Janna is joined by licensed professional counselor Dr. Jake Porter to explore the complex dynamics of shame and secrecy surrounding pornography and sex addiction in relationships. They discuss the role of denial and defense mechanisms while emphasizing the value of the therapeutic disclosure process. Listeners will receive advice on where to seek help and how to navigate the healing journey.

Dr. Porter shares insights on the importance of being honest with your partner and the potential damage caused by withholding information. He explains why addressing the root causes of addiction—rather than simply stopping the behavior—is essential for the health of the relationship. Finally, he discusses the rewards of this transformative journey, highlighting how embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth and enrich your relationship.

Find all of Dr Jake Porter's resources here: https://drjakeporter.com/

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