In this episode, we discuss first dates and share our tips and some stories. We emphasize the importance of meeting in person as quickly as possible after initial virtual contact. We also touch on the topic of sleeping together on a first date and the concept of virtual dates. The conversation explores the idea of meeting someone in person relatively quickly after matching on a dating app. It emphasizes the importance of turning virtual connections into tangible relationships. We discuss the concept of being open to going with the flow and not adhering to strict timelines or structures. We also touch on the hesitation some people have in giving out their phone numbers and the potential for ghosting in online dating. We share our perspectives on nerves before a first date and how personal development work can help build confidence. The conversation explores the concept of self worth and how it affects dating experiences.

00:00 The Challenges of Modern Dating

02:35 Tips and Do's and Don'ts for First Dates

04:27 Virtual Dates: Are They the Same as In-Person Dates?

07:19 The Timing and Dynamics of First Dates

10:12 Curiosity and Open-Mindedness in Meeting in Person

12:07 The Hierarchy of Communication Platforms

14:05 Dealing with Ghosting

17:22 Nerves and Excitement Before a First Date

19:05 Shifting Perspectives on Rejection

21:09 The Benefits of Casual Day Dates

22:04 Going for a Walk: A Natural and Relaxed First Date Option

23:57 Abrupt Departure Mid-Meal

29:01 The Impact of Different Settings

32:23 Avoiding Dinner Dates for First Dates

34:12 Navigating the Complexities of Modern Dating

36:33 Exploring Casual Sex in Dating

42:21 Challenges of Ending a First Date

44:27 Ending a Date Early with Honesty

47:44 Navigating the First Kiss

54:38 Don't Get Too Drunk on a First Date

59:00 Avoid Trying Too Hard to Impress

01:00:57 The Question of Who Should Pay on a First Date

01:03:44 Splitting the Bill

01:06:10 Setting Boundaries and Being Honest

01:08:56 Enjoying the Dating Process

01:10:56 Next Week's Episode: Stress and Anxiety