Summary

In this episode, the hosts interview Keisha, a detective in the NYPD. Keisha shares her journey of becoming a police officer and the influence her older sister, who works for the FBI, had on her career choice. The conversation also touches on growing up in the South Bronx, memories of the Boys and Girls Club, and the importance of community support. Keisha discusses her experience at the police academy, including the physical training and camaraderie among trainees. She also talks about the challenges she faced as a female officer and the lack of representation of black women in the academy. In this part of the conversation, Kiesh talks about her experience working in the Bronx as a police officer. She highlights the importance of diversity and camaraderie within the police force. Kiesh also shares some funny and embarrassing moments she had on the job. She discusses the changes she has seen in the department over her 18-year career, including the impact of technology and the shift in motivations for becoming a police officer. Kiesh emphasizes the importance of treating people with respect and empathy, even when making arrests. The conversation in this segment revolves around the intersection of personal and professional life for police officers. Kiesh shares her experience of trying to balance her work as a cop with her personal life, including her relationship and motherhood. She admits that it was challenging to separate the two and that she neglected her home life at times due to her dedication to her job. Kiesh also discusses the importance of maintaining a work-life balance and taking accountability for the impact it can have on relationships. The conversation then shifts to the topic of mental health and the pressures that come with being a police officer. Kiesh emphasizes the need for officers to prioritize their mental well-being and seek support when needed. She also acknowledges that everyone has some degree of mental health issues and that it's important to address them. The segment concludes with a discussion about the role of detectives and the satisfaction that comes from solving cases and helping others. The conversation concludes with a discussion about building positive relationships between the community and law enforcement. The guests emphasize the importance of treating police officers with respect and understanding that not all officers are the same. They also highlight the need for better representation of the positive work that police officers do in the media. The guests express their willingness to work together in the future to bridge the gap between the community and law enforcement. The conversation ends with a heartfelt plea to find a missing friend and a reminder of the strong bond between the guests.

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In this podcast episode, the hosts introduce their guest, Stacey Williams, a former police officer in New York City. Stacey shares her journey of becoming a police officer, starting from her childhood in Queens to her time in the police academy. She discusses the challenges she faced, the impact on her personal life and family, and the perception of being a police officer in her neighborhood. Stacey also talks about her experiences patrolling different boroughs and the importance of communication and empathy in policing. In this part of the conversation, Stacey discusses the challenges she faced as a black female police officer. She talks about the lack of respect and racism she experienced from both colleagues and the public. Stacey emphasizes the importance of maintaining self-respect and not compromising her values. She also mentions the prevalence of drinking culture within law enforcement. The conversation touches on the topic of interactions between police officers and civilians, with differing perspectives on rights and authority. Stacey advises aspiring female officers to stay mentally strong, stay true to themselves, and make a positive impact. The conversation explores the relationship between police officers and the community, discussing the role of social media in shaping perceptions. The participants discuss the importance of holding police officers accountable for their actions and the need for officers to intervene when witnessing misconduct. They also touch on the challenges officers face in balancing their personal lives with the demands of the job. The conversation highlights the need for better relationships between the police and the community, as well as the importance of education and understanding in overcoming the stigma associated with being a police officer. In this conversation, Stacey discusses the perception of young Black men being arrested more than other groups. She challenges the notion and suggests that it is the media's portrayal that creates this perception. Stacey also emphasizes the importance of parenting and discipline in shaping the behavior of young people. The conversation touches on the 'Raise the Age' policy and the need for accountability in the justice system. The hosts and Stacey also discuss the changing demographics of professions like teaching and law enforcement, as well as the importance of community involvement and mentorship.

Takeaways

AAU is a popular and competitive youth basketball program that provides opportunities for young athletes to develop their skills and compete at a high level.

Running an AAU program can be challenging, especially when it comes to funding and dealing with parents who have high expectations for their children.

Accountability is crucial in coaching youth athletes, and holding them responsible for their mistakes can help them improve and succeed.

There are stigmas surrounding AAU, but it can also offer many benefits, such as exposure to college recruiters and opportunities to compete against top talent.

Building a successful AAU team requires dedication, hard work, and strong relationships with players, parents, and sponsors. The lack of sponsorship and financing can be a major challenge for youth basketball programs.

Having a good platform and coaching can greatly impact the development of young players.

Some parents may not support local programs and choose to send their kids elsewhere.

Attitude and coachability are important factors for success in basketball.

Building connections and relationships with players can lead to opportunities and success in tournaments. Running an AAU basketball program involves significant financial challenges, including tournament fees, travel expenses, and hotel accommodations.

Fundraising is crucial for AAU programs, but it can be difficult to get parents to contribute.

NBA players should invest back into grassroots basketball programs to support the next generation of players.

Connections and relationships with college coaches are essential for helping players get recruited.

Rasheem Martin's goals include reaching the level of Nike EYBL and becoming a high school head coach. Coaching requires patience and a commitment to the players' development.

Promoting girls' basketball is important and should be encouraged.

Organizing basketball tournaments can be challenging but rewarding.

Giving back to the community through sports events can have a positive impact. AAU basketball faces challenges such as lack of loyalty and funding

Paying players in AAU is becoming more common

There is a need for resources and support in AAU

Giving back to the community is important

Organizing a tournament or training program can be a way to make a positive impact

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In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the topic of body shaming and its impact on individuals, particularly women. They explore the causes of body shaming, including societal pressures, unhealthy eating habits, and the influence of social media. The conversation also touches on the emotional toll of body shaming, with personal anecdotes shared by the hosts. They discuss the rise of cosmetic procedures, such as BBLs, and the dangers associated with them. The hosts also examine the role of social media in shaping beauty standards and the pressure to conform. They conclude by discussing the changing dynamics of dating and the influence of social media on relationships. The conversation explores the impact of social media on relationships and body image. The hosts discuss how social media has changed the way people get to know each other and the prevalence of catfishing. They also delve into the culture of body shaming and the pressure to conform to societal beauty standards. The conversation highlights the importance of focusing on inner qualities rather than physical appearance and the negative effects of body shaming on mental health. They also touch on the role of technology in the lives of children and the need for balance in their exposure to it.

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In this episode, the hosts discuss finances within relationships with guest speakers Dominic and Allison Rouse. They share their personal experiences and strategies for managing finances as a couple. The Rouses emphasize the importance of communication, joint bank accounts, and budgeting. They also discuss their journey to homeownership and the process of obtaining a mortgage. The episode highlights the significance of trust, accountability, and planning in achieving financial stability as a couple. In this part of the conversation, the topics discussed include protecting assets, the importance of life insurance, and retirement planning. The guests express their lack of knowledge about protecting assets and the need for insurance policies. They discuss the benefits of life insurance and the importance of having coverage to avoid burdening loved ones. The conversation also touches on the need for proper retirement planning and the lack of education on the topic. The guests express their desire to learn more about retirement plans and the importance of starting early. In this conversation, the hosts and guests discuss various topics related to finances, marriage, and personal growth. They emphasize the importance of being aware of scams and protecting personal information. They also highlight the significance of getting married at a young age and having a supportive partner. The conversation touches on retirement planning, including the importance of having a 401k and health savings account (HSA). The guests share their experiences with finding jobs after their athletic careers and stress the importance of being financially savvy. They also discuss the role of a supportive partner in personal and financial growth. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the financial challenges and opportunities for young athletes.

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In this episode, the hosts continue their discussion on basketball legends of the South Bronx. They address discrepancies from the previous episode and invite callers to share their perspectives. The conversation covers various players and their skills, including Headbanger, Peanut, Kenny Black, DMACC, Tyree, and Chappelle. The hosts also discuss competition and the different eras of basketball in the neighborhood. The conversation revolves around reminiscing about their basketball experiences and the players they knew. They discuss their memories of playing with and against each other, as well as the skills and personalities of various players. They mention the importance of coaching and the impact it had on their development as basketball players. The conversation also touches on the undefeated seasons they had in junior high school and the competitive nature of their neighborhood basketball games. The conversation revolves around the experiences and memories of the participants in basketball tournaments and games. They discuss the importance of coaching and listening to coaches, as well as the impact of age and hustling on their basketball careers. They also mention players who stood out and had successful careers. The conversation includes debates about individual performances and the exaggeration of statistics. The conversation revolves around the experiences of the participants playing basketball in various tournaments and leagues. They discuss rivalries, playing against tough competition, and the importance of fundamentals. They also mention specific players and teams they encountered during their basketball journey. The conversation highlights the growth and development that comes from playing in organized tournaments and facing skilled opponents. The conversation in this part revolves around the importance of discipline, fundamentals, and team play in basketball. The speakers discuss their experiences playing in the park and how it differs from organized basketball. They also touch on the role of coaching and mentoring in guiding young players. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the Safehood Avily program and its focus on mentoring and providing opportunities for youth. The conversation covers various topics related to basketball and personal experiences. The participants discuss their memories of playing basketball in their neighborhood and the impact of certain players. They also touch on the importance of giving credit to players who may not be well-known but had a significant impact. The conversation ends with expressions of gratitude and appreciation.

Summary

In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss basketball legends from the 90s in the South Bronx. They introduce themselves and share their backgrounds in basketball. They talk about the differences in playing styles and competition between Queens and the Bronx. The hosts also discuss the importance of representing their hoods and the struggles they faced growing up. They highlight the talent they encountered while playing at 134 and reminisce about their experiences. The conversation revolves around reminiscing about basketball experiences and the impact it had on their lives. They discuss playing with and against each other, recalling specific players and games. They highlight the competitiveness and toughness of the Bronx basketball scene. The PSAL (Public Schools Athletic League) is mentioned as a significant achievement. Overall, the conversation is filled with nostalgia and appreciation for the game of basketball. The conversation revolves around discussing the players who were giving out the most work in their neighborhood. They emphasize the importance of being specific and mention different age groups and locations. They mention several players who were known for their skills, including X, Tyreek, Charlie Rock, Daru, and Eric. They also discuss the different crossovers they used in their games, with X explaining the two types of crossovers he and his friend Ryle practiced. They also mention other players who had impressive crossovers, such as C-Hall. The conversation ends with a discussion about the impact of playing against Andre Barrett and Kenny Satterfield. The conversation in this part revolves around the competitive nature of basketball and the experiences of the participants in various basketball leagues and teams. They discuss the pressure to perform, the talent of players from different schools, and the intense competition in Kips Bay. They also touch on the importance of having footage to validate their skills and the changing dynamics of basketball in the current era. The conversation revolves around reminiscing about past experiences and players in their neighborhood basketball games. They discuss the intensity and competitiveness of the games, the players who stood out, and the sense of community that was present. They also touch on the change in the atmosphere and the lack of the same level of competition in current games. The conversation in this part revolves around the topic of basketball and the players' experiences and opinions. There is some disagreement about who the best players are and the significance of playing in different neighborhoods and schools. The participants discuss their own basketball experiences and the reasons why some people stopped playing. The conversation ends with a suggestion to settle the debate through a one-on-one basketball game. The conversation in this part revolves around reminiscing about basketball players from the neighborhood and their skills. They mention various players and their abilities, including Kenny Black, Oosie, Peter, Corey Cantin, and more. They discuss the competitive nature of the games they played and the intense heat they endured during tournaments. They also acknowledge the impact of certain players in motivating others to improve their skills. Overall, the conversation highlights the talent and camaraderie among basketball players in the neighborhood. The conversation concludes with reminiscing about past basketball games and players. They discuss the competitiveness of the games and the growth they witnessed in each other's skills. They mention players like Smurf, Boo Harvey, and Headbanger who were talented and made an impact. They express appreciation for each other and the memories they shared.

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In this conversation, the hosts discuss the topic of life after divorce and the challenges of relationships after a breakup. They explore the reasons for divorce, including financial issues and infidelity. The hosts share personal experiences and perspectives on the topic, highlighting the importance of communication, being on the same page, and trust in a relationship. They also touch on the fear of failure and the impact of divorce on future relationships. Overall, the conversation provides insights into the complexities of relationships and the aftermath of divorce. The conversation explores the impact of relationships on children and the importance of positive role models. The speakers discuss the challenges of co-parenting and the potential effects of abandonment on children. They emphasize the need for children to see healthy relationships and the difficulty of providing both maternal and paternal energy as a single parent. The speakers also reflect on their own experiences and the role their parents played in shaping their views on relationships. They highlight the importance of communication, love, and guidance in raising children. The conversation explores the importance of male role models and the impact they have on shaping individuals' understanding of relationships and partnerships. The speakers discuss their personal experiences growing up without both parents in the household and the influence of uncles and other male figures in their lives. They highlight the need for positive male role models who can teach young men how to treat women and navigate relationships. The conversation also touches on the challenges of co-parenting and the importance of maintaining a connection between a child and a non-biological parent, even after a breakup. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the significance of healthy relationships and the role they play in shaping individuals' perspectives on love and partnership.