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Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

By: Be A BiFF Media
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Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.Copyright 2025 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 133 | Curtsy, Bow, & Gyrate
    Jun 4 2025

    After a ten-month hiatus, your Biffs are back! Stefani and Ray hit the waves refreshed with new questions and the same banter. This week, the Biffs take on the Slate’s “How To Do It.” A girl know’s too much about a new girlfriend’s boyfriend’s past, and is chomping at the bit to tell her. A man is turned on when he finds out his boyfriend is married, and wants to look the other way. A man’s fetish for golden showers is anything but when his wife is unsatisfied with the only way he wants to have sex. [Miguels Rosé]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • 132 | A British Southerner from Canada
    Aug 28 2024

    Stefani and Ray visit Susan Writer's column, Ask Someone Else's Mom, this week. The Biffs read about potentially rigged, by-chance encounters with former flames; an inter-familial rivalry that has two uteruses vying for first; and a long-distance open relationship without rules on track for marriage. [Patrice Grasset Vin de France Chenin Blanc, 2021]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

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    57 mins
  • 131 | Best of the Biffs (Part VII)
    Aug 21 2024

    In this week's episode, relive some of the Biffs' favorite moments of Ill Advised. From episode 78 - How to Kidnap Us, a man's self-proclaimed stupid face is putting his wife off to sex with him. In episode 11 - God Damn It, Kourtney, her partner's weight gain has a woman questioning the future of her relationship. And from Episode 22 - Dick, Thom, & Beelzebub, a woman's lackluster sex life leaves her wondering if she can have extramarital affairs while staying with her husband.

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

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    1 hr and 10 mins
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