This episode tackles a sensitive but important question many couples avoid: Do you love your kids more than your spouse?

We’re pulling back the curtain on what happens when the marriage takes a backseat to parenting. While the love for your children and your spouse are different, when one consistently overshadows the other, the foundation of your family can quietly start to crack.

In this conversation, we explore:

• The subtle signs you may be prioritizing your kids over your marriage
• Why this dynamic is so common—especially for moms
• How this imbalance can affect your kids more than you realize
• Practical ways to reconnect and realign your priorities as a couple

Whether you're in the thick of parenting or feeling the emotional distance with your spouse growing, this episode offers truth, grace, and real steps to start shifting the dynamic.

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Let’s be honest—when you're juggling work, kids, and the emotional weight of a strained marriage, sex can feel like the last thing on your mind.

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the deeper reasons behind feeling “too tired for sex”—and spoiler: it’s not just physical exhaustion. We’ll talk about the emotional disconnect that often gets overlooked, the hidden expectations that create pressure, and how to gently rebuild intimacy without guilt or resentment.

Whether you're the one saying "not tonight" or the one hearing it, this conversation will help you better understand each other and find a new path toward connection that feels safe, loving, and doable.

What We Cover in This Episode:

• Why physical fatigue is only part of the story
• How emotional exhaustion and lack of safety impact desire
• What to do when your sex life feels like another chore
• How couples can reconnect emotionally before reconnecting physically

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In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re asking a vital question: Where is your marriage headed?
Without a clear vision, it's easy for marriage to drift — pulled by busy schedules, distractions, and unspoken disappointments. But a thriving marriage doesn't happen by accident. It happens on purpose.

Today, we’ll walk you through:

• Why having a vision for your marriage matters more than you think.
• Simple questions to help you start dreaming together again, even if things feel tense or distant right now.

If you’ve ever wondered if there’s more for your marriage — more connection, more joy, more direction— this conversation is for you. Let's chart a course toward the marriage you both want, one intentional choice at a time.

Grab free marriage resources:
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What to do when your husband won't change? A free 6-day challenge for wives

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