Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they reveal a powerful tool that helps people worldwide determine whether they’re being mistreated or experiencing something more profound. They walk through the 10 most common signs of mistreatment and how even well-meaning partners can cause harm without realizing it. You’ll also learn how your past may affect what you tolerate now—and what to do if your heart, mind, and gut don’t agree. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode will help you recognize red flags early and give you the clarity to take the next step.

Show notes:
(2:18) What is the mistreatment scorecard?
(4:06) Green, yellow, red: Growth skittles and top 10 mistreatments
(7:38) Why your gut often knows first
(10:29) Small mistreatment can lead to abuse
(11:54) Bonnie has this to say about Alan and Emilia's Relationship Talks.
(13:31) Rational lies: Why we stay too long
(17:05) Unseen mistreatment
(20:13) Growth comes from honest scoring
(22:52) Outro

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