Grab your drink and pull up a seat... it’s another fireside chat with your favorite sibling duo! In this episode, Vanessa (the “seasoned vet”) and Matt (the self-proclaimed “rookie”) go head-to-head on the ever-changing battlefield of love.

We’re talking about dating do’s and don’ts, how intimacy has evolved, and much much more. No scripts. No filters. Just real convos, loud laughs, and sibling chaos as always.

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Welcome to the very first episode of It’s Not Me, It’s You... a love, dating, and relationship podcast hosted by siblings who could not be more different.

She’s the big sister: 11 years older, been in long-term relationships, and seen love from the inside out.

He’s the little brother: never been in love, but got plenty of hot takes and chaotic opinions.

In this episode, we shoot the sh*t on everything from how short is too short for men’s shorts, to body counts, religion and spirituality in relationships, and even how partners feel about masturbation.

No filter, no script , just real conversations from two people trying to make sense of modern love from totally different POVs.

If you’ve ever argued over a 5-inch inseam, wondered how God fits into your sex life, or debated whether “body count” still matters in 2025, this episode is for you.

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