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Alright, budget besties—this one’s a hot topic! How much personal spending money should you and your spouse get each month? Is $100 too low? Is $1,000 too high? Should it be cash? Should it be a card?

In this episode, Shana and Vanessa break it all the way down—from the emotional side of spending freedom to the practical steps of budgeting it in. This conversation was sparked by a lively debate in our Facebook group (come join us—it’s free and fun at budgetbesties.com/facebook), where folks shared their wide-ranging numbers—from $40 to $1,000 a month!

Here’s what we cover:

1. 🛑 Why personal spending money is non-negotiable—yes, both of you need it

2. 💵 How to figure out the right amount for your lifestyle and your budget

3. 🔁 Why your spending number might shift depending on your season of life

4. 🧾 The difference between personal money vs. other spending (like gas, groceries, or glam-up expenses)

5. 🧠 Tips for automating your transfers and whether cash or cards are better

6. 💳 Why separate accounts can make budgeting easier and less stressful

7. 🧘🏽‍♀️ How personal spending helps heal old money habits and guilt

This episode will help you (and your partner!) give yourselves permission to spend, with freedom and boundaries. It’s not about the exact number—it’s about being intentional.

Wanna learn more about how we help couples build a budget they can actually stick to (and still have fun)? Our coaching programs and personalized budget templates are designed to give you clarity, confidence, and a little breathing room.

Connect With Us:

1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook

2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate

3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget

4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching

5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall

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Snag Our Simplified Budget System!

Hey Budget Besties! 💛

This week’s episode is a powerful reminder that financial recovery is possible — and it starts with one brave decision at a time.

Danielle joined us fresh off her family’s bankruptcy discharge. After years of being buried in credit card debt, she and her husband are finally getting some breathing room — and she’s determined not to go back.

She’s taken some huge steps already (hello high-yield savings and separate bank accounts 👏), but now she’s looking for a real plan. One that brings peace, not pressure. And that’s where we came in.

Inside this coaching session, we cover:

1. Why “strict budgeting” is not the vibe — but real budgeting is still essential

2. The truth about paycheck budgeting (spoiler: it’s not working)

3. How to split your spending into categories that make sense (and reduce arguments!)

4. Why multiple checking accounts can be your secret weapon — especially if you're the only one managing the money

5. The mindset shift from “his money vs. my money” to “our vision”

6. How to get intentional about every dollar — even that overtime pay

7. Building savings buckets that are personal, powerful, and actually work

8. What to do next when the credit cards are gone but you're still stuck in survival mode

Danielle is doing so much right — she's motivated, she's organized, and she's ready. We just gave her the strategy to match her heart.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “kind of budgeting” but still overwhelmed... this episode is your next step. 💪

Connect With Us:

1️⃣ Facebook Group – Join the community. Our free group is where the real talk happens. Connect with other women who are learning how to budget, save, and finally feel in control, together. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/facebook

2️⃣ Automate Your Budget Masterclass – Watch it now, no waiting. This FREE on-demand training shows you how to set up a budget that matches your lifestyle, without tracking every dollar or feeling restricted. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/automate

3️⃣ Budget – Grab our Simplified Budget System! You don’t need another budget, you need a system that does the math, makes the plan, and gives you permission to spend. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/budget

4️⃣ Private 1-on-1 Coaching – Get a plan and a coach. We’ll build your full budget system together, so you always know what to do and feel confident doing it. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/coaching

5️⃣ Be on the Podcast – Free coaching, real convo. Come chat with us on the show! Get real-time financial coaching and help other women by sharing your story. ➡︎ budgetbesties.com/livecall

"I love Shana & Vanessa and this podcast is amazing!" 👈🏻 If that sounds like you… ✨ Please take a second to rate & review the show! It helps us reach more people—just like you—who are ready to change their financial future. 🔔 Don’t forget to follow so you never miss an episode! 💌 And if you're feeling extra generous, share this podcast with a friend who needs it. We’d be so honored. 🙌

Click here to view our privacy policy.

This description may contain affiliate links, meaning we may get a commission at no cost to you if you click & purchase!