Men, This Way

By: Bryan Reeves & Tait Arend
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  • Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend, Tait Arend, a leadership coach, as they delve deep into the urgent topics men are dying to discuss – intimacy, purpose, manhood, love, and much more. Men (and the women who love them) … this way.
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  • 135. Healing The Mother Wound w/ John Lee

    135. Healing The Mother Wound w/ John Lee
    Nov 21 2024

    “The mother wound is wanting to be saved by someone, some thing, some process outside yourself, and it's not going to happen.” - John Lee

    Today on Men, This Way:

    • 0:00 - Introduction & Overview
    • 0:38 - Global Context & Personal Impact
    • 1:16 - Introducing the Mother Wound
    • 1:46 - Reflections on the Mother Wound
    • 2:11 - The Book 'He' and Its Impact
    • 3:37 - Defining the Mother Wound
    • 5:03 - Archetypes of the Mother Wound
    • 6:26 - Personal Stories of Mother Wounds
    • 10:13 - The Mother vs. Father Wound
    • 12:30 - Struggles with Self-Worth
    • 16:29 - No Saviors, Only Self-Reliance
    • 18:27 - Facing Illusions in Relationships
    • 22:20 - The Role of Therapy in Self-Healing
    • 24:41 - Self-Responsibility & Accountability
    • 27:22 - Projections and the Feminine
    • 30:42 - The Need for Soothing & Relief
    • 35:18 - Relearning Trust and Soothe
    • 42:09 - Self-Worth & External Validation
    • 46:35 - Time as a Catalyst for Change
    • 46:59 - Conclusion & Gratitude


    Takeaways from this episode:

    • Understanding the Mother Wound.
    • The Impact of the Mother Wound on Relationships.
    • How the Mother Wound Deeply Impacts One's Sense of Self-worth and Value.
    • Healing from the Mother Wound Involves Self-reflection and Inner Work.
    • Societal and Cultural Factors that Shape the Mother Wound.


    Connect with John:

    • Website: johnleebooks.com
    • Order: Odd One Out: Radical Revelations on Relationships, Self-Help, and Personal Growth
    • Book: Private Session
    • email: john@johnleebooks.com


    Connect with Bryan & Tait:

    • Website: bryanreeves.com
    • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
    • Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com


    This show is produced by Synchro Social
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    47 mins
  • 134. Why Life Sucks For Successful Men and What To Do About It

    134. Why Life Sucks For Successful Men and What To Do About It
    Nov 7 2024

    "I'm not against pornography; however, if you're using it to distract yourself or to numb the pain you're experiencing, it might be serving as an escape from having tough conversations" .- Bryan Reeves


    Today on Men, This Way:

    • 00:02 Greetings & Reconnection
    • 01:08 Celebration of Elevate 2025
    • 02:27 Discussion on Male Relationships & Growth
    • 03:58 Importance of Men's Groups
    • 05:44 Introducing the Concept of Resistance
    • 07:11 Deep Dive into Resistance
    • 10:16 The Illusion of Control
    • 12:48 Daily Responsibilities and Life's Illusions
    • 14:13 Crafting a Life of Enthusiasm
    • 16:05 Cynicism in Personal Growth
    • 17:38 Navigating Life's Journeys
    • 19:35 Handling Cynicism and its Impacts
    • 21:58 Personal Development & Community Support
    • 24:38 Encouragement and Reflections on Growth
    • 27:14 The Value of Inspiration and Support
    • 30:57 Establishing a Sense of Belonging
    • 33:41 Overcoming Isolation and Embracing Community
    • 35:09 The Dynamics of Men's Groups
    • 37:21 The Challenge of Numbing Out
    • 40:11 Parental Challenges and Personal Growth
    • 43:06 Facing and Understanding Life's Resistance
    • 45:34 Disorientation and Life's Direction
    • 48:35 Military Experience and Personal Orientation
    • 51:48 Momentum and Life's Orientation
    • 54:02 Powerlessness and Finding Strength
    • 56:31 The Role of Power in Personal and Professional Life
    • 59:04 Men's Roles and Challenges in Modern Society
    • 01:01:09 The Five Dead Ends and Their Antidotes
    • 01:03:46 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to Join


    Take Aways:

    • The Power Gathering with other Men to Maintain Clarity and Motivation
    • Birth and Evolution of "Men This Way"
    • Celebrating Community Growth with Elevate 2025
    • The Necessity of Peer Support
    • Overcoming Resistance as a Path to Personal Growth
    • Community as an Antidote to Isolation
    • Reframing Challenges with Community Support


    Transform Your Life – Join Elevate Sign up here!

    Connect with Bryan & Tait:

    • Website: bryanreeves.com
    • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
    • Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com


    This show is produced by Synchro Social
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • 133. How To Stop Fighting and Create a Securely Attached Relationship Instead w/ Dr. Stan Tatkin

    133. How To Stop Fighting and Create a Securely Attached Relationship Instead w/ Dr. Stan Tatkin
    Oct 24 2024
    "They have to organize. if we're organized where the kids come first, well, the couple is dead, long live the kids, they go away and bye. Because we lost that loving feeling, we never nurtured it. We weren't important enough to maintain." - Dr. Stan TatkinToday on Men, This Way:00:00 Introduction01:48 PACT Method and Psychobiological Approach02:22 Personal Reflections on Dr. Tatkin's Work04:40 Setting Up the Discussion on Relationships05:09 Defining Secure Functioning Relationships05:44 Importance of Teamwork in Relationships06:43 Challenges in Relationships and Power Dynamics09:35 Explanation of Attachment Styles: Anchors, Waves, Islands10:07 The Impact of Childhood on Relationship Dynamics11:55 Clinging and Distancing in Relationships13:16 Insights into Attachment from Studies13:30 Personal Narratives and Their Impact on Perception14:32 Neglect and Its Subtle Impact15:32 Resentment from Childhood Expectations16:04 The Metaphor of "The Bite that Fits the Wound"17:04 The Role of Anger in Insecure Attachments18:20 Strategies for Secure Functioning19:20 Adapting to Partner's Needs and Insecurities20:11 Understanding Attachment and Its Effects on Relationships22:38 Responsibility in Relationship Dynamics23:31 Importance of Understanding Danger and Care in Relationships26:14 The Importance of Shared Vision in Maintaining Relationships27:21 Designing Relationships Intentionally28:21 Prioritizing Relationships Over Other Aspects of Life31:04 Teamwork and Interdependency in Relationships31:56 Role of Partners in Regulating Each Other's Nervous Systems34:21 The Practical Application of Co-regulation Techniques38:28 The Unreliability of Narratives in Understanding Relationships40:05 The Flaws of Memory and Perception in Communication41:03 The Challenge of Modeling Successful Relationships43:02 Strategies for Better Relationship Dynamics44:12 The Need for Intentionality in Relationships46:05 The Impact of Stress on Relationship Dynamics49:05 The Necessity of Protective Measures in Relationships50:09 The Importance of Commitment and Intention in Relationships52:22 The Timeframe for Developing Strong Relationship Skills54:17 The Role of Purpose and Principle in Relationship Longevity55:06 Establishing and Adhering to Relationship Principles56:07 Vision and Future Planning in Relationships57:19 Deciding When to Persist or Let Go in Relationships59:21 The Social Contracts That Define Personal Relationships61:02 The Mutual Benefits of a Committed Relationship64:07 The Hopeful Aspect of Engaging in Relationship Work66:30 Dr. Tatkin's New Publications and Future Projects67:44 Closing Thoughts and Reflections on Relationship DynamicsTakeaways from this episode:The Importance of Secure Functioning in Relationships.The Impact of Attachment Styles.Role of Co-regulationCommunication Strategies Under StressThe Necessity of Intentionality and Planning in RelationshipsNavigating Relationship Challenges with Emotional IntelligenceThe Psychological Impact of NeglectThe Influence of Past Trauma on Current RelationshipsThe Concept of Mutual Support and TeamworkShared Vision and PurposeTransform Your Life – Join Elevate Sign up here!Connect with Bryan & Tait:Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com Connect with Dr. Stan Tatkin:Website: thepactinstitute.comBuy the book: In Each Other's CareTherapy with Dr.Tatkin: Couples therapySign up: RetreatInstagram: @drstantatkin This show is produced by Synchro Social
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    1 hr and 8 mins

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EXCELLENT!!!

The compassion and artistry that goes into episode is just incredible. Every episode is filled with enormous wisdom.

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