Flourish or Fold: Stories of Resilience

By: Dr. Taryn Marie Stejskal
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  • How does facing challenges shape the people we become? Often, when we see someone’s achievements or appearance on center-stage, it’s easy for us to believe that the people who have ‘made it’ have special qualities that afforded them a seamless path to the summit of success. Yet the truth reveals something else. Flourish or Fold: Stories of Resilience is a show highlighting well-known people sharing their less well-known, or even hidden, stories of resilience. Join host Dr. Taryn Marie, world-renowned speaker and #1 international expert on resilience in leadership and life, as she creates safer spaces for raw and authentic voices to come through and show you how you too can effectively face challenge, change, and complexity to achieve your biggest goals.
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  • Purpose Points: Identifying Life's Signposts on Your Journey

    Purpose Points: Identifying Life's Signposts on Your Journey
    Sep 3 2024
    In this episode of "Flourish or Fold," I am very excited to share my profound discussion with bestselling author and keynote speaker Davin Salvagno on themes that are near and dear to me, resilience and life purpose. This episode delves deep into the challenges people face and how these challenges can serve as invitations to discover and embrace their purpose. We discuss how life's challenges can serve as invitations to discover and embrace one's purpose. Davin shares personal experiences, including his recent move to Charlotte, North Carolina, highlighting that purpose is a continuous journey shaped by various moments. Davin emphasizes that resilience involves reframing challenges as growth opportunities. Below, we break down the key insights and actionable advice shared during this enlightening discussion.Understanding Purpose as a Continuous JourneyWe began by challenging the common notion that discovering one's purpose is a singular, life-defining moment. We reference a quote from Mark Twain, which states that the two most important days in a person's life are the day they are born and the day they discover their purpose. However, we both agree that this idea can be misleading.Key Takeaways:Purpose is Multifaceted: Purpose often manifests in multiple ways throughout our lives. It is not a single event but a series of moments and experiences that shape our understanding of who we are and what we are meant to do.Invitations and Signposts: Davin introduces the concept of "invitations" or "signposts" that guide individuals toward their purpose. These can be significant life events, challenges, or even subtle nudges that steer us in a particular direction.Actionable Advice:Reflect on Past Experiences: Take time to reflect on significant moments in your life. Identify patterns or recurring themes that may point toward your purpose.Stay Open to New Opportunities: Be open to new experiences and challenges, as they can serve as invitations to explore different aspects of your purpose.Reframing ChallengesDavin suggests a shift in mindset: challenges often happen for us, not to us. While some tragedies in life are inexplicable, most challenges can be reframed as opportunities for growth and learning.Key Takeaways:Growth Through Adversity: Challenges can serve as significant catalysts for uncovering our purpose. They often evoke deep emotions and lead us to want to help others facing similar struggles.No Pain is Wasted: Taryn resonates with this perspective, noting that every experience contributes to personal growth and character development.Actionable Advice:Reframe Your Challenges: When faced with a challenge, ask yourself what you can learn from the experience and how it can contribute to your growth.Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who can help you navigate difficult times and provide perspective.Building ResilienceResilience is not just about enduring hardships but also about transforming those experiences into opportunities for growth and connection with others.Key Takeaways:Resilience as a Skill: Resilience can be cultivated through understanding that every experience contributes to our growth and understanding of who we are meant to be.Purpose Points: Davin introduces the concept of "purpose points," pivotal moments in life that shape one's character and understanding of purpose.Actionable Advice:Develop a Resilience Toolkit: Equip yourself with tools and strategies to build resilience, such as mindfulness practices, journaling, and seeking mentorship.Embrace the Journey: Understand that discovering your purpose is a continuous process. Embrace each moment and experience as part of your journey.Personal Challenges and SacrificesDavin shares his personal experience of moving to Charlotte, North Carolina, which he describes as one of the most challenging experiences of his life. This transition required significant sacrifices and brought about emotional struggles for his family.Key Takeaways:Prioritizing What Matters: Davin emphasizes the importance of being present for his family during this challenging time, allowing space for their emotions and struggles.Trust Over Clarity: He shares a quote from Mother Teresa, stating that she never had clarity, only trust, which resonates deeply with him during this season of uncertainty.Actionable Advice:Be Present: During times of transition, prioritize what is most important in each moment. Be present for yourself and your loved ones.Trust the Process: Even when the future is unclear, trust that your journey will reveal its purpose in time.Identifying and Combating Negative ThoughtsDavin discusses the concept of "thieves of purpose," which are thoughts that can rob individuals of their purpose and potential, such as comparison, fear, doubt, and the pursuit of success.Key Takeaways:Awareness of Negative Thoughts: Recognize and combat negative thoughts that undermine your sense of purpose.Success vs. Significance: ...
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    56 mins
  • Cracking the Code of Going Viral: How Sharing “Silly Stories” Built a Brand with Billions of Views

    Cracking the Code of Going Viral: How Sharing “Silly Stories” Built a Brand with Billions of Views
    Jun 18 2024
    I’m beyond excited to share this week’s Flourish or Fold episode with you! I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Adley Kinsman, CEO and founder of Viralish and prominent entertainer who garners over a billion social media views every month. The conversation delved deep into Adley's journey as an entrepreneur, her experiences in the entertainment industry, and the resilience that has driven her success. She emphasizes the importance of viewing obstacles as testimonies rather than setbacks and highlights the significance of serving others. Adley also delves into the concept of going viral, explaining her systematic approach to creating viral content. The conversation underscores the transformative power of resilience and the impact of shifting from a victim mentality to one of empowerment and purpose. Adley’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, passion, the importance of serving others and the power of following your passion.Understanding Virality - What Does It Mean to Go Viral?: Adley emphasizes that the concept of "going viral" is subjective and varies from person to person. For some, a post with 40,000 views might be considered viral, while for others, the benchmark might be in the millions. At Viralish, Adley and her team consider anything over a million views as potentially viral, with a more stringent standard of 15 million views and above for true virality.Mastering Storytelling: At the core of Viralish's success is their mastery of storytelling. Whether it's prank videos, staged events, or branded content, the goal is to create compelling narratives that resonate with the audience and achieve the desired outcome.From Passion to Profession - Adley's Journey - The Early Days: Adley's journey began with a passion for creating videos and storytelling. Despite not making any money initially, she continued to produce content because she loved it. This passion for storytelling was rooted in her background in the music industry, where she learned the importance of crafting compelling narratives.The Turning Point: The pivotal moment for Adley came in 2019-2020 when Facebook introduced monetization for content creators. Recognizing the potential, Adley focused on creating videos for Facebook, where the largest audience was. By studying the platform's algorithm and continuously improving her content, she was able to capitalize on this opportunity and turn her passion into a profitable business.Resilience in the Face of Adversity - Overcoming Challenges: Adley shares her personal story of resilience, highlighting the massive obstacles she faced, including bankruptcy, a toxic relationship, and a close family member’s struggle with alcoholism. Despite these challenges, she chose to view her experiences as a testimony rather than adopting a victim mindset.The Power of Service: One of the key lessons Adley learned was the importance of serving and helping others. She found that focusing on others was the quickest way to pull herself out of difficult situations and regain a sense of purpose and direction.The Law of Resonance: Adley believes in the law of resonance, which emphasizes becoming the person ready to handle the things one desires, rather than just willing them into existence. This mindset shift from "where do I want to be?" to "who do I want to be?" has been instrumental in her journey.Building Viralish - From Hobby to Business: Viralish was born out of Adley's passion for creating content and her deep understanding of social media algorithms. By packaging her knowledge and experiences into accessible coaching programs, she has been able to help individuals and brands achieve viral success.Coaching Programs: Adley encourages individuals to take advantage of the group coaching program available at goviralish.com. For brands with annual revenue of 5 to 10 million, she invites them to reach out to creators at com for potential collaboration.Transforming Adversity into Empowerment - Shifting Perspectives: Dr. Taryn Marie highlights the importance of shifting from a victim mentality to recognizing the lessons learned from adversity. This shift in perspective from "why is this happening to me?" to "why is this happening for me?" can have a transformative impact on one's life.Adley’s energy and insights are truly uplifting. She embodies the shift from asking "why is this happening to me?" to "why is this happening for me?" It’s a powerful perspective that can transform adversity into empowerment. Her insights on virality, storytelling, and overcoming adversity provide valuable lessons for anyone looking to succeed in the digital age. By focusing on who you want to be and continuously improving your craft, you can turn your passion into a profitable and fulfilling career.Connect with Adley Kinsman: Adley invites you to connect with her on social media and through her website to explore the valuable resources available at Viralish: https://...
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    49 mins
  • Women, Worthiness, and Wellness: The Truth about Hormone Health, Weight Loss, and Fitness

    Women, Worthiness, and Wellness: The Truth about Hormone Health, Weight Loss, and Fitness
    Jun 11 2024
    I've had the privilege of speaking with some of the most inspiring individuals who have turned their adversities into strengths. In this episode of Flourish or Fold, I had the honor of sitting down with none other than renowned fitness trainer and entrepreneur, Autumn Calabrese - a name synonymous with fitness, determination, and success. My dialogue with Autumn was more than just an interview; it was a masterclass in resilience and holistic health. During this episode, Autumn shares her journey from a difficult childhood to success in the fitness industry, emphasizing the role of personal struggles in building resilience. She discusses her transition from dance to fitness, her approach to overcoming emotional trauma, and the importance of supportive leadership. Autumn also touches on perfectionism, the significance of celebrating small wins, and prioritizing self-care. Lastly, she introduces her hormone health program and stresses the importance of gut health for overall well-being. Autumn’s expertise in fitness and nutrition, coupled with her unwavering commitment to promoting well-being, is truly inspiring. I hope that by sharing her story, you too will feel empowered to make the small changes that lead to a healthier, more resilient you.The Roots of Resilience: Autumn's story is a testament to the power of resilience. Growing up with divorced parents, she faced challenges that shaped her sense of self and ignited a fire within her to prove her worth. Despite the lack of expectations from those around her, Autumn channeled her experiences into an unyielding drive for success. Her journey is a reminder that our beginnings do not dictate our destinations.Dancing Through Adversity: Initially pursuing a career in dance, Autumn encountered numerous obstacles in the dance industry. The transition from aspiring dancer to celebrated fitness trainer was not a smooth one. It required her to confront emotional trauma and embrace a new path. Autumn's courage to face her unresolved issues head-on while creating a dance fitness program is a powerful example of how confronting our past can pave the way for a brighter future.Leadership and Communication - Pillars of Support: In our discussion, Autumn highlighted the crucial role of supportive leadership during tough times. She shared how effective communication and personal relationships were instrumental in her healing process. As a fitness trainer and entrepreneur, she now embodies these qualities, fostering a supportive environment for her clients and team.The Perils of Perfectionism: Autumn candidly spoke about the pressures of perfectionism and the importance of acknowledging and celebrating small victories. Her approach to excellence is not about being flawless but about recognizing the effort and progress made along the way. This mindset is essential for anyone looking to maintain motivation and a positive outlook.A Holistic Approach to Health and Well-being: Autumn's upcoming hormone health program is a reflection of her holistic view of health. She emphasizes the significance of lifestyle choices on our well-being, particularly for women. The interconnectedness of gut health, energy levels, and hormone balance is a focal point of her teachings, underscoring the importance of taking control of our health.The Healing Power of the Human Body: During our conversation, Autumn shared her insights on the body's remarkable ability to heal itself, especially with a program designed to improve gut health. She explained the pivotal role gut health plays in hormonal balance and nutrient absorption, which are key components of overall well-being.Thank you to Autumn for sharing her personal journey. As she preps to launch her hormone health program, a crucial message stands out: the interconnectedness of our lifestyle choices with our overall well-being. From gut health to energy levels, every choice counts. It’s not just about what we put into our bodies but also how we nurture ourselves from the inside out. Start small, think big – our bodies are capable of incredible transformation. Remember, it's not about where you start but where you're going. Embrace your struggles, celebrate your victories, and never stop striving for a better you. Join us on this journey of resilience and transformation, and let's flourish together.Connect with Autumn Calabrese: Autumn invites all listeners to connect with her through social media, her website, and her subscription-based membership. She offers a wealth of programs and resources designed to foster a positive mindset and a healthy lifestyle. To learn more about her work visit:https://www.autumncalabrese.com/homehttps://www.instagram.com/autumncalabresehttps://www.facebook.com/autumncalabresefitnesshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPikVjAp9tuI2jRyKMOeeSg Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:Introduction to Autumn Calabrese (00:00:56): Dr. Taryn Marie introduces Autumn Calabrese and her ...
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    1 hr and 1 min

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