In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new episode, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in.

You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.

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Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.

But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?

Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.

At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?

In this week’s episode, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.

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Do you feel like time is running out to find love? Whether you’re worried about starting a family, comparing yourself to friends who are coupled up, or just feeling urgent pressure to “catch up” in your dating life, this episode is for you.

Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey explore how to handle dating confidently when the stakes feel high, and how to avoid letting fear and anxiety sabotage your decisions. If you’ve ever felt behind—unsure whether to stay hopeful or make a bold change—this episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pressure others try to put on you.

In this episode we cover:

• Why the fear of “running out of time” is so common in dating today.
  
  

• How to create urgency without falling into panic mode.
  
  

• The illusion of progress: How “distraction relationships” can quietly steal years of your life.
  
  

• Real stats on women having children after 35.
  
  

• How to stop comparing your timeline to everyone else’s.
  
  

• Reframing societal pressure and internal anxiety.
  
  

• Dating intentionally vs. dating reactively.
  
  

• How to bring up having kids in early dating conversations.
  
  

• The importance of a backup plan—and how it can actually help your love life.
  
  

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