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  • 238: Patron’s Choice! All About Aphrodisiacs

    238: Patron’s Choice! All About Aphrodisiacs
    Jun 2 2025
    Special shout out to our lovely patron's for choosing this weeks episode topic! Become a patron today! Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth! Watch the episode on YouTube!! ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    32 mins
  • 237: Talking About Sex With Friends

    237: Talking About Sex With Friends
    May 26 2025
    Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 mins
  • 236: What’s NOT Allowed In The Bedroom

    236: What’s NOT Allowed In The Bedroom
    May 19 2025
    Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Oral Sex episodes Episode 147: DOs & DON'Ts of Sex Toys Episode 148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys gotquestions.org (anal article) Episode 141: Talk Dirty To Me Makin’ Sex Tapes: Anatomy Of Us Episode 197: Mutual Masturbation ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 mins
  • 235: Navigating Sexual Rejection

    235: Navigating Sexual Rejection
    May 12 2025
    Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: 6 Pillars Of Intimacy ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 mins
  • 234: Patron's Choice! Sex With The 5 Senses

    234: Patron's Choice! Sex With The 5 Senses
    May 5 2025
    What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Mentionables: code KINGDOM for 10% off Anatomy Of Us- Makin’ Sex Tapes Intimately Us App Evree: use the code KINGDOM for 10% off Passionista #LubeLife Married Dance: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off FREEBIE: spice it up guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    35 mins
  • 233: When SHE Is The One Addicted To Porn

    233: When SHE Is The One Addicted To Porn
    Apr 28 2025
    Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: SheRecovery website She Recovery Instagram 90 Days to Wholeness Unwanted by Jay Stringer No Stones by Marnie C. Ferree Shame In Your Marriage (episode 231) My Counselor Online use the link for $25 off! Better Help ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    45 mins
  • 232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause

    232: Patron Q&A! Navigating Awkward BJs, Our Proposal Stories, & Perimenopause
    Apr 21 2025
    DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show! This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement. 2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines? 4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit? 5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy? 8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard? 12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer? 14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low? 17:34 - Y’all’s opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life 19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what’s is somethings to try 24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive? 29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm? 32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it? 34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido? 37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do? 38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why? 41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories 🥰 Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduled Sex episode (ep. 139) Ah Yes! Lubricants: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off BeLoved Fertility: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package Passionista book Figuring Out What I Like Guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    56 mins
  • 231: How to Deal with Shame in Your Marriage

    231: How to Deal with Shame in Your Marriage
    Apr 14 2025
    Huge thank you to Dwell for sponsoring today's episode! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off! Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Dwell Bible App My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link! Better Help ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    34 mins
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