This conversation deep dives into the complexities of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships. It explores the distinction between healthy boundaries and manipulation, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and self-reflection. Bryan, Kellen and Thad discuss how past trauma can influence boundary setting and the necessity of involving a third party when navigating difficult conversations. Key takeaways include the need for clarity in expectations and the impact of resentment on relationships. Diving into the complexities of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-worth, seeking guidance, and understanding the difference between healthy boundaries and control. The guys share personal experiences and insights on navigating relationships, parenting, and the impact of past traumas on current dynamics. They stress the necessity of community support and professional help in establishing healthy boundaries and achieving personal peace.

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In this compelling episode, the Bryan, Kellen and Thad dive deep into the heart of masculinity, vulnerability, and the cultural taboos that often silence real conversations about relationships and intimacy. With raw honesty and biblical insight, they explore how cultural labels can distort personal connections and how community support plays a vital role in healing and growth. Themes of redemption and reconciliation are woven throughout, offering hope to those navigating complex emotional and spiritual battles. The conversation underscores the power of one-on-one dialogue, the importance of leaving a seat at the table for the hurting, and the transformative impact of sharing faith in practical, personal ways. Through powerful stories and scriptural truth, this episode challenges listeners to break the silence, extend grace, and embrace the life-changing potential of authentic connection.

In a world that worships easy answers and surface-level conversations, Get Cancelled isn’t afraid to dive into the messy, uncomfortable truths. The truth offends before it sets you free! Hosts Bryan Smith and Kellen Cowan.

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In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, we tear into the hidden cycles of shame that plague so many men today — cycles that distort our identity, cripple our confidence, and fracture our relationships. We talk about the lies men believe that shame equals guilt, that vulnerability is weakness, that we must hide our struggles to be respected.

Drawing from raw experiences and biblical truth — especially the story of Peter — we unpack how repentance, exposure, and God's relentless grace lead to true redemption. Real masculinity isn’t about perfection — it’s about embracing vulnerability, setting boundaries, communicating deeply, and investing in your own healing.

We break down how shame kills emotional health, how it isolates men from their wives, friends, and even their own sense of worth. You’ll hear the hard truth: that freedom doesn’t come from hiding, but from choosing vulnerability, asking for help, and surrounding yourself with spiritual guidance and mentorship.

This episode challenges you to get out of the cage of shame and step into the freedom God designed for you. It's time to identify the lies, speak them out, and find victory in your relationships, your marriage, your calling, and your soul.

Final Thoughts:

• How shame sneaks into your identity and emotional health
• Why vulnerability is a winning play — not a weakness
• The essential role of communication in breaking shame cycles
• How repentance is the path to redemption, not punishment
• Practical steps for setting boundaries and reclaiming self-worth
• Why mentorship, prayer, and community are lifelines for real growth

This episode is a call to arms.
It’s for every man tired of hiding, tired of pretending, and ready to find real freedom through truth, vulnerability, and God's unshakable love.

It’s time to break the silence. It’s time to Get Canceled.

In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad chop it up on something we all need but rarely talk about—finding safe people. They get real about why authentic relationships matter, how counseling isn't weakness but wisdom, and what humility actually looks like when you're doing life with others. They also break down how to navigate faith in the real world—digging into the Bible, different translations, and how to actually live out what you believe. It's honest, practical, and a reminder that we were never meant to do life alone.

Takeaways

• Finding safe people is crucial for personal growth.
• Heart position influences all aspects of life.
• Counseling is not just for the broken; it's for everyone.
• The Word of God is a powerful source of guidance.
• Embracing failure is essential for growth.
• Authenticity in relationships fosters trust and support.
• Humility is key to seeking help and guidance.
• Proven individuals are more reliable than those with potential.
• Praise involves gratitude and acknowledgment of God's work.
• One decision can lead to significant change and freedom.

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In this conversation, Bryan, Kellen and Thad explore the themes of authenticity, influence, and the struggles men face in society. They discuss the masks people wear to navigate social interactions, the loneliness that often accompanies success, and the importance of building genuine connections. The dialogue emphasizes the need for vulnerability and the power of community in healing and transformation. The guys also highlight the societal pressures on men to remain stoic and the detrimental effects of isolation, ultimately encouraging listeners to seek help and embrace their true selves.

Kellen talks about Wild at Heart by John Eldredge—a powerful read you can find on sites like Amazon and Audible. Want to continue the conversation? Join our Facebook group, Get Cancelled, where we welcome your comments, questions, and topic suggestions. Send us a message, be part of the discussion, and connect with a community of men pushing past comfort zones and into real growth. Let’s get uncomfortable—together.

This conversation delves into the complexities of temptation, shame, and the impact of soul ties on relationships. The speakers explore the nature of addiction, particularly in relation to technology and pornography, and discuss the spiritual implications of lust and sin. They emphasize the importance of authenticity in conversations about these topics and the need for community support in overcoming struggles. The discussion also highlights the journey of heart transformation and the role of faith in navigating these challenges.

In the inaugural episode of the 'Get Canceled' podcast, Bryan Smith and Kellen Cowan explore the necessity of having hard conversations that often lead to discomfort and growth. They discuss the importance of authenticity in various aspects of life, including masculinity, relationships, and faith. The hosts emphasize the need to break societal norms and engage in discussions that challenge the status quo, while also addressing the impact of social media on self-perception. The episode sets the stage for future conversations about vulnerability, failure, and the entrepreneurial spirit in leadership. In this conversation, Tiffany Davis explores the intersection of entrepreneurial spirit and ministry, emphasizing the importance of being led by the Holy Spirit. She discusses the challenges pastors face in distinguishing between their entrepreneurial instincts and spiritual guidance. The dialogue also delves into the significance of vulnerability in fostering freedom and connection among individuals, particularly men. The conversation highlights the ongoing journey of identity, change, and the struggle against perfectionism, ultimately advocating for authenticity and growth in faith and life.