
Inside the Mind of Unchurched Harry and Mary
How to Reach Friends and Family Who Avoid God and the Church
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $19.79
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Adam Black
-
By:
-
Lee Strobel
About this listen
Who are unchurched Harry and Mary? He or she could be the neighbor who is perfectly happy without God. Or the coworker who scoffs at Christianity. Or the supervisor who uses Jesus’ name only as profanity. Or the family member who can’t understand why religion is so important.
Inside the Mind of Unchurched Harry and Mary isn’t a book of theory. It’s an action plan to help you relate the message of Christ to the people you work around, live with, and call your friends. Using personal experiences, humor, compelling stories, biblical illustrations, and the latest research, Lee Strobel helps you to understand non-Christians and what motivates them. The book includes:
- 15 key insights into why people steer clear of God and the church
- A look at Christianity and its message through the eyes of a former atheist
- Practical, inspirational strategies for building relationships with non-Christians
- Firsthand advice on surviving marriage to an unbelieving spouse
Listeners also enjoyed...
-
The Case for Christ, Revised & Updated
- A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 10 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Is there credible proof that Jesus of Nazareth really is the Son of God? In The Case for Christ, Lee Strobel, former legal editor of the Chicago Tribune and New York Times bestselling author, retraces his own spiritual journey from atheism to faith and builds a captivating case for Christ's divinity. In this revised and updated edition of The Case for Christ, Strobel cross-examines a dozen experts with doctorates from schools such as Cambridge, Princeton, and Brandeis, asking hard-hitting questions—and taking a deeper look at the evidence from the fields of science, philosophy, and history.
-
-
Wow
- By Jeff Wedding on 09-07-17
By: Lee Strobel
-
Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus
- Third Edition with Bonus Content, New Reflections
- By: Nabeel Qureshi, Lee Strobel - foreword
- Narrated by: Nabeel Qureshi, Michelle Qureshi, Lee Strobel, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus, now expanded with new bonus content, Nabeel Qureshi describes his dramatic journey from Islam to Christianity, complete with friendships, investigations, and supernatural dreams along the way. Providing an intimate window into a loving Muslim home, Qureshi shares how he developed a passion for Islam before discovering, almost against his will, evidence that Jesus rose from the dead and claimed to be God.
-
-
INCREDIBLE!!! This book affected me greatly!!!
- By Maria on 08-24-18
By: Nabeel Qureshi, and others
-
Finding the Real Jesus
- A Guide for Curious Christians and Skeptical Seekers
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Mark Smeby
- Length: 2 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For centuries, the Christian church has taught that Jesus is the divine Son of God, crucified for sinners and raised from the dead. In recent years, however, that picture of Jesus has come under widely publicized attack from sources ranging from critical scholars to Internet pundits to popular historians and others. New York Times bestselling author Lee Strobel helps you separate truth from media hype, sound scholarship from bias, and fact from speculation. Digging below the surface, this book provides credible, informed answers to today's most pressing questions about Jesus.
-
-
Great read!
- By James E Friend on 03-07-23
By: Lee Strobel
-
The Case for Faith
- A Journalist Investigates the Toughest Objections to Christianity (Case for... Series)
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Van Tracy
- Length: 11 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Best-selling author and former atheist Lee Strobel investigates the nettlesome issues and doubts of the heart that threaten faith, including doubt, the problem of pain, and the existence of evil. This updated edition features two all-new chapters, an updated list of recommended resources for further study, and a new discussion guide.
-
-
Great book!
- By Lara Ross on 02-22-23
By: Lee Strobel
-
Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch in Marriage
- By: Lee Strobel, Leslie Strobel
- Narrated by: Giovanni Cordiferro, Rebecca Rogers
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Someone came between Lee and Leslie Strobel, threatening to shipwreck their marriage. No, it wasn't an old flame. It was Jesus Christ. Leslie's decision to become a follower of Jesus brought heated opposition from her skeptical husband. They began to experience conflict over a variety of issues, from finances to child-rearing. But over time, Leslie learned how to survive a spiritual mismatch. Today, they're both Christians - and they want you to know that there is hope if you're a Christian married to a nonbeliever.
-
-
Must read for living in a spiritual mismatch
- By Jasmine Levy on 09-30-21
By: Lee Strobel, and others
-
The Case for a Creator
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 10 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lee Strobel became convinced that God was outmoded. Today science is supports the conclusion that the universe was intelligently designed. Darwinism has faltered in the face of facts and hard reason. Science definitely gives faith a boost as new findings emerge about the complexity of our universe. Strobel re-examines the theories that once led him away from God. You'll encounter discoveries from cosmology, DNA research, and human consciousness that present evidence in The Case for a Creator.
-
-
Case closed...or opened?
- By KML on 10-25-04
By: Lee Strobel
-
The Case for Christ, Revised & Updated
- A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 10 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Is there credible proof that Jesus of Nazareth really is the Son of God? In The Case for Christ, Lee Strobel, former legal editor of the Chicago Tribune and New York Times bestselling author, retraces his own spiritual journey from atheism to faith and builds a captivating case for Christ's divinity. In this revised and updated edition of The Case for Christ, Strobel cross-examines a dozen experts with doctorates from schools such as Cambridge, Princeton, and Brandeis, asking hard-hitting questions—and taking a deeper look at the evidence from the fields of science, philosophy, and history.
-
-
Wow
- By Jeff Wedding on 09-07-17
By: Lee Strobel
-
Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus
- Third Edition with Bonus Content, New Reflections
- By: Nabeel Qureshi, Lee Strobel - foreword
- Narrated by: Nabeel Qureshi, Michelle Qureshi, Lee Strobel, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus, now expanded with new bonus content, Nabeel Qureshi describes his dramatic journey from Islam to Christianity, complete with friendships, investigations, and supernatural dreams along the way. Providing an intimate window into a loving Muslim home, Qureshi shares how he developed a passion for Islam before discovering, almost against his will, evidence that Jesus rose from the dead and claimed to be God.
-
-
INCREDIBLE!!! This book affected me greatly!!!
- By Maria on 08-24-18
By: Nabeel Qureshi, and others
-
Finding the Real Jesus
- A Guide for Curious Christians and Skeptical Seekers
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Mark Smeby
- Length: 2 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For centuries, the Christian church has taught that Jesus is the divine Son of God, crucified for sinners and raised from the dead. In recent years, however, that picture of Jesus has come under widely publicized attack from sources ranging from critical scholars to Internet pundits to popular historians and others. New York Times bestselling author Lee Strobel helps you separate truth from media hype, sound scholarship from bias, and fact from speculation. Digging below the surface, this book provides credible, informed answers to today's most pressing questions about Jesus.
-
-
Great read!
- By James E Friend on 03-07-23
By: Lee Strobel
-
The Case for Faith
- A Journalist Investigates the Toughest Objections to Christianity (Case for... Series)
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Van Tracy
- Length: 11 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Best-selling author and former atheist Lee Strobel investigates the nettlesome issues and doubts of the heart that threaten faith, including doubt, the problem of pain, and the existence of evil. This updated edition features two all-new chapters, an updated list of recommended resources for further study, and a new discussion guide.
-
-
Great book!
- By Lara Ross on 02-22-23
By: Lee Strobel
-
Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch in Marriage
- By: Lee Strobel, Leslie Strobel
- Narrated by: Giovanni Cordiferro, Rebecca Rogers
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Someone came between Lee and Leslie Strobel, threatening to shipwreck their marriage. No, it wasn't an old flame. It was Jesus Christ. Leslie's decision to become a follower of Jesus brought heated opposition from her skeptical husband. They began to experience conflict over a variety of issues, from finances to child-rearing. But over time, Leslie learned how to survive a spiritual mismatch. Today, they're both Christians - and they want you to know that there is hope if you're a Christian married to a nonbeliever.
-
-
Must read for living in a spiritual mismatch
- By Jasmine Levy on 09-30-21
By: Lee Strobel, and others
-
The Case for a Creator
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 10 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lee Strobel became convinced that God was outmoded. Today science is supports the conclusion that the universe was intelligently designed. Darwinism has faltered in the face of facts and hard reason. Science definitely gives faith a boost as new findings emerge about the complexity of our universe. Strobel re-examines the theories that once led him away from God. You'll encounter discoveries from cosmology, DNA research, and human consciousness that present evidence in The Case for a Creator.
-
-
Case closed...or opened?
- By KML on 10-25-04
By: Lee Strobel
-
The Unexpected Adventure
- Taking Everyday Risks to Talk with People about Jesus
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Well-known evangelists Lee Strobel and Mark Mittelberg have teamed up to bring you a 42-day devotional-style series of adventures in sharing the gospel. Through their own stories—ranging from the laugh aloud funny to the discouraging to the uncanny—Strobel and Mittelberg will motivate you to make the Great Commission a way of everyday living.
-
-
I like Lee Stroble, but this wasn't my favorite
- By Ralph on 12-20-11
By: Lee Strobel
-
Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition
- A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions
- By: Gregory Koukl, Lee Strobel - foreword
- Narrated by: Gregory Koukl
- Length: 9 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In a culture increasingly indifferent or even hostile to Christian truth, followers of Christ need to be equipped to communicate with those who do not speak their language or accept their source of authority. In Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition, Gregory Koukl demonstrates how to artfully regain control of conversations, keeping them moving forward in constructive ways through thoughtful diplomacy. Step-by-step, you'll learn the tactics of good persuasion and defense, how to identify the tactics of your opponent, and how to build your case, patiently and practically.
-
-
Awesome Book
- By Dee Venable on 12-06-19
By: Gregory Koukl, and others
-
Spiritual Mismatch
- Hope for Christians Married to Someone Who Doesn’t Know God
- By: Lee Strobel, Leslie Strobel
- Narrated by: Giovanni Cordiferro, Rebecca Rogers
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lee Strobel was the legal editor for the Chicago Tribune, a Yale graduate, and an atheist when his wife, Leslie, became a Christian early in their marriage. She began going to church; she found new friends; she became a different person. But Lee didn't believe in any of it. Both Lee and Leslie felt they were losing each other. Despite all the emotional clashes they experienced, God answered Leslie's prayers in miraculous ways. He gave her peace when she was feeling worried, gave her friends to walk with her, and gave her his Holy Spirit to comfort and guide her.
-
-
Good insights and examples to overcome mismatch
- By pam rojas on 02-20-25
By: Lee Strobel, and others
-
The Heaven Answer Book
- Answers to Over 100 of Your Pressing Questions about Eternal Life, Salvation, and Life After Death
- By: Billy Graham
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 2 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
World-renowned author, preacher, and evangelist Reverend Billy Graham answers questions about heaven and eternity with understanding and reassurance. God's Word says heaven awaits all the saints of his kingdom, but what will heaven be like? The Heaven Answer Book is biblically based and written in an easy-to-understand question-and-answer format.
-
-
Wonderful
- By Josephblu on 11-19-20
By: Billy Graham
-
The Case for the Real Jesus
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 10 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Has modern scholarship debunked the traditional Christ? Has the church suppressed the truth about Jesus to advance its own agenda? What if the real Jesus is far different from the atoning Savior worshipped through the centuries? Evaluate the arguments and evidence being advanced by prominent atheists, liberal theologians, Muslim scholars, and others. Sift through expert testimony. Then reach your own verdict in The Case for the Real Jesus.
-
-
A Re-awakening.
- By Dan on 08-12-08
By: Lee Strobel
-
The Case for Grace
- A Journalist Explores the Evidence of Transformed Lives
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In The Case for Grace, Lee offers an accessible explanation of the theology of God's grace, shown through the incredible, dramatic, can't-put-it-down stories of people whose lives were changed by the gift of grace--true accounts of people whose transformation and renewal are so radical that they seem to be best explained as the work of a gracious God.
-
-
His best book so far, & Case for Christ was great.
- By M. Silen on 05-21-15
By: Lee Strobel
-
God's Outrageous Claims
- Discover What They Mean for You
- By: Lee Strobel
- Narrated by: Lee Strobel
- Length: 7 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Lee Strobel’s insights into the benefits of living as a fully devoted follower of Christ are refreshing and powerfully relevant. Using true stories, including his own, he shows that Christianity really works, that we really can live transformed, authentic, and effective lives - and that God’s promises and power are very real and very true.
-
-
insightful look into christians and our faith
- By Ken on 11-18-05
By: Lee Strobel
-
Contagious Faith
- Discover Your Natural Style for Sharing Jesus with Others
- By: Mark Mittelberg, Lee Strobel - foreword
- Narrated by: Van Tracy, Lee Strobel
- Length: 6 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Contagious Faith, best-selling author and teacher Mark Mittelberg introduces five approaches to evangelism and helps you determine which of them fit best with your unique personality and style. He also explains in a down-to-earth fashion several key skills that will help you talk about Jesus effectively, illustrating his message with real-life accounts of ordinary believers who applied these principles for extraordinary impact.
-
-
Should be on every church list of books.
- By Roxana on 10-13-23
By: Mark Mittelberg, and others
-
Evidence That Demands a Verdict
- Life-Changing Truth for a Skeptical World
- By: Josh McDowell, Sean McDowell PhD
- Narrated by: Josh McDowell, Sean McDowell PhD, Bob Souer
- Length: 42 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The modern apologetics classic that started it all is now completely revised and updated - because the truth of the Bible doesn't change, but its critics do. With the original Evidence That Demands a Verdict, best-selling author Josh McDowell gave Christian audiences the answers they needed to defend their faith against the harshest critics and skeptics. Now, with his son Sean McDowell, Josh McDowell has updated and expanded this classic resource for a new generation. This is a book that invites listeners to bring their doubts.
-
-
Lexicons aren't best suited for Audible
- By Leifen on 10-24-17
By: Josh McDowell, and others
-
Cold-Case Christianity
- A Homicide Detective Investigates the Claims of the Gospels
- By: J. Warner Wallace
- Narrated by: J. Warner Wallace
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Christianity could be defined as a “cold case”: it makes a claim about an event from the distant past for which there is little forensic evidence. In Cold-Case Christianity, J. Warner Wallace uses his nationally recognized skills as a homicide detective to look at the evidence and eyewitnesses behind Christian beliefs. Including gripping stories from his career and the visual techniques he developed in the courtroom, Wallace uses illustration to examine the powerful evidence that validates the claims of Christianity.
-
-
J. Warner Wallace: My new favorite Policeman
- By Just Me:) on 02-08-21
-
Orthodoxy
- By: G. K. Chesterton
- Narrated by: John Lee
- Length: 6 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Written by G. K. Chesterton, Orthodoxy addresses foremost one main problem: How can we contrive to be at once astonished at the world and yet at home in it? Chesterton writes, "I wish to set forth my faith as particularly answering this double spiritual need, the need for that mixture of the familiar and the unfamiliar which Christendom has rightly named romance."
-
-
A True Gem
- By Sam French on 05-05-15
By: G. K. Chesterton
-
Barefoot Church
- Serving the Least in a Consumer Culture
- By: Brandon Hatmaker
- Narrated by: Adam Black
- Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
There's got to be more to church than this. People around the world are seeking a community that focuses more on others than on themselves. Yet most don't know where to start. Drawing from his own journey, Brandon Hatmaker reminds us that serving the least is not a trendy act of benevolence but a lifestyle of authentic community and spiritual transformation. In Barefoot Church, Brandon offers practical ideas for creating service-based, missional communities and explains how the organizational structure of a church can be created or restructured for mission in any context.
-
-
Awesome
- By John on 01-16-13
By: Brandon Hatmaker
What listeners say about Inside the Mind of Unchurched Harry and Mary
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Emil Lavsen
- 02-25-15
A good book with lot's of important material
The subject of evangelism is often made Soooooo difficult and complicated, but I like lee strobel and his way of writing and his own approach to evangelism. He clearly has a powerful reason for writing this book and this causes a great focus and meaning for this writing and it's not boring at all. There are much to learn from this book, and liked his easy and clear way of writing. Super book that all can learn from.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- LBB
- 08-07-16
Profound story & so needed today in America
So thankful for this type book. I am enlightened on new approaches that are imperative.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Christine
- 05-04-15
Not what I wanted
This book seems to be geared toward helping churches (rather than individuals) be relevant to people interested in learning about God. It's a little outdated, too. Not bad, just not what I was looking for.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Robert J. Leblond
- 07-25-13
Great book, annoying narrator
What did you like best about this story?
Lee Strobel has been a favorite of mine since I read his Case for Christ, Case for Faith, and Case for a creator book several years ago. Recently I found and read Case for thr Real Jesus. This book, although different in tone and focus shares that quality of excellence I have come to expect from mister Strobel. His insight, suggestions and warnings about pitfalls to avoid were helpful to me, who is actively trying to grow an old and dying church in my area.
How could the performance have been better?
As good as the content of the book was, I could only listen for a few minutes at the time. At age 10, my children could read better than this narrator. Additionally, the man's voice is like nails on a chalk board. After 10 or 15 minutes of listening to him, I get an urge to kick a small animal.
The solution is I will buy a print copy, and note this fellow's name so I am not in a position to hear him again--EVER.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!