Parenting in a blended family can be tough — especially when your ex has completely different rules and expectations.

Today, we're tackling a common source of frustration: navigating household differences. We'll uncover the four biggest myths that keep blended couples stuck and reveal the counteractive truths that bring clarity, confidence, and collaboration.

Plus, we’ll share our Four A’s strategy for communicating with your ex to build more consistency between homes.

You'll Discover:

• The four myths about parenting across different households—and what you can do to move beyond delusion, confusion, and frustration.
• How to establish healthy boundaries in your home without trying to control the other home.
• Why "Our home is our zone" should be your mantra.
• How to avoid fear-based parenting and hold firm to your values—even when they don't align with the other home.
• A simple four-step communication framework to foster better co-parenting collaboration and create more consistency for your kids.

Resources from this Episode:

• All Episodes on Parenting and Discipline
• All Episodes on Co-Parenting

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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Resources

Episode 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with your Ex-Spouse

Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress

Episode 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two Homes

Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the Kids

Episode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former Spouse

Episode 67. The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already Know

Episode 31. Unexpected Ways to Improve How You Cope with You Ex

Episode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids

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Ready for some extra support?

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Does it ever feel like you are miles apart as a couple when it comes to leading your blended family?

In this episode, we dive into the most common partnership pitfalls that couples face. From feeling unheard and untrusted to navigating misaligned parenting expectations, we unpack the challenges that often create disconnection, stress and conflict. We also share practical tools to shift from frustration to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork.

You'll Discover:

• How assumptions about each other's motives can fuel conflict
• The impact of feeling unheard or untrusted in a blended family dynamic
• Practical strategies to stay connected and solve problems together
• How to build resiliency and effective communication in your relationship

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting: Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1)
• Episode 205. 4 Facets of Parenting: What Bio-Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes (Part 2)
• Episode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family?
• Episode 134. How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a Couple
• Episode 59. Why are you stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance?
• Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them Out
• Episode 167. Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family
• Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]
• Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress
• Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids
• Episode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship?
• Episode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United Team
• Episode 79. 4 Conflict Communication Patterns That are Hurtful and Toxic to Your Relationship
• Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United
• Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (The Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic)

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a FREE coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Join us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/