
Is This Love or Narcissism?
How to Identify, Understand and Recover from Manipulation, Gaslighting and Narcissist Abuse. Relationship Self-Assessment Guide Included
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Are you trapped in a relationship that leaves you feeling drained, confused, and questioning your own reality?
Do you find yourself constantly walking on eggshells, never quite knowing what will trigger your partner's next outburst or emotional manipulation?
If you've ever wondered if you're dealing with a narcissist, this book is for you.
"Is This Love or Narcissism" is a groundbreaking guide that uncovers the insidious nature of narcissistic abuse and provides you with the tools and strategies you need to break free from toxic relationships. Author Cassandra McBride draws on her own personal journey as well as her extensive experience helping countless individuals navigate the complexities of narcissistic partnerships, to create a comprehensive roadmap for reclaiming your life and your sense of self.
In this transformative book, you'll discover:
- The key traits and behaviors that distinguish narcissists from healthy partners
- How to recognize the subtle signs and red flags of narcissistic abuse
- Powerful techniques for setting boundaries, resisting manipulation, and asserting your autonomy
- A step-by-step guide to safely and effectively exiting a narcissistic relationship
- Proven strategies for healing from narcissistic trauma and rebuilding your self-esteem
- Inspiring real-life stories of individuals who have successfully broken free from narcissistic control
- Practical exercises and self-assessment tools to help you gauge the health of your own relationships
Whether you're currently in a relationship with a narcissist, have recently left one, or are working to prevent falling into the trap of narcissistic abuse, this book is your essential companion on the journey to freedom and empowerment.
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- Phoebe Taylor
- 11-11-24
A Valuable Resource.
This book is a valuable resource for therapists, counselors, and other mental health professionals who work with survivors of abuse. My cousin loved this book.
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- Leah Barlow
- 11-30-24
Eye-Opening and Thought-Provoking
Is This Love or Narcissism is a compelling deep dive into the complexities of modern relationships. The audiobook masterfully explores the blurred lines between genuine love and toxic self-interest, offering profound insights that resonate with anyone navigating emotional connections. The narration is heartfelt and engaging, making the content even more impactful. This is an essential listen for those seeking clarity and understanding in matters of the heart.
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- Vanessa J. Thompson
- 11-28-24
A Lifeline for Those Lost in Toxic Love
If you're struggling with a relationship that leaves you doubting yourself and questioning your reality, Is This Love or Narcissism? is an absolute game-changer. Cassandra McBride masterfully combines her personal experiences and professional insights into a guide that feels both deeply empathetic and refreshingly practical.
The audiobook not only helps you identify the subtle yet damaging patterns of narcissistic abuse but also equips you with actionable steps to regain control of your life. Alyssa Marie's narration adds an extra layer of emotional resonance, making the content even more impactful and easy to digest.
The inclusion of self-assessment tools is a standout feature, offering listeners a chance to reflect and assess their own relationships. The real-life stories shared are inspiring and remind you that freedom and healing are not just possible but within reach.
Whether you're trying to escape a toxic relationship, heal from past wounds, or simply educate yourself to avoid future pitfalls, this audiobook is an invaluable resource. McBride doesn’t just offer hope—she provides a roadmap to reclaiming your sense of self and building healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Highly recommended for anyone ready to break free and thrive!
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- Jade Nash
- 02-10-25
A Must-Listen for Relationship Clarity
Is This Love or Narcissism" is an insightful and thought-provoking audiobook that helps listeners navigate the often-blurred lines between healthy love and toxic narcissism. The content is well-structured, with real-life examples that make the concepts easy to understand. The narrator’s tone is empathetic and engaging, making it feel like a personal guide through complex emotional dynamics. It’s an invaluable resource for anyone questioning their relationship or seeking emotional clarity. Highly recommended
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- J. Thomas
- 01-29-25
Good Job.
Absolutely love this book. I've learned so much! It has clarified a lot for me about things in my life I knew were off but I didn't really know what. Now I do, and I am on the right path for a change.
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- Summer Saunders
- 01-01-25
Amazing!
This book was a bit of a surprise, as I didn't expect it to be as good as it was. I have read quite a few books on the narcissism spectrum, and found that this one was one of the clearest explainers on healthy and unhealthy narcissism. It's a short and easy read. I highly recommend it.
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- Aaliyah Woods
- 10-30-24
A Powerful Guide to Healing.
This book is a beacon of hope for anyone who has been affected by manipulation, gaslighting, or narcissistic abuse. It offers practical advice, emotional support, and a roadmap to recovery.
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- Charlotte John
- 01-20-25
Nice job.
As I walk in the journey of healing, from being in a relationship with a manipulator healing a covert narcissist and we as his narcissistic family, I've come to learn a lot.
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- Tilly Butcher
- 11-09-24
A Clear and Compassionate Audio-book.
The author writes with empathy and understanding, making the complex topic of narcissistic abuse accessible to everyone. The book is well-organised and easy to listen.
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- Luke Dennis
- 12-01-24
Great audiobook
Is This Love or Narcissism? is an eye-opening exploration of the fine line between genuine love and toxic narcissistic dynamics. The audiobook brilliantly dives into the psychology of relationships, helping listeners identify red flags and unhealthy patterns. The narration is engaging and clear, making complex concepts easy to grasp. Whether you’re seeking self-awareness or clarity about your relationships, this audiobook offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Highly recommended for anyone looking to cultivate healthier emotional connections.
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