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Grief is a Sneaky Bitch

Grief is a Sneaky Bitch

By: Lisa Keefauver MSW
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Grief is a Sneaky Bitch creator and host Lisa Keefauver is on a mission to reimagine grief, one conversation at a time.


Yes this is a podcast all about grief. She and her guests explore the expansiveness and pervasiveness of grief in our lives, because let’s face it, 100% of us experience grief, multiple times in our lives. Lisa witnessed it time and time again in her career as a social worker and in her personal life too with the most significant loss being her husband in 2011. More recently, she experienced ambiguous grief as she navigated breast cancer in 2024. And yet, individually, and collectively, we’re so grief-illiterate and that is causing us all harm. So, she's on a mission to reimagine grief, one conversation at a time. So glad you’re joining us.


She brings her deep curiosity, love of conversation, and knowledge of how language and culture shapes our experiences of ourselves and our world (including our grief) to each unscripted conversation. From thought leaders, CEO's and social workers to authors, educators, researchers, filmmakers and stay-at-home moms, her guests open up about the complexity, confusion, and even confidence they have gained by navigating a grief journey of their own.


About Host


  • ORDER her book, Grief is a Sneaky Bitch: An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss
  • WATCH her TEDx talk, Why Knowing More About Grief Can Make it Suck Less
  • WATCH her Media Maker Profile to learn about her WHY
  • Learn more about working with Lisa Keefauver by visiting www.lisakeefauver.com and follow on social media @lisakeefauvermsw

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Episodes
  • Lauren Sisler | Shatterproof
    May 14 2025

    Welcome ESPN Sports Broadcaster Lauren Sisler to Grief is a Sneaky Bitch podcast with host Lisa Keefauver. As a sportscaster and former collegiate gymnast, Lauren is passionate about sports, but even more passionate about telling the stories of the coaches, athletes, and fans who make it more than a game. Lauren's life was not always marked by victories. In 2003, as a freshman at Rutgers University, tragedy struck when she unexpectedly lost both parents within hours of each other to their hidden battle with prescription drug addiction. In this conversation, Lauren shares her profound journey of grief following the sudden death of both her parents when she was just 18. She reflects on the complexities of understanding their deaths, the impact of addiction, and the importance of storytelling in processing trauma. Through her experiences, Lauren emphasizes the significance of empathy, acceptance, and gratitude in healing, ultimately encouraging others to embrace their own stories, no matter how messy they may be.

    MORE ABOUT GUEST

    Lauren Sisler is a national award-winning sports broadcaster who has been captivating audiences with her insightful coverage on ESPN since 2016. Not only is she a powerhouse in the broadcasting world, but she’s also the author of the compelling new book, 'Shatterproof.' Through her grief, Lauren emerged from the shadows of shame and found renewed hope. Her message is clear: confront adversity with bravery, own your story, and let it propel you towards a future filled with greater meaning and fulfillment. You can pick up a copy of her autobiography Shatterproof and learn more about her work as a broadcaster, speaker, and storyteller at www.laurensisler.com

    ABOUT THE SHOW & HOST

    Lisa Keefauver is a social worker, widow, and grief activist on a mission to reimagine the narratives of grief, one conversation at a time.

    Learn more at www.lisakeefauver.com.

    Follow @lisakeefauvermsw on Instagram.

    Listen to Grief is a Sneaky Bitch Podcast - Available on all podcast platforms.

    Read Grief is a Sneaky Bitch: An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss. Available in bookstores and on your favorite online booksellers, including Bookshop.Org.

    Watch her TEDx talk, Why Knowing More About Grief Can Make it Suck Less here

    Subscribe AFGO with Lisa Keefauver on Substack here

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Mary-Frances O'Connor | Tending to Our Grieving Body
    Apr 29 2025

    Mary-Frances O’Connor is one of the foremost experts on the impact of grief on the brain and the body. That’s why host Lisa Keefauver was thrilled to welcome her back to the podcast for a second time to discuss her latest book The Grieving Body: How the Stress of Loss Can Be an Opportunity for Healing. Just as Mary-Frances did in her book, she combines fascinating science, intimate storytelling, and her generous heart to help us better understand the physiological impact of the stressors of grief. Some of the themes explored include:

    • Stress is a significant factor in the grieving process.
    • Grief can significantly impact physical health, particularly cardiovascular health.
    • Every small act of agency contributes to healing.
    • The body has a natural resilience and ability to recover from grief.
    • Life after loss involves adapting to new realities and understanding changes.
    • Grieving is a continuous learning curve that requires practice.
    • Attachment plays a crucial role in how we experience grief.
    • Social connections can alleviate some of the physiological impacts of grief.

    MORE ABOUT GUEST

    MARY-FRANCES O’CONNOR, PhD is a professor of psychology at the University of Arizona, where she directs the Grief, Loss and Social Stress (GLASS) Lab, investigating the effects of grief on the brain and the body. Her first book The Grieving Brain was included on Oprah’s list of Best Books to Comfort a Grieving Friend. O’Connor holds a PhD in clinical psychology from the University of Arizona and completed a post-doctoral fellowship in psychoneuroimmunology at the UCLA Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior. Having grown up in Montana, she now lives in Tucson, Arizona. Visit www.maryfrancesoconnor.org to learn more.

    ABOUT THE SHOW & HOST

    Lisa Keefauver is a social worker, widow, and grief activist on a mission to reimagine the narratives of grief, one conversation at a time.

    Learn more at www.lisakeefauver.com.

    Follow @lisakeefauvermsw on Instagram.

    Listen to Grief is a Sneaky Bitch Podcast - Available on all podcast platforms.

    Read Grief is a Sneaky Bitch: An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss. Available in bookstores and on your favorite online booksellers, including Bookshop.Org.

    Watch her TEDx talk, Why Knowing More About Grief Can Make it Suck Less here

    Subscribe AFGO with Lisa Keefauver on Substack here

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Serene Meshel-Dillman
    Apr 21 2025

    Welcome Serene Meshel-Dillman to the show. In this episode, host Lisa Keefauver engages in a profound conversation with Serene - a producer and filmmaker, about her documentary series 'Take Me Out Feet First.' now playing on Amazon Prime. – is a poignant documentary series delving into the deeply personal journeys of 25 terminally ill individuals as they navigate their end-of-life decisions and explore their options. They explore personal experiences of loss, the cultural context of grief, and the importance of discussing medical aid in dying. The conversation highlights the need for agency and dignity in end-of-life choices, emphasizing the significance of sharing stories to normalize these discussions and advocate for change in legislation surrounding medical aid in dying.


    MORE ABOUT GUEST

    A New York native and dancer with a passion for the visual arts, Serene attended The School of American Ballet, Tenafly High School then The University of Vermont. Post graduation, she opted out of law school and worked at an advertising agency in New York, founded a company that imported baskets from Haiti, then moved to Los Angeles to work in production on television commercials. In 2014 Serene conceived and directed the documentary film, “Getting to The Nutcracker”, a behind the scenes look at what it takes to produce the classic ballet from auditions to final performance. Her second documentary, “The 5th Dementia” is about a Los Angeles-based band whose members live with Alzheimer’s, dementia and Parkinson’s. They are able to sing and play music despite their neurodegenerative diseases. Take Me Out Feet First, currently streaming on Amazon Prime, is her first series.


    Key Takeaways


    • The importance of agency in end-of-life decisions.
    • Many people do not use medical aid in dying despite having the option.
    • Personal stories can drive advocacy for change.
    • Conversations about death should be normalized.
    • Quality of life is paramount in end-of-life care.
    • Legislation is evolving, and advocacy is crucial.


    ABOUT THE SHOW & HOST

    Lisa Keefauver is a social worker, widow, and grief activist on a mission to reimagine the narratives of grief, one conversation at a time.

    LEARN more at www.lisakeefauver.com.

    FOLLOW @lisakeefauvermsw on Instagram.

    LISTEN to Grief is a Sneaky Bitch Podcast - Available on all podcast platforms.

    READ Grief is a Sneaky Bitch: An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss. Available in bookstores and on your favorite online booksellers, including Bookshop.Org. Also available as an audiobook.

    WATCH her TEDx talk, Why Knowing More About Grief Can Make it Suck Less here

    SUBSCRIBE AFGO with Lisa Keefauver on Substack here

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    49 mins
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