What happens when the fantasy becomes your reality—only to leave you feeling more invisible than ever?
I thought dating a billionaire would be the dream.
And for a while, it was.

The private jets. The penthouses. The whispered “I miss you” from the back of a Rolls Royce. I was the woman every girl envied—draped in diamonds, invited everywhere, chosen by the man everyone wanted. But beneath the surface of the glamor was a haunting truth I could no longer ignore: I had everything… and yet I was disappearing.

This isn’t just a book about love and heartbreak.
It’s about waking up.

What I Learned from My Billionaire Ex is a raw, vulnerable, and fiercely empowering memoir that pulls back the curtain on what it’s really like to date the world’s most powerful men—and what it takes to survive it with your soul intact.

Through 11 deeply personal and wildly insightful chapters, author Astrid Star shares the lessons she learned from years of being surrounded by luxury, power, and attention—and why none of it mattered when she didn’t know her own worth.

“You can have a Birkin on your arm and still feel completely invisible.”
“You can sleep beside a billionaire and still cry yourself to sleep.”
“You can be chosen… and still feel disposable.”

From the red flags hidden in grand gestures, to the peace that’s more seductive than any lingerie, Astrid reveals how she reclaimed her voice, redefined her value, and became the woman no one could control, contain, or forget.

• Feels like she’s always “almost enough” for the men she dates

• Is tired of shrinking herself just to keep the peace

• Wants to be chosen, but doesn’t want to lose herself in the process

• Has been told to “be prettier,” “be quieter,” “be grateful”—but knows she’s meant for more

• Is done with surviving, and ready to command love, respect, and power on her terms

You’ll walk away from these pages knowing:

• What high-value men really look for in a woman (and it’s not what you’ve been taught)

• How to develop the kind of confidence that walks into a room before you do

• Why being soft, still, and feminine is more powerful than being loud and demanding

• How to protect your peace, set standards, and build a life that doesn’t revolve around being chosen

• How to become the kind of woman who never begs, never chases—and never settles again

It’s not about becoming bitter. It’s about becoming better.
More intentional. More grounded. More magnetic.

If you’ve ever loved the wrong man, if you’ve ever lost yourself trying to be “the perfect woman,” or if you’re ready to attract not just a high-value man—but a high-value life—this book was written for you.

Read it. Highlight it. Gift it to the women you love.

Because once you read What I Learned from My Billionaire Ex…
you’ll never see love, men, or yourself the same way again.