• Biblical Priorities in Your Blended Family
    Jul 21 2025

    Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family podcast episodes! Living blended their entire lives, Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first hand both the joys and difficulties of living blended. After coming out of one of the hardest seasons of their life, God asked them to partner with Him, in building Blended Kingdom Families everywhere. This has now birthed a ministry that desires to help others in remarriage and cultivate community among blended families.

    Today Scott and Vanessa share biblical truths in how you can establish the right priorities in your blended family. How do you prioritize God, your marriage, your children, and everything else in between? When your priorities are in line, the dynamics of your blended family will drastically change for the better!

    Thanks for watching and we look forward to walking with you on your blended family journey!

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    26 mins
  • Triggered Parenting Transformed with Special Guest Wendy Speake
    Jul 14 2025

    What triggers you and how do you respond when it happens? Triggers are real, and they are tough to manage, but they do not have to define you! Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family Podcast episodes!

    In this powerful episode, we’re joined by author Wendy Speake to unpack what it looks like to face triggers head-on, especially in parenting and blended families. Together, we explore practical strategies for breaking the cycle of reactive behavior and embracing God’s redemptive grace in the hardest moments.

    Wendy Speake is a mother, host of the 40 Day Sugar Fast, and co-author of the book Triggers. She brings wisdom, warmth, and real-life stories to this honest conversation. If you’ve ever wished you could rewrite your response to triggers, this episode is for you!


    We pray this episode blesses you today!


    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    32 mins
  • Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: Healthy Parental Influence
    Jul 7 2025

    Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they revisit one of the most impactful episodes of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. In this must-listen conversation they explore how parental behavior shapes the emotional, spiritual and relational development of children in blended families.

    Whether you are a stepparent, co-parent or navigating a new season of remarriage, this episode dives into how your daily actions influence your child's understanding of love, conflict, marriage, and grace. Kids are always watching and what they see becomes part of who they become. Discover how to model intentional parenting lead with compassion and reflect Christ in your blended family journey.

    Key topics include healthy parental influence in stepfamilies, the silent power of role modeling, teaching grace, kindness, and love by example, why your kids future relationships depend on what they see today and more!

    Want to learn more practical tips and strategies to help your blended family thrive? Order a copy of Blended and Redeemed today!

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    17 mins
  • Facing New Family Challenges Together: Working Through Child Manipulation
    Jun 30 2025

    We continue to relive our top BKF episode and in this week’s episode, we look at Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation behaviors. We discuss strategies for recovering from such behaviors as well as sharing steps toward building a better, healthier co-parenting relationship.

    The pain of divorce can cause us to speak and act in ways that we never would have expected and can negatively impact our children. Examining our hearts on a daily basis can help us to overcome any spirit of fear that may cause us to behave in unhealthy ways. You can find more episodes about Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation on our YouTube channel or search "blended kingdom families podcast" on any streaming platform. Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which is available NOW! Order your copy today!

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    32 mins
  • Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation with Special Guest Dr. Les Carter
    Jun 23 2025

    We are so excited to relive this top episode, “Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation”, with Dr. Les Carter. Dr. Carter is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me".

    IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

    - How to handle a narcissistic ex-spouse

    - What child manipulation looks like

    - Teaching your child to know the essence of love

    - Parent alienation

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    35 mins
  • Blended & Redeemed: Blended Families, God’s Redemption
    Jun 16 2025

    As we continue celebrating 5 years and over 270 episodes of the BKF Podcast, we’re revisiting the most powerful, hope-filled conversations we’ve shared with you!

    In this week’s top episode, we discuss blended families as a beautiful example of God’s redeeming power. Everything we bring with us into our blending journey - pain, fear, anger, resentment, expectations - can be revealed and healed by our Heavenly Father if we surrender it into His hands. The fire you and your family may be walking through is no match for God’s power and love. He can lead you out of any wilderness season.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    15 mins
  • Biological Parent and Stepparent Relationships: Comparison & Competition Between Biological Parent and Stepparent
    Jun 9 2025

    Join us as we relive our top BKF episodes of all time! Up first, Rachel Scott joins us on the podcast for a discussion about biological and stepparent relationships. She joins Scott and Vanessa to talk about the problem of comparison and competition and the reasons those traps surface, particularly for women. They talk about the value of humility and empathy in the biological parent/stepparent relationship and offer suggestions for better interactions.

    To learn more about Rachel Scott visit:
    Website: www.rachelgscott.com
    Instagram URL: iamrachelgscott
    Facebook URL: iamrachelgscott

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    26 mins
  • Unified Parenting in Blended Families
    Jun 2 2025

    Struggling to get on the same page with parenting in your blended family? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale share practical, biblical advice for couples who feel divided when it comes to parenting and discipline. This episode will help you learn practical skills to protect your marriage, raise confident kids, and bring peace back into your home.

    Key points discussed:

    What to do when your parenting styles clash

    How to build a unified plan with your spouse

    Discipline strategies that actually work

    How to avoid putting kids before your marriage

    When to get help and why it's worth it


    We pray this episode blesses you today!

    Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
    Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
    To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
    For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

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    18 mins