You’re Not Addicted to Them. You’re Addicted to the Pain
Why You Keep Holding On to People Who Keep Hurting You
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Lena Hartley
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About this listen
Are you trapped in a relationship that hurts more than it heals—yet you still can’t walk away?
You know they’re not good for you. You’ve cried, questioned, and convinced yourself to leave… yet something always pulls you back. This isn’t love. This is emotional addiction—and it’s not your fault.
In You’re Not Addicted to Them. You’re Addicted to the Pain, Lena Hartley gently untangles the roots of trauma bonding, revealing why so many strong, self-aware women find themselves stuck in cycles of hurt, hope, and heartbreak. This isn’t just a book about letting go. It’s a mirror, a guide, and a warm hand for anyone who keeps giving love to people who only give pain.
Inside, you’ll discover:
– Why your nervous system craves the chaos it fears
– The hidden link between childhood neglect and toxic love
– How to break free without needing closure
– The difference between real love and emotional highs
– Daily practices to rebuild trust with yourself
This is the book for the woman who’s tired of breaking her own heart.
You don’t need to earn love by enduring pain. You deserve peace that doesn’t ask you to shrink. And healing starts the moment you realize: you are not hard to love—you just got used to pain.