Ladyparts
A Memoir
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Deborah Copaken
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Deborah Copaken
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A frank, witty, and dazzlingly written memoir of one woman trying to keep it together while her body falls apart — from the “brilliant mind” (Michaela Coel, creator of I May Destroy You) behind Shutterbabe
Named One of the Best Books of the Year by Real Simple • “The most laugh-out-loud story of resilience you’ll ever read and an essential road map for the importance of narrative as a tool of healing.” (Lori Gottlieb, best-selling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone)
I’m crawling around on the bathroom floor, picking up pieces of myself. These pieces are not a metaphor. They are actual pieces.
Twenty years after her iconic memoir Shutterbabe, Deborah Copaken is at her darkly comedic nadir: battered, broke, divorcing, dissected, and dying — literally — on sexism’s battlefield as she scoops up what she believes to be her internal organs into a glass container before heading off to the hospital...in an UberPool.
Ladyparts is Copaken’s irreverent inventory of both the female body and the body politic of womanhood in America, the story of one woman brought to her knees by the one-two-twelve punch of divorce, solo motherhood, healthcare Frogger, unaffordable childcare, shady landlords, her father’s death, college tuitions, sexual harassment, corporate indifference, ageism, sexism, and plain old bad luck. Plus seven serious illnesses, one atop the other, which provide the book’s narrative skeleton: vagina, uterus, breast, heart, cervix, brain, and lungs. Copaken bounces back from each bum body part, finds workarounds for every setback — she transforms her home into a commune to pay rent, sells her soul for health insurance, turns FBI informant when her sexual harasser gets a presidential appointment — but in her slippery struggle to survive a steep plunge off the middle-class ladder, she is suddenly awoken to what it means to have no safety net.
Side-splittingly funny one minute, a freak horror show the next, quintessentially American throughout, Ladyparts is an era-defining memoir.
©2021 Deborah Copaken (P)2021 Random House AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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Critic reviews
“The most laugh-out-loud story of resilience you’ll ever read and an essential road map for the importance of narrative as a tool of healing: How we tell our stories is just as important - if not more so - as the plot twists we experience.” (Lori Gottlieb, best-selling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone)
“Ladyparts is, quite simply, a beautiful book. Equal part harrowing and hilarious, enraging and heartwarming, it’s a memoir unlike any other. It will open your eyes to what it means to be female in a male world, older in a society built around youth worship - or just on the wrong side of variance when the lottery of genes and life doesn’t turn in your favor. And it will do it all while making you laugh, cry, and scream in turn. I couldn’t put it down.” (Maria Konnikova, The New York Times best-selling author of The Biggest Bluff and The Confidence Game)
“Ladyparts is a first-rate example of the contemporary memoir: harrowing, sad, funny, revelatory, true. Were you to misconstrue the title, you might think this was all simply anatomy, which would be fine, but as with all the best memoirs what this work really anatomizes is how it all feels - in the mind, in the soul, and in the nick of time. Copaken’s memoir is poignant, necessary, and very rewarding.” (Rick Moody, author of The Long Accomplishment: A Memoir of Hope and Struggle in Matrimony)
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Writer Karla Cornejo Villavicencio was on DACA when she decided to write about being undocumented for the first time using her own name. It was right after the election of 2016, the day she realized the story she'd tried to steer clear of was the only one she wanted to tell. So she wrote her immigration lawyer's phone number on her hand in Sharpie and embarked on a trip across the country to tell the stories of her fellow undocumented immigrants—and to find the hidden key to her own.
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Raw, heartbreaking - we can do better by others
- By RapaciousReader on 04-11-20
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What Matters Most
- The Get Your Shit Together Guide to Wills, Money, Insurance, and Life's ""What-ifs""
- By: Chanel Reynolds
- Narrated by: Erin Bennett
- Length: 10 hrs and 9 mins
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Founder of popular website Get Your Shit Together blends personal stories and must-have advice in the ultimate guide to getting your affairs in order - from wills and advance directives to insurance, finances, and relationships - before the unthinkable happens.
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A powerful peek at the face of tragedy that unavoidably will find us all.
- By K. Stephan on 04-28-19
By: Chanel Reynolds
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Chicken Soup for the Soul - Find Your Happiness
- 101 Inspirational Stories about Finding Your Purpose, Passion, and Joy
- By: Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen
- Narrated by: Cynthia Barrett
- Length: 11 hrs and 40 mins
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What makes you happy? Others share how they found their passion, purpose, and joy in life in these 101 personal and exciting stories that are sure to inspire and encourage listeners to find their own happiness. Chicken Soup for the Soul: Find Your Happiness will encourage listeners to pursue their dreams, find their passion and seek joy in their life with its 101 personal and inspiring stories. This book continues Chicken Soup for the Soul’s focus on inspiration and hope, reminding us that we all can find our own happiness.
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I got even more depressed
- By Tom on 09-08-14
By: Jack Canfield, and others
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Chicken Soup for the Soul: Think Positive
- 101 Inspirational Stories about Counting Your Blessings and Having a Positive Attitude
- By: Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Amy Newmark, and others
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby, Jim Bond
- Length: 10 hrs and 39 mins
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101 True Stories about how Positive Thinking can change your life! Everyone needs a little attitude adjustment once in a while, and these amazing true life stories reveal how real people used positive thinking to improve their lives and overcome challenges. You’ll read stories about how you can make every day a special day, incorporate gratitude and joy into your daily life, count your blessings and change your outlook, use a few well-chosen words to reorient your life, manage cancer and other health challenges through a positive attitude, simplify and have a more meaningful life and more!
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Good overall.
- By Sergey Makeev on 02-21-24
By: Jack Canfield, and others
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Knocking on Heaven's Door
- The Path to a Better Way of Death
- By: Katy Butler
- Narrated by: Katy Butler
- Length: 10 hrs and 28 mins
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Like so many of us, award-winning writer Katy Butler always assumed her aging parents would experience healthy, active retirements before dying peacefully at home. Then her father suffered a stroke that left him incapable of easily finishing a sentence or showering without assistance. Her mother was thrust into full-time caregiving, and Katy became one of the 24 million Americans who help care for aging parents. In an effort to correct a minor and non - life threatening heart arrhythmia, doctors outfitted her father with a pacemaker.
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A better way to narrate a book about death?
- By MAUREEN on 10-21-13
By: Katy Butler
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Normal Gets You Nowhere
- By: Kelly Cutrone
- Narrated by: Kelly Cutrone
- Length: 3 hrs and 42 mins
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With Normal Gets You Nowhere, Kelly Cutrone invites us to get our freak on. History is full of successful, world-changing people who did not fit in. Think Nelson Mandela, Joan of Arc, Eleanor Roosevelt, Amelia Earhart, John Lennon, and Rosa Parks. Instead of changing themselves to accommodate the status quo or what others thought they should be, these people hung a light on their differences - and changed humanity in the process. “I know you don’t feel normal, so why are you trying to act it and prove to everyone you are?” Cutrone says.
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For open minds and hearts.
- By Kelly on 01-06-12
By: Kelly Cutrone
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Mother Daughter Me
- A Memoir
- By: Katie Hafner
- Narrated by: Katie Hafner
- Length: 9 hrs and 12 mins
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The complex, deeply binding relationship between mothers and daughters is brought vividly to life in Katie Hafner's remarkable memoir, an exploration of the year she and her mother, Helen, spent working through, and triumphing over, a lifetime of unresolved emotions. Dreaming of a "year in Provence" with her mother, Katie urges Helen to move to San Francisco to live with her and Zoe, Katie's teenage daughter. Katie and Zoe had become a mother-daughter team, strong enough, Katie thought, to absorb the arrival of a 77-year-old woman set in her ways....
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Listen and be swept away!
- By Barbara Quick on 06-02-22
By: Katie Hafner
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This Is Not Over
- A Novel
- By: Holly Brown
- Narrated by: Madeleine Maby, Donna Postel
- Length: 11 hrs and 15 mins
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Two very different women with this in common: Each harbors her own secret, her own reason why she can't just let this go. Neither can yield, not before they've dredged up all that's hidden, even if it has the power to shatter all they've built.
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Pettiness Turn Twisted!
- By Jenn on 01-19-17
By: Holly Brown
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If It's Not One Thing, It's Your Mother
- By: Julia Sweeney
- Narrated by: Julia Sweeney
- Length: 6 hrs and 39 mins
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Since her time on Saturday Night Live, where she created the infamous androgynous character "Pat", Julia Sweeney has gone on to establish herself as a witty, captivating performer of one-woman shows, like God Said Ha!, In the Family Way, and Letting Go of God. She gave a TED talk sharing how she explained the birds and the bees to her eight-year-old daughter, Mulan, which ignited an incredible response. Now, when it comes to talking about motherhood, people want to hear what Julia has to say.
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I Love Julia Sweeney
- By Lisa on 04-05-13
By: Julia Sweeney
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Drinking and Tweeting
- And Other Brandi Blunders
- By: Brandi Glanville, Leslie Bruce
- Narrated by: Brandi Glanville
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
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Fans have been waiting for Brandi’s scoop on one of the biggest divorces of the decade since her husband of eight years abandoned her and their two sons to marry country singer LeAnn Rimes. Not only does Brandi spill the beans about her side of the split, but the lovable housewife also shares the incredible wild ride that took her from a life in the ghetto to Hollywood’s most elite circles.
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Who edited this?
- By Jessica on 11-02-20
By: Brandi Glanville, and others
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I Can Barely Take Care of Myself
- Tales from a Happy Life Without Kids
- By: Jen Kirkman
- Narrated by: Jen Kirkman
- Length: 6 hrs and 20 mins
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"You'll change your mind." That's what everyone says to Jen Kirkman - and countless women like her - when she confesses she doesn't plan to have children. But you know what? It's hard enough to be an adult. You have to dress yourself and pay bills and remember to buy birthday gifts. You have to drive and get annual physicals and tip for good service. Some adults take on the added burden of caring for a tiny human being with no language skills or bladder control.
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Funny. Not fall down laughing funny, but funny
- By david on 05-22-13
By: Jen Kirkman
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The Baddest Bitch in the Room
- (Explicit Version)
- By: Sophia Chang
- Narrated by: Sophia Chang
- Length: 8 hrs
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Sophia Chang is a badass of the music industry. As the daughter of Korean immigrants in predominantly white suburban Vancouver, she grew up shunning the “model minority” myth. Armed with a fierce sense of independence, she moved to New York City and infiltrated the world of hip-hop, yet remained mostly in the shadows of the artists she supported. With her debut memoir, Sophia Chang is finally ready to grab the mic for herself.
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Something in the music spoke to me...
- By Tina G. on 09-30-19
By: Sophia Chang
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Committed
- Dispatches from a Psychiatrist in Training
- By: Adam Stern MD
- Narrated by: Adam Stern MD
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
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Adam Stern was a student at a state medical school before being selected to train as a psychiatry resident at one of the most prestigious programs in the country. His new and initially intimidating classmates were high achievers from the Ivy League and other elite universities. Faculty raved about the group as though the residency program had won the lottery, nicknaming them “The Golden Class”, but would Stern ever prove that he belonged? In his memoir, Stern pulls back the curtain on the intense and emotionally challenging lessons he and his fellow doctors learned.
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Thank you for reminding me,
- By Ms D on 12-29-21
By: Adam Stern MD
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A Wild and Precious Life
- A Memoir
- By: Edie Windsor, Joshua Lyon
- Narrated by: Donna Postel, Joshua Lyon
- Length: 10 hrs and 9 mins
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In this memoir, which she began before passing away in 2017 and completed by her co-writer, Edie recounts her childhood in Philadelphia, her realization that she was a lesbian, and her active social life in Greenwich Village's electrifying underground gay scene during the 1950s. Edie was also one of a select group of trailblazing women in computing, working her way up the ladder at IBM and achieving their highest technical ranking while developing software.
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🏳️🌈 Wow! 🏳️🌈
- By Natalia Zimnoch on 10-15-19
By: Edie Windsor, and others
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-26-21
An important, “must read” that’s manages to be funny and relatable
I don’t think it’s possible to succinctly explain how much, and why, I loved this book. Copaken manages to draw a line connecting U.S. deficits in understanding mental health, women’s bodies, healthcare, child care, workplace ethics (including sex/gender/ and economic status discrimination), work-life balance and more. She does all of this with empathy, compassion, brutal self-deprecating honesty, humor and intelligence. She says all of the ugly uncomfortable things most of us are too afraid to say. Her raw humanity is remarkable. I rarely do this but I may actually read this book again.
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- Char May
- 02-25-22
Wow. Incredible story, writing and performance.
This is one of the best books I’ve ever read/listened to. It’s real and raw and very well written. I also really enjoyed the author reading it aloud. It was hilarious, informative, heartbreaking and entertaining. I loved how long it was because I didn’t want it to end. I plan on buying more of her books. I recommend this book to everyone.
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- Carlos A
- 02-17-22
Lovely. Poignant. Relevant. Timely.
Such an amazing book. Every man should listen to it. Kept me engrossed from end to end.
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-06-23
A literal must read.
As a 65 year old self proclaimed feminist growing more radical with age, I was gobsmacked more often than I care to admit. Wonderful work. Should be studied in every college women’s studies courses.
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- Iris Wong
- 08-24-21
A gift of words
I’m a heavy audible listener / prior heavy traditional reader and this is likely a book I will remember for years to come, and just the right book for right now. Thank you, Deborah Copaken (if you ever read this), for giving words, beauty and life to your story, and giving me pieces I could relate to. I’m watching that Modern Love episode right now that your story inspired… without giving away more, read this book, it is raw, real, full of humor and such a gift.
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- S. Stein
- 10-06-21
Delightful, tough, important
I found myself taking notes as this writer goddess proffered her wisdom on everything from menopause to #metoo to the frightening state of healthcare in this country and the lack thereof for so many, especially as the gig economy takes over. Also a great read that kept me listening for more. Don’t be put off by the gory intro. I will be giving this book as a holiday gift to many women I know in their prime!
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- Anonymous User
- 10-24-21
FTW: "Yes, and ... "
Deborah Copaken is a force, a pilot, a resolute voice albeit sometimes quavering in frustration during another indurated exit interview or when confronted with a hotel bill (plus meals) that was supposed to be taken care of by the studio in exchange for several days of script input on a buzzy, pay cable series helmed by showrunner Darren Starr. To ask how a lauded photojournalist with a professional resume replete with legacy media clips, network production credits, and New York Times bestsellers is living from paycheck to paycheck after a wrenching midlife marriage dissolution in addition to a series of ghastly medical emergencies is the same point of contention aimed at Copaken: disappointingly her most vocal and vicious detractors are women. Instead of criticizing me for talking about how insurmountable life is for the income unstable, why don't you write incisively about the factors contributing to this problem?
No takers.
This is New York City when print media no longer had the budget to hire (good) writers and the Internet spurred a slew of cafe media start-ups of varying content and quality. These editorial spaces and regular columns and personal essays and script work are her only lifelines. This is a family's real day-to-day, where an unexpected win is undercut by a notice in the mail or a concerning biopsy or no food in the refrigerator. Ladyparts delights in New York-ness and serendipity, most touching in her friendship with Nora Ephron and Copaken's found family whose bonds are best exemplified by the deeply felt text and email exchanges recounted throughout. Adding to that resonant piece is the story of her own parents, the life they lived versus the lives they may have chosen outside of societal constraints or expectations. You can hear the love and admiration rush in with the acknowledgment of obligation, ascribed gender roles, and a certain time and place. And, of course, the author's marriage: both her agency within and the difficulty in ending it.
The elegant construction reminds me of Barbara Grizzuti Harrison's 1996 memoir An Accidental Autobiography, another New Yorker known for her essays, journalism, and considered opinions. Yet another Barbara worth weighing here is noted writer and political activist Barbara Ehrenreich who, like Copaken, arms her arguments about economic class, income inequality, and social justice with data and facts and an innate sense of what's right. During a 2009 Elle magazine interview with Ehrenreich, she describes the negative emotional response to her posts on a breast cancer treatment message board due to her "anger." She remembers writing back to one of them, asking if they had ever read the Old Testament because it is "full of righteous anger." So too is Ladyparts. The diagram on the cover cops to being a polemic, what with the faux genteel title and the flayed open lady. (Righteous) anger directed at our country and its unwillingness to provide affordable, early preventative healthcare to its citizens. (Righteous) anger at the medical community's incurious, plodding approach to gynecological concerns. (Righteous) anger at the disempowerment, the lack of agency afforded women seeking care.
My mom didn't die of Stage 4 cervical cancer. She died because it's all too easy to slot Medicaid patients into clinical trials where instead of recommending a radical hysterectomy for a woman of a certain age, the action plan relies on a periaortic lymph node dissection, not removing the cancer. Instead what followed was an intense regimen of internal/external radiation as well as chemotherapy. The most common after-effects were not discussed so the symptoms presented like apparitions before becoming detrimental i.e. fistulas, hydronephrosis, lymphedema, malabsorption, acidosis. Management protocols were assigned: compression garments, ostomy supplies, nephrostomy tubes, saline flushes, etc. She remained remarkably independent until a severe ischemic stroke impaired both her mobility and some cognitive functions. Thereafter, my mom required emergency hospital intervention throughout because of poor kidney function, a result of her care team neglecting to change out her indwelling stents after the initial placement. Though several years out from her 2005 diagnosis, the anger and regret for what she went through are substantial and life-changing.
Ours is not an unfamiliar or uncommon story, though, and neither is Copaken's. Ladyparts, somewhat set apart with its horror movie clots in covered containers, becomes more relatable - to city dwellers anyway - with an appearance from a double-talking apartment broker and having to contend with unyielding direct supervisors half your age while chasing eligibility for health insurance. Still, gratitude is the fruit, like when one of the author's birthday wishes is a string of stable days for ALL women. I love it. Deborah Copaken's story of a life-in-progress, its voice as funny as it is gracious, is so vital for right now, planting a flag for community, compassion, healing, and self-love at any age.
"Yes, and ..." (please).
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- Susan G
- 07-09-24
Relatable for Women
While I loved the messages in the book. I helped stressed the entire time I listen to it. Let’s hope we do better as a society for women, with healthcare, and create a better gig economy.
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- K. James
- 08-19-21
Her depth of honesty was brillant
I fortunately listened to this book instead of reading it (though I am certain I would have loved it too in its written form). But to hear Deborah tell her own story was amazing. I could hear her angst, her bewilderment, her rage, her love personified with every word. If it was a work of fiction I might be in disbelief that any human could have the health issues she has had and survived, much less the financial struggles that she has overcome. I thought of the Biblical Job whose faith is tested with challenges. What Deborah overcame is breathtaking in its scope and intensity. After finishing this book, I have gotten the courage to be even more honest in my emails to my friends and family about my own journey with Stage IV cancer. Deborah has inspired me. I thank her for that. You go girl!!
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- Debbie G
- 06-04-22
Excellent story and excellent delivery!
Deborah is a born storyteller and I thoroughly enjoyed her sharing her skills and story in this book -- it was like sitting down with a very good friend and hearing what has been going on in their crazy, hectic life. I related to so much of what she has gone through as a woman, I was shouting along with her as she described her experiences and emotions, especially the frustration with "modern" healthcare and the health insurance dance. It was an extra special treat to hear her talk about meeting Nora Ephron, one of my all-time favorites, and what it was like to be close friends with her. I was sad when I reached the end, and look forward to any future work she releases.
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