When we keep attracting relationships that drain us or hold us back, it's because there is still unresolved trauma and anxiety is driving our decisions.

This can be hard to hear, especially for those who've done a lot of work on themselves.  But there's a gift in this pattern, and if we can use this as a way to get motivated to finally heal it, you CAN have the relationhip you deserve.

To help us transform residual trauma and anxiety so we can receive the healthy, supportive relationship we deserve, our guest-- anxiety expert and author Silvia Araya--shares her tips.

We will discuss insights from her new book “Is this what you REALLY want? How to Go Beyond Trauma into the Relationship You Deserve”, including how to heal trauma, reduce anxiety and align yourself with the relationship you want.  

We cover:

•  How to know yourself first, accept and love where you are, and exactly who you are….traumas and everything
•  Have a better relationship with yourself
•  How to better know what you don't and do want outside of your trauma.
•  Don’t take anything less than what you REALLY want, because this is what you deserve.

CONNECT WITH SILVIA AND GET HER BOOK:

Silvia is a Clinical Trauma Professional and Numerologist. She studied Psychology, Trauma-Informed Yoga, Family Constellations, Bach Flower Therapy, among many. Her first book (Trust and live without Panic) is about her own experience with panic attacks and anxiety and how she developed her way to heal with a combination of techniques with a spiritual touch.

 https://www.instagram.com/silvia_araya_psy/

https://www.facebook.com/silvia.araya.psy

https://twitter.com/TrustAndNoPanic

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsxOAosGGwmlAaOCECKYqUw

https://www.amazon.com/this-what-REALLY-Want-Relationship/dp/B0BP495VNV

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If you're in a relationship or job that looks great on paper but feels out of alignment with your spirit, then you won't want to miss this episode!

This week's guest, best-selling author and global retreat leader Cory Calvin, faced that same scenario.  After a successful 16-year finance and strategy career with global corporations, Cory left it all behind and reinvented himself to live the life that his spirit was calling for.  He tuned out the fearful warnings of people who thought he was crazy to make such a huge shift, but he listened to his heart and left his gilded cage. He became his own wing man, looking within for his truth and owning it!

Now he's living his purpose as the creator of an ecosystem of transformational offerings--from retreats to books--to help people discover and achieve their dreams as soon as possible in life--and not when they retire or meet a partner.  He is the author of two best-selling books and a gratitude journal, leads inspirational and life-changing retreats around the globe, and mentors groups and individuals on personal and physical wellness.

Cory plays and coaches competitive volleyball and is always finding ways to improve his holistic health - mind, body and soul. His home base is Florida, USA, but is most likely somewhere around the globe working on his goal of visiting every country.

CONNECT WITH CORY:

Follow his adventures on Instagram @cory.calvin.
Check Out His Books & Trips https://www.corycalvin.com/links

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 Some people want to date someone wealthy because they’re not empowered in their relationship with money.

 Unfortunately, the less empowered you are around money, the more likely you will keep attracting others with the same issue. Like dating, you want to woo your money instead of trying to control it or avoid it out of fear.

Once you get the lesson, the universe doesn’t have to keep sending it!

To help you do just that, our guest expert this week on Dating is Such a Drag podcast is Susan Shloss, Certified Money Coach (CMC)®.  She is passionate about facilitating breakthroughs in her clients’ relationship with money. By combining practical financial expertise with intuitive inspiration, she guides her clients to ground the spiritual into the material, opening the door to greater prosperity on all levels. 

 With more than 20 years in the financial services industry, Susan has worked as an investment specialist and operations manager at Charles Schwab and built a 6-figure bookkeeping business. 

She is also an accomplished violinist, using her music to heal! Susan’s Music Therapy degree informs her work as a coach and musician, providing sound healing with violin to enhance the experience of her audience. She brings her longtime study of energy healing, bodywork, yoga, and a lifelong meditation practice to support her clients in the self-care at the foundation of an abundant life.

FREE GIFTS FROM SUSAN:

Take the Money Type Quiz

https://susanshloss.activehosted.com/app/forms/1

10 Sacred Practices to Amplify Your Prosperity

https://moneywisdomcoach.com/10-prosperity-practices/

Schedule Your Money Insight Call with Susan 

https://hello.dubsado.com:443/public/form/view/60fefc8b1550fa150b9bfd70

Discography 

"Grateful" by Tao Theory  https://open.spotify.com/artist/71kQRdDPLHjTMCUPM8Cjrv?si=-YJANDkTQNyzSavEl3DSTg

"Auspicious Bliss" with Acharya Mangalananda and Friends

https://open.spotify.com/album/4tn56BZUeLRFGdiBlFLyrT?si=yvUNEvKcTzqdYgqroyuDjQ

CONNECT WITH SUSAN:

https://moneywisdomcoach.com/contact/ 

So many of us have trouble receiving the love we want because we are plagued by perfection -- an unattainable goal that leaves us tense and unhappy.

This week,  Jeanne and Lady Portia interview an expert who will help perfectionists let go and allow pleasure so they can receive love on a higher level.

Erica Wiederlight is a confidence coach, expert, podcaster and speaker. Her work highlights sexual empowerment, dating, love, self love and body love.  She is the podcast host of the top rated show “Welcome To The Wiederlife”. Her work has been featured in NYFW, Galore & Cosmopolitan magazine. It is Erica’s mission to help her clients feel empowered, confident and with plenty of tools to navigate anything that’s happening in their lives.

CONNECT WITH ERICA:

You can read more about her on her website: www.wethelight.org or grab her free ebook here:https://www.wethelight.org/subscribe

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One of the most awkward and emotionally charged conversations couples often don't have is about mismatched libidos, frequently leading to disconnection and conflict.

Sexologist Dr. Anya of TeachMeAboutSex.com prescribes healthy discussion to find balance between your libidos so you can boost intimacy and sexual freedom.  Learn her secrets in this juicy episode!

Connect with Dr. Anya:

https://teachmeaboutsex.com
anya@teachmeaboutsex.com
@dr_anya_sexologist on IG

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People pleasing is a sure way to wind up with the short end of the stick in relationships. During the recent holidays, many people with people pleasing tendencies get triggered, wanting to get the perfect gift and be the perfect host to the point where they wind up feeling exhausted and inadequate.

This week's guest, Relational Healing Coach Hari Alexandra, chats about how to stop people pleasing and start pleasing yourself so you can boost your happiness and attract or improve relationships. She touches on:

• How to know when you are people pleasing- learning how to be authentic with your own needs.
• Getting to know yourself, honouring what you feel and expressing it with love
• How to set boundaries from a loving place, rather than a last minute freak out
• To start witnessing the critical part of your brain that seeks perfection and relax into loving yourself as you are
• Simple practices to bring you, or you and your partner back into intimacy and harmony

Get in Touch with Hari:

www.sacredflute.org
Instagram: @sacred_flute

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This week's guest is dating podcaster Ashley Sanders, co-host of Girls Ask Guys Show.  Ashley shares amusing stories as well as trendy advice on hot topics, such as the growing tendency of people to turn every date into a potential soul mate, or u-hauling -- moving in and getting serious way too soon.

This is the perfect episode to share a lighthearted laugh while doing a gentle dating reset with the right attitude for 2023!

More About Ashley

From weekly talk radio to promoting top music talent to poscasting Ashley brings unique views and a womans perspective to dating and relationships. With over six-years of experience in the field, Ashley has tips and advice you don’t want. to miss.

Connect with Ashley

www.iknowcupid.com
https://www.facebook.com/GirlsAskGuys
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girls-ask-guys-show/id1488235978
https://www.instagram.com/girlsaskguys/

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One of the hardest parts about dating is knowing when it's time to call it quits on a relationship and getting the heart energy to start over again.

This week our expert guest is renowned breakup coach Collette Gee, author of "Finding Happily  - No Rules, No Frogs & No Pretending," who will share her insights and tips on how to know when a relationship is really at an end and how to put yourself out there again to find a healthier relationship.

In this episode she covers:

1. How to release & let go

2. The process of forgiving 

3. Breakups hurt because it’s a loss and losses hurt 

4. Why it’s harder to let go than others 

5. Stages of a breakup

More About Collette

Collette is a dating & relationship specialist with numerous certifications,
including as a Psychiatric Nurse, Violence Prevention Specialist, Leadership
Development Facilitator and in Neural Linguistic Programing (NLP). She writes,
speaks and coaches on dating and relationship issues, and has taught hundreds
of women and men how to find create and sustain meaningful, healthy
relationships. Her mission is simple but profound; to teach people how to love
harmoniously and successfully.

Connect with Collette

www.findinghappily.com
collette@findinghappily.com

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