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In this episode: Ever heard of limerence? It’s not quite love, not quite lust—but something way more intense, obsessive, and irrational. I’m taking a close look at this state of deep distress that starts with euphoric highs. I reference Dr. Dorothy Tennov’s original research, what modern psychologists are debating now, and how hyperfocus, rejection sensitivity, and impulsivity all play a role in this heartbreaking, confusing experience.

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SOURCES USED FOR THIS EPISODE:

Dr. Tom Living With Limerence Blog

Dr. Tom Purposeful Living

Psychology Today Who Is Vulnerable To Limerence

Healthline ADHD Limerence

Dr. Dorothy Tennov “Love and Limerence” Book