
The Thrivers Guide to Co-Parenting with a Narcissist
Simplified Strategies for Setting Boundaries & Healthy Communication Tactics Necessary for Raising Resilient Well-Adjusted Children
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Tired of feeling like you’re constantly at battle with your child’s other parent? Ready to make lasting changes that actually work? If so, keep reading…
Do you find that you're constantly walking on eggshells, afraid of saying something that will upset your ex and cause them to use your children against you? Are you feeling weighed down by your narcissistic co-parent's manipulations? Worried about how all of this is affecting your children? While you cannot change your ex and rid them of their damaging tendencies, you can control your actions and protect your children. This guide will show you how. Inside, you’ll discover:
*A look at the spectrum of narcissism, and how to recognize narcissistic traits so that your ex can never again use psychological manipulation on you or your children.
*Why it is okay to grieve the loss of your relationship, even if your ex is a narcissist.
*The THRIVERS method for co-parenting with a narcissist – Discover how to take away your ex’s power and level the playing field for good.
*7 strategies for effective co-parenting with a narcissist… and what you can do when you find they’re not working.
*How to set and enforce boundaries with your ex – and exactly what to do if these are not being respected.
*The nitty-gritty of the legal system – from custody hearings to child support.
And much more...
Your children need you to show up each and every day, ready to take on any new challenges. Discover everything you need to know to both find the peace you need and be the parent your children deserve. Click “Add to Cart.”
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- Valerie Westra
- 11-23-24
Thriving as a parent
This book really spoke to me. I've been navigating the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissist, and it is a resource that was helpful in many ways. The strategies it offers are practical and easy to follow, and I finally have the tools to set clear boundaries with my ex without feeling guilty or manipulated. The THRIVERS method was amazing! It helped me realize how I can regain some control in this situation for the sake of my kids. This book gave me the confidence to be the parent I want to be for my children, and for that, I’m truly grateful.
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- Rasheallee
- 11-23-24
Practical advice and emotional support
The Thrivers Guide to Co-Parenting with a Narcissist offers a compassionate and practical roadmap for navigating the challenging dynamics of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex. The book is a lifeline for parents who feel trapped in a cycle of conflict, providing clear strategies for setting firm boundaries and fostering healthier communication for the sake of their children.
It strikes the perfect balance between practical advice and emotional support, making it a must-read for parents determined to rise above the challenges and create a brighter future for their children.
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- Amazon Customer
- 11-21-24
Great information
Useful audio for getting to grips with a narcissist like my ex-wife! Trying to put resentments aside to help our son, who is only ten years old, not get caught between us and this audio has been a game changer for how I approach her and interact with her. The strategies for setting boundaries is very simple and very effective and I love this audio because it takes a potentially complex human and turns the points into easy to digest and implement fixes. Overall it has helped me and I am sure it will help many others.
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- Tony N
- 11-20-24
Practical and Supportive Co-Parenting Strategies
A very incredible and helpful resource for anyone navigating the challenges of co-parenting with a difficult ex. It provides clear, actionable strategies for maintaining boundaries, managing conflict, and prioritizing your child’s well-being. I appreciated how it focused on fostering resilience and protecting your mental health while dealing with a narcissistic co-parent. The tips are practical and realistic, making an overwhelming situation feel more manageable. If you’re in this situation, this guide offers you valuable advice and encouragement to help you thrive.
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- Ben Clardy
- 11-22-24
A truly helpful listen. Thank you!
This guide is a valuable resource for anyone navigating the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex. It breaks down complex topics like boundary-setting, legal considerations, and emotional resilience into clear, actionable steps. The THRIVERS method is particularly helpful, offering a structured approach to maintaining control and prioritizing your children’s well-being. The tone is empathetic, acknowledging the emotional toll while empowering readers to protect themselves and their kids. If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, this book provides both understanding and practical solutions.
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- Ellie
- 12-02-24
Regain Control, Protect Your Peace
This guide offers clear, actionable advice for navigating the incredibly challenging dynamic of co-parenting with a narcissist. I found the specific methods especially helpful, they are practical and gives you tools to protect both yourself and your children. The insights on setting boundaries and recognizing manipulation felt spot-on and have already helped me approach situations with more confidence. It’s a perfect for anyone in a similar situation looking to regain control and foster a healthier environment for their kids.
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- Kat
- 11-26-24
Helpful Insights
I listened to this audiobook to better understand how to support my friend who is dealing with a difficult co-parent. It offers practical advice and straightforward strategies that make sense for anyone in this situation. I appreciated the compassionate approach-it emphasizes protecting the children's well-being while setting firm boundaries. The tips felt actionable and relatable, even for someone like me trying to help from the outside. This Is an excellent resource for anyone seeking meaningful support for a loved one in this tough spot.
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- Jameson
- 11-23-24
Navigate Tough Dynamics
This book offers clear, actionable advice for dealing with a manipulative co-parent, helping readers feel empowered in a tough situation. It breaks down key strategies for setting boundaries, protecting kids from toxic behavior, and navigating legal challenges. The tone feels compassionate and focused on solutions rather than placing blame, which makes it especially helpful. It's not about changing the other parent—it’s about equipping yourself to create a healthier environment for your children. A valuable resource for anyone facing this challenge.
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- Denise758
- 12-02-24
Well done!
This book does a beautiful job of teaching you how to navigate parenting when you are dealing with a self-involved and selfish co-parent. It provides practical tips and communication methods aimed at defusing any volatility between parents. This book helps you set boundaries that are crucial to successful parenting and goes even further to guide your actions in the event that the co-parent is not respecting those boundaries. It is chock full of information for all involved, parents and children. Great read!
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- Butterflywings09
- 11-23-24
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I enjoyed listening to this audiobook. I found it comforting and helpful to know that I am not alone and that others are struggling with the exact same issues I am. I thought the advice was valuable and it made a lot of sense. i feel stronger after listening to this audiobook.
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