You can’t control your wife.
You can’t control her mood, her actions, or how she feels.
But you can control yourself. And that changes everything.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we talk about why men try to control what they can’t — and how it slowly destroys connection, peace, and love.

This is for the man who feels stuck.
For the man who keeps chasing love, affection, and attention — only to feel rejected or ignored.
And for the man who is ready to stop forcing and start leading.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
✅ Why control is a reaction to fear
✅ What control is really costing you
✅ How to notice when you’re trying to manage her feelings
✅ Why surrendering control gives you power
✅ How to lead with calm, not panic
✅ What true strength looks like in a husband

This episode covers:

Why men try to control their wives

How old wounds shape your fear

The inner boy behind your need for control

What you can lead instead of trying to fix her

How to build emotional and spiritual grounding

The difference between leading and controlling

This video is for you if:
✔️ You feel afraid of losing her
✔️ You keep trying to fix her emotions
✔️ You feel responsible for how she treats you
✔️ You want peace, clarity, and connection

You were never meant to force connection.
You were meant to create safety — by becoming safe inside yourself.

Let go of what you can’t control.
Lead what you can: your emotions, your energy, your healing.

That’s where your strength is.
That’s how you stop chasing and start leading.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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