Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

By: Dan Purcell | Sex & Intimacy Coach | Christian Husband
  • Summary

  • It’s a challenge to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun. It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values. Your host is Dan Purcell, a Life Coach and Couples Sex Expert that specializes in helping married couples take their sex life to the next level. You’ll gain new ideas, perspectives, and practical tools to help you "get your marriage on"! This podcast discusses fun and spicy topics you’ve always wondered about, but from a Christian-friendly perspective. For more information, visit https://getyourmarriageon.com.
    2024 Get Your Marriage On!
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  • 213: Does Sex Therapy Actually Work for Libido Differences? The Shocking Research Results!
    Nov 8 2024

    Sexual desire differences are, unfortunately, very common. In fact, it's one of the top reasons why couples seek sex therapy or any kind of help in their marriage.

    It's really painful to be in a relationship where your spouse doesn't desire you the same way you desire them. And while it's painful for the spouse with the higher libido or higher desire, it's also just as painful (for different reasons) for the person with a lower desire/lower libido.

    The good news is that there are actually tools and solutions to help couples get on the same page sexually, and we'll discuss some of these in this episode.

    I was interviewed by my friend Taylor Chambers, a marriage and family therapist. Since we talk about these things often on this platform, we've included this interview on the Get Your Marriage On Podcast.

    In this episode, we cover the following:

    • I share some of my personal examples from my own marriage
    • Why traditional sex therapy doesn't quite work.
    • The role of pleasure
    • Integrity culture versus purity culture

    If you and your spouse have differences in sexual desire that's causing some problems in your marriage, you're in luck because next week I'm going live doing a deep dive discussion on this very topic.

    What: How to Fix Mismatched Sex Drives without Therapy or Pressure, Live Masterclass

    When: November 14, 6 pm Pacific / 9pm Eastern

    Register Here

    More Resources:

    Intimately Us App

    2025 Couples Retreat

    You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com

    Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

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    37 mins
  • 212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley
    Nov 1 2024

    There's a lot of stress in parenthood (and regular life) that presses on the couple's relationship, which Emily and I know firsthand as parents to 6 children. And I know that maintaining intimacy and being lovers while also being parents and good at our jobs and other responsibilities is a challenge many of us face, which is why I'm so interested in this topic today.

    And I had so much fun recording this episode with my guest, Sofia Ashley. She's a hoot! Sofia has been a sex coach for 10 years and has a program called "Sex After Kids" and she's the founder of The Happy Vagina Project.

    In this episode we discuss how to have a party your libido would like to show up to and the importance of nervous system regulation, effective communication, and emotional support (over depending on outside things like toys or lingerie). You'll get to hear her strategies for transitioning from being a busy mom to a hot wife. And be sure to stay to the end to hear her black belt sex tip!

    Resources:

    Intimately Us App

    FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less

    2025 Couples Retreat

    You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com

    Episode Highlights

    2:08: Bedroom fail

    5:12: Novelty falls flat if there's not deeper connection

    6:09: How our nervous system plays in

    9:28: When you just feel "touched out"

    15:33: Physiological response and the need for relaxation

    18:20: Transitioning from super-busy mode, to "I want to have sex mode"

    22:41: Creating a party your libido wants to come to

    23:50: Pre-launch check list

    31:46: Nervous sytem reset exercises

    35:49: How to know if you're disregulated

    39:45: Black belt sext tip!

    Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

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    44 mins
  • 211: Sexual Dry Spells: When Safety Kills Passion
    Oct 25 2024

    The holidays are coming up, and this is often a stressful time for a lot of couples.

    The stress and busyness can often lead couples to fall into dry spells in their sex life. And Emily and I are not immune to those dry spells either. So whether you're in a dry spell or looking to avoid one, this episode is for you! We're going to cover practical ways to keep your marriage and sex life going strong through all the seasons of life.

    Resources:

    Intimately Us App

    FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less

    2025 Couples Retreat

    You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com

    Episode highlights:

    4:37: Seeing the Patterns in Your Relationship

    6:13: Calm the heck down

    7:18: Notice emotions and how they present in your body

    7:40: The measure of your marriage isn't how you handle yourself when things are going well, but when life is hard

    9:00: Separate the act of sex from the meanings attached to it.

    11:04: When we look to our spouse, as a reason behind the dry spell, it opens you up to a potential of self-deception

    12:25: Routine kills passion

    14:34: Need both love and desire

    17:37: Offer good sex

    19:07: Questions to ask yourself and thoughts to consider

    21:55: "But my spouse doesn't want to change"

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    26 mins

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loved it. Dan really helped us improve on our marriage. recommend to everyone. thanks

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