Micheal loves his memory.

Carrie and Sarah are in Pittsburgh together again, just crying about how much they love each other over pancakes. The dogs go wild over the mail, and we decide that Blue's Clues has jumped the shark with all these spicy babies. Carrie loves boygenius and thinks "True Blue" is about her relationship with Sarah, a real true blue friend who never lets Carrie hide.

As promised, Carrie and Sarah watch Pretty Woman together and meditate on power, sex, and gender. "You take care of you." Sarah identifies with Kit. 1990 was a good year for eyebrows. Carrie's college boyfriend used to turn corners in his truck and say "Like she's on rails, I tell ya." Sarah googles the cast of Urban Cowboy. Sarah, a single woman homeowner, also googles the Equal Credit Opportunity Act of 1974 and decides to celebrate this as a day of action. Carrie wants Vivian's suit with shorts, but butched up with some chunky chelsea boots. Sarah recommends a Halloween costume that comes with an unassuming weapon, like a sexy Mario with a monkey wrench. Maybe let's remake the film with only Kit and Vivian.

Sarah is learning from therapy and taking those lessons into the real world and relationships. Sarah sees herself and allows herself to be seen. Sarah and Carrie hug. Carrie saves the world by rescuing a karaoke singer who can't find the pitch and looks to her for help. Carrie believes real heroes step in to help and then sit down when help is no longer needed. Carrie is the Hector Elizondo of Pittsburgh institution Belvedere's Ultra Dive. May we all be Hector Elizondo.

Carrie and Sarah discuss their new book project, How to Make a Move Without Moving: a collection of essays about trying to attract sex partners with psychic signals, pheromones, and juicy smells. Carrie tries it out on a fella at karaoke through aggressive eye contact. Sarah says to use your words rather than broadcasting a pussy net to catch whatever is around.

Carrie loves Sarah's new Chris Carraba haircut and her radical food acceptance. Sarah carries her happiness with her. Carrie is loving Sarah's whole look these days. Carrie and Sarah talk about dissociating from their feelings and experiencing having feelings as a crisis. Sarah loves that Carrie rocked a very femme look at karaoke, braless in her sundress. Carrie made herself known to the DJ and Sarah loves that Carrie could be a fixture at this Tuesday karaoke night.

Lowstakes advice: Find you a friend that's family. Make a move by moving. Make aggressive eye contact and then ask the object of your desire if they can smell your pussy as an opening move.

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