点击链接注册 Soest 和 Hoofddorp 的家庭系统排列工作坊： https://hipsy.nl/shop/meeei

在这一集中，我与你分享了两场让我深深动容的家庭系统排列工作坊的故事。尤其是一位坐在场边的参与者，在听到代表说出的一句话时，突然泪流不止。那句话，仿佛是她已逝父亲一直想对她说的，却从未有机会说出口的话。

她以为自己早已“放下”父亲的离世，却在那一刻才意识到，悲伤一直沉睡在心底。泪水奔涌而出，也终于为她融化了藏在灵魂深处的“冰”。

正如荷兰一位系统工作导师所说：
“泪水能融化你灵魂深处的冰。”

这一集，我也分享了自己对于“系统性哀悼”、代际情感共鸣、以及在排列空间中如何彼此照见的深刻体会。我们每个人的悲伤，从不只是属于我们自己。我们流下的眼泪，也承载着上一代、上上代从未流下的泪水。

每一场排列，都不仅仅是为一位案主而进行，而是为在场的每一个灵魂打开一扇窗。

愿你也能在这集里找到属于你的共鸣，重新拥抱你的故事、你的悲伤、和你的温柔力量。

📍系统排列工作坊预告：
• 7月13日（周日）13:30–16:30，Hoofddorp 社区中心

• 8月23日（周六）14:00–17:00，Soest 森林生态农场

📬 报名或咨询请查看节目简介中报名链接。

📅播出频率：

每周三集播客：周二、周四、周六

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In this episode, I share the powerful stories and insights from two recent Family Constellation workshops in the Netherlands. One participant sitting quietly in the sideline was unexpectedly moved to tears. When she heard a sentence spoken by a representative, something broke open—she felt, “This is what my father, who passed away years ago, would have said to me.”

Although she had returned to life after her father’s death, thinking she had moved on, the words touched a deep grief she didn’t know she still carried. Her tears flowed freely. Something old and frozen within her began to melt.

As a Dutch systemic facilitator once said:
“Tears melt the ice on your soul.”

In this episode, I reflect on the invisible losses we carry across generations, the systemic nature of grief, and the sacred role we all play in each other's healing. A single story in a constellation often resonates with the untold stories in many others.

None of us is an island. In the field of constellation, we witness, we are witnessed, and through that, we remember who we are.

💌 Event links for my upcoming Family Constellation workshops and online IFS sharing can be found in the description.

If you find value in this podcast, you're warmly invited to support my work on Patreon — even the price of a coffee can be a meaningful encouragement for me to keep creating:
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