It’s hard enough to put your sexual needs into words, let alone put them on the table for someone to reject or accept. But what if communicating your sexy desires has more to do with respect than anything else?

Today Pleasure Coach Whitni Miller explains how it’s not so much about finding somebody that’s a perfect sexually compatible match, but rather it’s about learning how you can both show up for each other to find the place where you meet in the middle AND have both of your core needs met. 

Whitni gives us answers to some of the biggest sex and dating questions like:

• Why is it so hard to talk about sex? Spoiler alert: it has to do with worthiness!
• What things should we be talking about to a prospective sexual partner?
• When is it the right time to bring up sex while dating?

By the end of this episode, you will naturally start speaking up more about your sexual needs sooner than later because you’ll understand why these conversations are so important! Clear sex communication gives both people information so they can consent to the type of relationship they choose to build together.

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💃 About Your Host 

Lauren is a speaker, author of "The Mindful Dating Journal: Find a Healthy Love that Lasts," and creator of the free MettaDate Journal mobile app. She combines her personal success dating story with her professional mindfulness training to help singles ditch the dating struggle and claim the loving relationship they deeply deserve.