?
01 「ねえ、聞いてる?」問題
02 安心感からすべてが始まる
03 人はみな話したい生き物
04 多くの人が持っている、コミュニケーションに対する思い込み
05 「聞く力」を磨くと、いいことがいっぱい
06 話し方より「聞き方」を磨くほうが簡単
07 聞き方で、多くの人が「損をしている」
08 なぜ会議は面白くないのか?
09 聞く人になれば、自分も周りもうまくいく
第2章 人に好かれる人の聞き方
10 この聞き方こそ、好かれる人になる一番の近道
11 口下手でも話し上手を超えることはできる
12 魔法の傾聴① 表情
13 魔法の傾聴② うなずき
14 魔法の傾聴③ 姿勢
15 魔法の傾聴④ 笑い
16 魔法の傾聴⑤ 感賛(感嘆+称賛)
17 「魔法の傾聴」はやったもの勝ち
18 人生は「聞き方」で9割変わる
第3章 嫌われない聞き方
19 コミュニケーションは、まずは「嫌われない」ことが先決
20 嫌われない聞き方① 違う意見の人を否定しない
21 嫌われない聞き方② 自分の常識を押しつけない
22 嫌われない聞き方③ 話す相手と競わない
23 嫌われない聞き方④ 結論を焦らない
24 嫌われない聞き方⑤ 答えや解決策をはじめから言わない
25 嫌われない聞き方⑥ さえぎらない、話を変えない
26 嫌われない聞き方⑦ 心を折るツッコミはしない
27 嫌われない聞き方⑧ 干渉しすぎない
28 嫌われない聞き方⑨ 「ここだけの話」は絶対、人に言わない
第4章 「また会いたい」と思われる人の聞き方
29 聞き方は「スキル」より「メンタル」
30 内容よりも、「感情」を聞こう
31 オンラインは聞き方ですべてが決まる
32 オンラインでいい空気を作る「3つのコツ」
33 職場やコミュニティで「一目置かれる」聞き方
34 かわいがられる人が実践している「みんながハッピーになる」聞き方
35 「上の立場の人」ほど孤独になりやすいと理解する
36 「私はここにいるよ」と誰もがみんな叫んでる
37 まずは「身近な人」「大切な人」の話を聞くことから始めよう
38 聞いてくれる人がたった1人でもいることで「救われる人」がいる
【おわりに】いい言葉といい出会いがいい人生を作る
©2021 Shigehisa Nagamatsu
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