• Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working (And What Parents Need Instead) with Parenting Coach Danielle Linder
    Jul 15 2025

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    Has gentle parenting gone too far?

    In this episode, we sit down with parenting coach and early childhood expert Danielle Lindner to unpack the growing backlash against gentle parenting. Danielle shares why the approach is often misunderstood, how it can easily tip into permissive territory, and what boundaries kids actually need to thrive.

    We talk about:

    • The difference between gentle and permissive parenting
    • Why “being nice” isn’t the same as being effective
    • How to set firm limits without yelling or losing your cool
    • The guilt parents feel about saying “no” and why we need to let that go
    • Tools for raising confident, respectful kids who still feel seen and heard

    Whether you’re feeling burned out by meltdowns or second-guessing your parenting style, this one’s for you. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about being intentional.

    Buy Danielle's book, Parent’s Pocket Guide to Surviving the Preschool Years: One Challenge at a Time on Amazon.

    Follow her @parentingtakespractice

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • From Burnout to Bass Drops: Why Michelle Left a Successful Business to Chase Joy
    Jul 7 2025

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    What happens when the life you thought you wanted turns out to be the very thing burning you out?

    In this episode, we sit down with the radiant and rebellious Michelle Keinan, somatic therapist, mom, wife, and former 6-figure online coach who walked away from the hustle, the clients, and the “you’re so successful” compliments to pursue something totally unexpected: becoming a DJ.

    We dive deep into what it really means to live a rich life (spoiler: it’s not about money), how to escape the comparison trap on social media, and why so many of us feel stuck chasing someone else’s version of success.

    If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, is this it?, or feeling like you’re living a life that looks good on the outside but doesn’t feel aligned on the inside, this one’s for you.

    Follow Michelle and her magnetic, truth-telling energy at @michellekeinan

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • The Truth About Stepmom Life: Boundaries, Bonding & Bio-Moms
    Jul 7 2025

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    On this episode of Can I Be Honest, Valentina sits down with Christina from the Radical Stepmoms podcast for a raw and revealing conversation about what it really means to be a stepmom.

    Navigating discipline and household rules, dealing with tricky dynamics with the bio-mom, they cover the real-life challenges (and joys) of blending families.

    They dive into questions like:
    — Does it matter how old the kids are when you join a blended family?
    — How do you bond with step-kids in a way that feels natural and respectful?
    — What pressures and double standards do stepmoms face compared to stepdads?

    Valentina also opens up about her personal journey as a stepmom to an 8-year-old and a 13-year-old and how she’s learning to define her role on her own terms.

    Whether you're a seasoned stepmom, new to the role, or just curious about the modern dynamics of blended families, this episode is full of insight, validation, and a lot of heart.

    Follow @radicalstepmoms to connect with Christina!

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    58 mins
  • One Size Doesn’t Fit All: Rethinking Education for Our Kids with Lena
    Jun 9 2025

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    In this episode, our friend Lena talks about how the pandemic changed everything for her in terms of her son's education and how she pursued a homeschool route for him. She also wanted to pursue an education style that allowed her to spend more time with her son. Now at 13, she describes what her relationship is like with her son after homeschooling for the last few years.

    Lina shares her personal experience being homeschooled during middle school and how it shaped her views on learning, independence, and socialization. Valentina opens up about the complexities of being in a blended family, where her step-kids are in public school and making a different choice for her daughter isn’t so simple.

    We unpack the pros and cons of public school, homeschooling, and alternative education styles especially when it comes to kids with learning differences. We get honest about IEPs and flexible (or not so flexible) schedules, parent guilt to peer pressure, we explore what it really means to choose the “right” education path for your child… and how sometimes, there isn’t just one right answer.

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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Grief Cracked Her Open, Now She Helps Others Find Their Path with Michelle Thornton
    Jun 3 2025

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    In this deeply emotional episode, we sit down with Michelle Thornton—a former teacher whose world was turned upside down by the devastating loss of her daughter.

    What followed wasn’t just grief, it was a complete spiritual awakening. Michelle shares how that unimaginable pain cracked her open, igniting a journey that led her to leave the classroom and step fully into her purpose as a Life Path Mentor and Spiritual Teacher.

    We talk about what it means to surrender to the unknown, how to find light in the darkest moments, and why grief can be the portal to the most profound transformation.

    This conversation is raw, real, and a powerful reminder that even the deepest heartbreak can become a sacred turning point.

    Learn more about Michelle's coaching sessions, 1:1 mentorship, group coaching program, and more here.

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    1 hr and 27 mins
  • Emma Grede Said What?! The Myth of "Work-Life Balance" & the Reality of Ambitious Moms
    May 28 2025

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    This week we’re diving headfirst into the viral Emma Grede interview on Diary of a CEO. You know—the one where she came for remote work culture and had opinions about modern-day leadership?

    Valentina (popular coffee shop owner) and Lina (corporate mama at a global tech giant) share their hot takes on Emma’s bold claims.

    We also go there:

    💻 Why we AGREE with a lot of Emma's hot takes

    👶 Why we’re not fans of gentle parenting

    📈 What work-life balance actually looks like when you’re juggling kids and motherhood

    If you're a fellow working mom, whether you're an entrepreneur or corporate mom or somewhere in between, this episode is your cathartic cup of tea.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • When Addiction Takes a Parent: Conversations About Grief, Healing, and Parenthood
    May 19 2025

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    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses addiction, death, and grief. Please take care while listening.

    In this deeply emotional episode, Lina and Valentina sit down with Amber to have a conversation that doesn’t get talked about enough: what it’s like to love someone and co-parent with someone who struggles with addiction—and what happens when they don’t survive it.

    Both guests are now parenting after the loss of an ex-partner to substance abuse. Together, they reflect on:

    • Loving someone in active addiction
    • The emotional complexity of grieving someone who caused pain but was still loved
    • How they speak to their children about their fathers
    • The stigma that follows addiction-related deaths
    • What healing has looked like for them, and where they are today

    This is a raw and honest episode that offers comfort, perspective, and solidarity for anyone who’s navigated addiction, grief, or solo parenting after loss.

    🕊️ This one is for anyone who’s lost someone to addiction and is left to pick up the pieces with love and grace.

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • The Truth About Marriage Nobody Posts About on Instagram
    May 13 2025

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    In this episode, Valentina and Lina get honest about marriage and modern relationships, and why love isn’t always pretty...or easy. They share how they met their partners, what keeps them together, and what almost drove them apart. Spoiler: it’s not always fairy tale vibes.

    There are some hot takes, including that instant gratification culture is ruining modern relationships and the myth that relationships should be “effortless”. They unpack why so many couples throw in the towel too soon and why sticking it out can actually be the most rewarding choice of all.

    If you've ever questioned your relationship, struggled in your marriage, or just want to hear two besties talk honestly about what it takes to make love last, this episode is for you.

    Disclaimer: We want to be very clear: when we talk about sticking it out in a marriage, we are not referring to situations involving domestic violence, emotional abuse, or unsafe dynamics. No one should ever feel obligated to stay in a harmful relationship. Your safety and well-being come first, always. If you are in an unsafe situation, please seek support from a trusted resource or professional.

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    1 hr and 6 mins