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Empathy Traps

Dealing with Manipulative People

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Empathy Traps

By: Arwen Belrose
Narrated by: Lisa Haislip
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We’ve all met someone who seems to radiate understanding—the kind of person others naturally gravitate toward in times of joy, pain, or uncertainty. These people are natural confidants. They seem to read a room without a word, sense tension behind a smile, and offer support without waiting to be asked. If this describes you, there’s a good chance you’re what this book refers to as an Empathy Magnet—someone whose emotional awareness, kindness, and sensitivity draw others in.

Empathy Magnets make the world better. They build bridges where others burn them. They comfort, listen, and give people the space to be human. And yet, beneath all this warmth lies an uncomfortable truth: empathy can make you a target. Not everyone sees your empathy as a gift. Some see it as an opening—a way in.

This book was written for those who give deeply but find themselves emotionally depleted. For those who pride themselves on being emotionally intelligent but often walk away from conversations feeling confused, guilty, or drained. For those who keep attracting people who take more than they give, who dismiss boundaries, or who subtly twist the emotional dynamic until it feels like you’re carrying the weight of someone else’s world on your shoulders.

Being kind doesn’t mean being naive. Being caring doesn’t mean being responsible for everyone else’s emotional state. And being empathetic should never mean being manipulated.

Why Empathy Can Make You Vulnerable

Empathy is more than just kindness—it’s the ability to feel with others. To experience a piece of their emotional state, to mirror their moods, to intuit unspoken feelings. This deep understanding fosters trust and safety. But it also has a flip side: it can blur the line between your emotions and theirs.

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Empathy Traps helped me heal from years of emotional codependency. It’s a breath of fresh air for those who love too hard and give too much

Refreshing, Honest, and Healing

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The writing is warm, and the insights are sharp. It’s the kind of book you underline and come back to over and over again

Clear, Thoughtful, and Deeply Personal

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I appreciated how Empathy Traps doesn’t demonize empathy but instead highlights its risks when unguarded. It helped me realize that caring deeply doesn’t mean accepting toxic behavior. The breakdown of manipulation tactics and the emotional dynamics involved gave me tools to recognize unhealthy patterns early and protect myself without losing my compassionate nature. A powerful and empowering read for emotional caregivers.









Balances Empathy with Self-Protection

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Even as a professional, I found this book useful. It provides a solid framework for understanding emotional entanglement and maintaining emotional health

A Must-Read for Therapists and Coaches

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Empathy Traps opened my eyes to the subtle ways emotional manipulators exploit kindness. The book’s compassionate tone helped me understand why I often felt drained after certain interactions and taught me how to set healthy boundaries without guilt. If you’re someone who gives deeply but ends up emotionally depleted, this guide offers practical insights to protect your well-being while maintaining empathy.

A Must-Read for Highly Empathetic People

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Reading Empathy Traps felt like someone had finally put my life into words. The examples are spot-on, and the insights are profound. A must-read for every emotional sponge.

Finally, Someone Gets It!

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Reading this felt like therapy. I could see myself on every page—someone who listens too much, forgives too quickly, and ends up stuck in draining friendships. This book is compassionate but firm: it teaches you how to keep your empathy without becoming someone’s emotional sponge. I appreciate the practical steps for setting limits while still staying true to my caring nature.

A Wake-Up Call for Over-Givers

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If you’ve ever felt manipulated by people who ‘need you’ all the time, read this. The section on how empathy magnets attract narcissists and toxic personalities was eye-opening for me. I liked that the book doesn’t blame you for being kind—it shows you how to balance empathy with self-protection. I feel more confident saying no and spotting manipulative behavior early.

Essential Reading for Sensitive Souls

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This is not just another self-help book with vague advice—it’s an eye-opener for anyone who’s ever felt guilty for setting boundaries. I appreciated how the author broke down the “empathy trap” dynamic in a way that made me see my own relationships differently. It gave me language for things I’ve felt but couldn’t explain. If you’re tired of feeling drained by certain people, this book is worth every page.

Clear, Insightful, and Truly Empowering

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This book opened my eyes to how my empathy, which I always saw as a strength, was also leaving me emotionally exhausted. Empathy Traps gave me the clarity and boundaries I didn’t know I needed.

A Wake Up Call for Empaths

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