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Ending Physician Overwhelm

Ending Physician Overwhelm

By: Megan Melo Physician and Life Coach
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I'm Megan Melo, a Physician and Life Coach. In this podcast we talk about ways in which Physicians get stuck in overwhelm, burnout and analysis-paralysis, and how we can get unstuck. I'm on a mission to help Physicians take steps towards healing from perfectionism, people-pleasing and limiting beliefs so that we can lead healthier, happier lives.To learn more, find me at www.healthierforgood.com.© 2023 Ending Physician Overwhelm Hygiene & Healthy Living Physical Illness & Disease
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  • My Million Dollar Idea
    May 27 2025

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    The Wearable Device That Could Change Everything for Physicians

    What if there was a way to get objective, real-time data about how your lifestyle choices are actually affecting your health? Not just a random cortisol test that tells you nothing actionable, but continuous monitoring that could force you to confront the truth about how you're treating your body?

    In this special car edition episode, we dive into my million-dollar idea: a continuous cortisol monitor that could revolutionize how physicians approach self-care.

    What We Talk About

    • Why random cortisol tests are basically useless (and what question I always ask patients who request them)
    • How a continuous cortisol monitor could provide the objective data your scientist brain needs to finally prioritize self-care
    • The institutionalized sacrifice of women physicians—and why the system profits from your overwork without compensating you
    • Why the self-care strategies that worked at 24 won't work at 44 (and what you need to do differently)
    • The uncomfortable truth about why you've been conditioned to ignore your body's needs

    The Million Dollar Question

    If you could see in real-time how your cortisol levels spike when you're running on four hours of sleep, grabbing donuts from the break room, and charting until midnight—what would you do with that data?

    More importantly: What will you do right now, without that monitor, knowing that your current patterns are harming your health?

    Your Homework

    Put on your imaginary continuous cortisol monitor this week. What would it be showing you? If you were tasked with reducing those levels, what one change would you make first?

    Remember: You can't continue to sacrifice your health for a system that profits from your overwork. The future of healthcare depends on you figuring out how to set limits so you can stay in the game without breaking yourself.

    Key Takeaway

    Being a woman physician doesn't have to be bad for your health—but only if you stop living into that narrative and start making choices that honor the fact that your body at this stage of life needs different care than it did 20 years ago.

    This week, choose self-compassion over self-sacrifice. Your patients, your family, and your future self will thank you.

    Let's Connect

    Need more support? Schedule a coaching consultation at https://calendly.com/healthierforgood/coaching-discovery-call

    Connect with us:

    • Website: healthierforgood.com
    • Email: megan@healthierforgood.com
    • Instagram: @meganmelomd

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share with a colleague who might benefit!

    Support the show

    To learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.

    Want to contact me directly?
    Email: megan@healthierforgood.com

    Follow me on Instagram!
    @MeganMeloMD

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    25 mins
  • Alignment vs Burnout
    May 20 2025

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    Finding Your Path to Alignment: The Antidote to Physician Burnout

    Are you feeling stuck in a perpetual slog, wondering where your passion for medicine went? You're not alone, and there's a powerful principle that can help guide you back to a place of purpose and energy.

    In this episode, we explore the concept of alignment—a state of living and making decisions that honors your core values, leverages your unique gifts, and energizes you through your passions and interests.

    What You'll Learn

    • Alignment acts as a powerful antidote to burnout (and the research showing you only need 20% of your time in alignment to see benefits)
    • How to recognize when you're out of alignment and what to do about it
    • The critical importance of tuning into your thoughts and feelings to find your way back
    • Boundaries are essential tools for maintaining alignment in both your professional and personal life

    Key Takeaways

    When you're in alignment, you're like a car with properly aligned tires—moving forward smoothly and efficiently, even when the road gets bumpy. But when you're out of alignment, every mile feels like a struggle against resistance.

    The good news? Research suggests that spending just 20% of your time using your gifts and talents in areas aligned with your passions can significantly protect against burnout.

    Remember: It's not your fault if perfectionism and people-pleasing have brought you to a place of burnout in our broken healthcare system. AND you have the power to tune into your thoughts and begin changing them to feel better. Both things can be true simultaneously.

    Your homework: Start noticing where you feel energized in your work and where you feel drained. This awareness is the first step toward finding your alignment and creating the medical career you truly want.

    Next week, we'll continue our journey toward ending physician overwhelm together. Until then, remember that you deserve to practice medicine in a way that honors who you are.

    Let's Connect

    Need more support? Schedule a coaching consultation at https://calendly.com/healthierforgood/coaching-discovery-call

    Connect with us:

    • Website: healthierforgood.com
    • Email: megan@healthierforgood.com
    • Instagram: @meganmelomd

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share with a colleague who might benefit!

    Support the show

    To learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.

    Want to contact me directly?
    Email: megan@healthierforgood.com

    Follow me on Instagram!
    @MeganMeloMD

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    27 mins
  • Break Your Own Rules
    May 13 2025

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    Rules? Who Me?

    Hello my friends! Today we're diving into those self-imposed rules that might be governing your life and keeping you stuck in patterns of overwhelm. From the seemingly trivial (must shave legs before wearing shorts) to the deeply consequential (always putting yourself last), these internalized rules often lead us to burnout, exhaustion, and disconnection from what truly matters.

    Key Takeaways

    • Identifying Your Rules: Pay attention to thoughts that contain command language like "I can't," "I must," or "I should." These often signal an internalized rule that may not be serving you.
    • Questioning Who Benefits: Many of the rules we live by primarily serve others at our expense. The medical culture of "patient first" can easily morph into "I always come last," creating an unsustainable path to burnout.
    • Imagining Life Without the Rule: Who would you be without this constraint? Often, letting go of rigid rules leads to better boundaries, improved self-care, and a sustainable medical practice.

    Three Steps to Use Now

    1. Find Your Rules: Notice when you think "I can't," "I must," or "I should" - these indicate potential rules governing your choices.
    2. Ask Who the Rule Serves: Is this rule primarily benefiting you, or is it serving others at your expense?
    3. Envision Yourself Without the Rule: How would your life change if you let this rule go? Would you be happier, healthier, or more balanced?

    Who Cares? You Do!

    When we live bound by rigid, internalized rules, we create the perfect environment for burnout to thrive. By questioning and releasing rules that don't serve us, we create space for sustainable medical practice and a more balanced life.

    Let's Connect

    Need more support? Schedule a coaching consultation at https://calendly.com/healthierforgood/coaching-discovery-call

    Connect with us:

    • Website: healthierforgood.com
    • Email: megan@healthierforgood.com
    • Instagram: @meganmelomd

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share with a colleague who might benefit!

    Support the show

    To learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.

    Want to contact me directly?
    Email: megan@healthierforgood.com

    Follow me on Instagram!
    @MeganMeloMD

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    33 mins
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