In this episode, I dive into the inevitable moments when life simply doesn't go as planned. Whether it's missing a hotel booking, dealing with unexpected work mishaps, or just backing into a garage door, I talk about the power of giving ourselves grace during these times. I share a practical three-step framework to help you respond intentionally: take care of yourself first, thoughtfully handle the situation, and then move forward. I also answer a thoughtful listener question about balancing life roles and how having too many—or too few—can impact our fulfillment. Life’s messes are universal, but how we handle them determines our growth, our peace, and ultimately, our joy.

"When you hold on to the thing that went wrong, your arms get heavy." – Trina Gray

Key Takeaways:

• Give yourself permission to feel emotions and process mistakes with healthy outlets like walking or journaling.

• Life will throw curveballs—what matters is how we choose to respond.

• Use my three-step framework: care for yourself, respond to the issue, and then release it.

• Letting go of anger and resentment is a gift you give to yourself and those around you.

• Take a closer look at your roles in life—too many may stretch you thin, too few may leave you unfulfilled.

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In this episode, I open up about how life, relationships, careers, and even holidays can evolve—and still be completely right for where we are now. I share personal stories, including how I’ve handled grief during Mother’s Day, navigated changes in my direct sales career, and adjusted my health routines as I’ve grown older. These experiences have taught me that just because something looks different, doesn’t mean it’s wrong. In fact, embracing change has helped me feel more grounded and confident. My hope is that you’ll use this podcast as a toolbox—filled with practical lessons and real-life insights—to guide you through your own transitions and help you live a calm, intentional life.

"Things can look different and still be right." – Trina Gray

• Life changes—big or small—can still align with who I am today.
• “Right” for me now doesn’t mean perfect; it just means what fits in this season.
• Holidays have changed after personal loss, but they still hold space for gratitude.
• I’ve accepted that relationships evolve, and that’s part of growing with grace.
• My approach to health and self-care now looks different, and that’s perfectly okay.

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In this episode of the Calm and Confident Podcast, I share a game-changing lesson I learned back in 2013 that completely reshaped how I approach productivity and well-being: the power of managing life through roles. I open up about how I used to juggle over a dozen roles—mom, wife, business owner, coach, friend, and more—and how it led me straight to burnout. After attending a Franklin Covey workshop, I discovered that simplifying my life into just five or six meaningful roles, including one dedicated solely to self-care, brought me more success and peace than I ever imagined. I walk you through how to identify, prioritize, and define success in your current roles—so you can lead a more intentional, energized life.

Key Topics:

• Recognizing when you’re juggling too many life roles and how to trim them down

• Why self-care should be a non-negotiable, primary role in your life

• Understanding that roles are flexible and can shift over time

• Balancing your roles by defining both feelings and metrics of success

• Practical strategies to reassess and realign your roles for long-term well-being

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