In this episode, Katie introduces Heart in Home Living's new Book Club!

Beginning in July, a new book will be chosen each month. A mix of fiction and non fiction books will be chosen. Every book chosen will have audio books as an option.

At the end of every month, a podcast episode will be dedicated to unpacking the book and discussing take aways.

Katie discusses the benefits of reading regularly and how research shows reading can positively impact your mental health, reduce stress levels and increase your writing capabilities and vocabulary.

The book club is low pressure. Book Club episodes will all be recorded here on the podcast so if you fall behind you can watch when it's convenient for you!

To join the book club:

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In this solo episode, Katie discusses how busy the summer can get and ways that we should try and be intentional with our summer plans/schedules.

Why do we always feel the need to jam pack our summers?

Summer concerts, patio lunch dates, summer camp for the kids, play dates, etc. the list goes on and on...we see an empty spot on the calendar and think what can I plan for that day?

If your schedule or calendar feels overwhelming, that most likely means that you will feel overwhelmed through the summer too! To help be more intentional this summer- I have put together some strategies to help with your summer plans this year!

Some research based strategies have shown the importance of 1) Time Blocking 2) Finding your why 3) Prioritizing joy and rest

Some questions to ask yourself:

What do I or my family need this summer?

How do I or my family want to feel this summer?

Think about your and your family needs and let that answer be your guide!

1. Make a summer bucket list but put a limit to the amount of items that each person puts on the list. Make it realistic and achievable
2. Make room for slow mornings
3. Allow at least one slow week where you have nothing planned. No where to be at no set time- I highly recommend it! It is very freeing and such a good way to rest your mind.
4. Keep at least one day a week with nothing planned- I aim to make this Sunday every week.
5. Whenever plans or invites come up, always go back to what does your family need this summer?
6. Maintain a flexible mindset - enjoy the moments and live in the present
7. Try journaling! Keep a journal this summer about how you are feeling, memories, photos, etc. Reflect each week and do a check in to see how everyone is feeling. What was my favourite part of the week? what worked really well? Did anything make you feel overwhelmed or stressed?

If you do have little ones, tune into our "Raise them with Wisdom" podcast next week (June 19th) for evidence based strategies to keep in mind when planning your summer.

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If you know of anyone who has been feeling overwhelmed with their calendars and needs to be intentional this summer- share with them today!

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In this solo episode, Katie discusses comparison and what research says about why we compare ourselves to others and how we can let go of comparison.

When is the last time you compared yourself to others?

We’ve all heard the saying, comparison is the thief of joy-well, This episode is all about reclaiming your peace and joy from the trap of comparison!

So why do we compare? Research says a lot about this! A study all the way back to 1954 by Leon Festinger, tells us that it’s part of our human nature to evaluate ourselves. This study tells us that it can give us a sense of belonging and help to gauge success.

We can compare in two different ways:

upward comparison- Ie. You view someone as better than you are

downward comparison- you view someone as worse off than you are or less than you.

There are a few psychological functions that happen when we compare: when we compare to someone worse off than us it can give us a boost in our self esteem. Comparing to someone we view as better than us can give us self- motivation, or inspire us to improve ourselves (Krizan, Z, 2018).

Another big reason why we compare so much is social media! Research shows that social media often leads to upward comparisons. These types of upward comparisons can lower our self- esteem and mental health and it can lead to envy, depression, and seeking validation from others.

When we start going down the road of envying someone else for how they look, of what they have, or what their circumstances are- we lose our sense of our unique purpose, sight of what our strengths are and essentially we start to lose ourselves. Seeking validation from others will lead us to trying to prove our worth to other people and then in turn it can

A study by Vogel, 2014 found that consistent social media users tend to have lower levels of self- esteem.

Ways to let go of comparison:

1. Practice Gratitude (Emmons, R).
2. Be aware of your environment and who you surround yourself with
3. Limit social media use or make changes to the accounts you follow
4. Setting goals for yourself that focus on self- growth, purpose and connection (Deci & Ryan).

All this to say, I encourage you to slow down and be aware of when you are comparing yourself. Ask yourself, what areas of life do you most often compare yourself in? What would I pursue if I wasn’t trying to catch up with where everyone else is or trying to impress others?

Think about those questions this week and let go of the load of comparison! You are not competing with anyone- life is not a race, it’s a journey. Enjoy the moments and the journey and do not let comparison steal your joy!!

Research:

Emmons, R. (2010). Why Gratitude is Good. Retrieved from https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_gratitude_is_good

Festinger, L. (1954) A Theory of Social Comparison Processes. Human Relations, 7, 117-140. http://dx.doi.org/10.1177/001872675400700202

Vogel, Erin & Rose, Jason & Roberts, Lindsay & Eckles, Katheryn. (2014). Social Comparison, Social Media, and Self-Esteem. Psychology of Popular Media Culture. 3. 206-222. 10.1037/ppm0000047

Krizan, Z. (2018, March 28). Social Comparison. Oxford Research Encyclopedia of Psychology. Retrieved 29 May. 2025, from https://oxfordre.com/psychology/view/10.1093/acrefore/9780190236557.001.0001/acrefore-9780190236557-e-251.