Episode 12—The Honeymoon Phase

In Episode 12 of From the Shadow to the Light, we step into the beauty and complexity of early love. What begins as a dream—my wedding day and honeymoon—soon reveals deeper truths beneath the surface. As reality fails to match expectation, emotional triggers and unresolved archetypes emerge. This episode explores how the desire for a perfect start can clash with inner wounds, highlighting how even the most blissful chapters can contain the seeds of awakening.

Show Notes

Episode Title: The Honeymoon Phase Episode Number: 12

Welcome to Episode 12 of From the Shadow to the Light, where we dive into Chapter 12 of my memoir, Struck by Lightning: My Journey from the Shadow to the Light.

In this episode, I recount the early days of my marriage—joyful on the surface, but quietly revealing old patterns and unspoken resentments underneath. From a missing photographer to a face full of wedding cake, unmet expectations began to chip away at the illusion of perfection. On our honeymoon, moments of serenity were interrupted by sudden fears and internal reflection. Through it all, I began to see how the archetypes of the Invisible Child, the Victim, and the Dry Drunk were shaping my experience—and how solitude and presence could guide me back to truth.

Reflective Questions

Theme 1—The Perfect Start and Unexpected Hiccups

1. Have you ever experienced a moment where everything seemed perfect, but small issues hinted at larger problems?
2. How did you handle it?
3. What did those cracks in perfection reveal about your deeper fears and anxieties?

Theme 2—Unmet Expectations and Growing Resentment

1. How do unmet expectations affect your relationships?
2. What strategies do you use to manage disappointment?
3. Think about a time when someone let you down—did you express how you felt or hold it in?

Theme 3—Archetypes and Self-Reflection

1. Which archetypes show up for you in stressful situations?
2. How do they influence your reactions?
3. Can recognizing these patterns help you move through conflict with more clarity?

Theme 4—Honeymoon Bliss and Moments of Fear

1. Have you experienced fear in a moment that was supposed to be joyful?
2. How do you balance moments of joy with unexpected anxiety?
3. What did you learn from facing fear in a peaceful setting?

1. How do moments of solitude enhance your connection with loved ones?
2. What places or experiences bring you the most peace?
3. Reflect on the importance of finding solitude and connecting with nature in your life.

Conclusion

As we close Episode 12, may this chapter remind you that even in the most blissful moments, our inner landscape is alive with growth, truth, and transformation. The wedding and honeymoon weren’t just a celebration—they were a mirror reflecting my deepest fears, hopes, and patterns.

Thank you for joining me on today's podcast of From the Shadow to the Light. As we prepare for our next episode, “My Dark Night of the Soul,” we explore what happens when the lights go out and you’re left alone with the truth—and the grace that follows.