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Jiddu Krishnamurti
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Relationship Has Significance Only When It Is a Process of Self-Revelation—17th July 1949.
- Where there is authority there can be no discovery of something new.
- Relationship based on an idea cannot be a self-revealing process.
- Self-knowledge is understood, uncovered and its process revealed through relationship.
- Is it possible to love without the interference of the mind?
- When the mind becomes supreme, all-important, then there can be no affection.
- Q: what is that thinking that must come to an end? What do you mean by thinking and thought?
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