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Unexpected Keys to the Kingdom of Connection
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Peter Parnegg
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Peter Parnegg
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Have you ever left a conversation asking yourself, Am I boring or dull? Or did I say something offensive? Did I talk too much? You’re not alone.
For forty years, Peter Parnegg thought he’d perfected the art of selling. A successful CEO and international speaker, he knew firsthand the requirements of a high-functioning sales organization. But after countless interactions with clients, agents, and managers, he realized the industry’s prevailing wisdom was fundamentally flawed. The answer? Don’t sell. Ask questions. Good questions.
In this illuminating book steeped in the conceptual and the practical, Parnegg weaves a narrative through his personal and professional ventures to demonstrate that conversational skills are vital to success in all domains—be that in the C-suite or the marriage suite. The principles Parnegg advances draw not only on business acumen but also on social psychology, psychoanalysis, and spiritual study.
Whether you’re a CEO or a stay-at-home parent, an entrepreneur or an everyday confidante, Why Bother Asking? provides a blueprint for deeper, clearer and more intimate connections, and gives you instantly applicable tools—both simple and profound—to become a truly masterful communicator.
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- Matthew harr
- 01-16-25
very inspiring
loved this book! very insightful and inspiring. has alot of great tips for anyone trying to change their mindset.
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- Deborah S.
- 07-29-24
Who doesn’t love a good a question
I am a big fan of Peter and I’ve been looking forward to the Audible release of his book. Peter’s teaching, and story telling ability once again left me wanting to learn more. I look forward to listening to his book multiple times so I can continue to grow as a questionnaire.
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- Guy and Elle
- 08-16-24
Great Reminders
really good reminders for how to keep conversations alive and connect with people on a deeper level instead of just the standard "How are you? I'm fine." conversations that lead nowhere.
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