Motherhood in ADHD – Parenting with ADHD, Productivity Tips, Brain based Science, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Education to Help Moms with Adult ADHD

By: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD
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  • Productivity, Parenting, and Education for Moms with Adult ADHD Are you overwhelmed by the never-ending to do list of motherhood? Are you burnt out and barely keeping your head above water? Are you confused and frustrated by how all the other moms make it look so easy? And somehow you're still floundering despite trying even harder... Your purse is as overflowing as your mind, you never feel like a good enough mom, and you don't dare have anyone over to visit to witness your messy home. You just want the best for your kids, but you can't figure out how to manage the chaos, both in your mind and in your house. Oh, I've been there, mama. Some days, I'm still there. Parenting with ADHD is hard! We want to be structured for our kids, yet we can't seem to stay consistent even for ourselves. But I'm letting go of everyone else's perception of a "good mom" and stepping into loving who I am a little more each day. Will you join me? Whether you have ADHD like I do, or think you might, here is your permission slip to let go of the pinterest worthy visions of organization and structure fit for everyone else. Let's do life like our brains do life: creatively, lovingly, and with all your might. Moms with ADHD have a superpower of always trying their best, even when it doesn't pan out. How do I know? I have known about my ADD for over twenty years, and I want to share all of this hard-earned ADHD knowledge with you, making your adjustment a lot easier and faster than mine was. What does Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder look like in women? We'll dive into emotional regulation, motivation, executive function, hormones, medication, and natural treatments. Women with ADHD share their diagnosis stories with us, whether inattentive, hyperactive or combined, from childhood through adult diagnoses. We also talk about ADHD's so-called friends like depression, anxiety, addiction, disordered eating, other learning differences, and what I've learned through therapy and CBT. Science is my jam and learning about how our brains work through the lens of scientific research helps us understand who we are. ADHD is not just for little boys; it looks different in girls. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a neurological medical condition, not an excuse for lazy, stupid, unmotivated people to not live up to our potential. Let's agree to throw that thought in the trash. Once we understand how our brains work, we can dive into the practical strategies like structuring our day, minimalism, money, nurturing our relationships, daily rhythms, using a planner, and improving our sleep. I want to help you build your version of a joyful family life. We talk about everything from ADHD to Zebras, because that is how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder works: to us, our thoughts are clearly connected, but non-linear to everyone else. I want you to love being a zebra in a world full of horses. We were born as unique, gorgeous creatures, not meant to blend in with the usual nor mundane. When we embrace who we are and how our brains work, we can figure out how to live out lives successfully and in turn, lead our families well. At the end of the day, we just want to be good moms. Spoiler alert: you are already a great mom. If you're ready to see that with your own two eyes, hit play and listen in as we love ourselves a little more each day of our ADHD lives. ADHD does NOT mean you're doomed to be a hot mess, mama! You CAN rewrite your story from shame spiral to success story, and I'll be right here beside you to cheer you on! With love, Patricia Sung, a fellow mama with ADHD Free Resources and Transcriptions at: motherhoodinadhd.com Connect with Patricia Sung on Instagram: www.instagram.com/motherhoodinadhd Join like-minded mamas in our Successful Mama Meetups online community: https://www.patriciasung.com/meetup Sign up for community, courses, coaching, and tons of free resources to learn about ADHD: www.patriciasung.com
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Episodes
  • E246: Navigating Menopause, Hormone Impact, and ADHD with Linda Roggli
    Oct 31 2024

    Sad, mad, annoyed, happy, sad, crying, mad, tired. All within an hour!

    While hormones may be invisible to us, they sure do wreak havoc on our lives!

    Linda is here to teach us what's going on inside that drives our mood and energy in more ways than we can count.

    For ADHD Awareness Month, we’re talking to a new ADHD guest expert every week.

    Today’s guest is Linda Roggli.

    Linda is a professional ADHD coach for ADHD women 40-and-better, a retreat facilitator, organizing expert and award-winning author. She created and hosts the annual online ADHD Women's Palooza and the ADHD Couple's Palooza. Her book, "Confessions of an ADDiva: Midlife in the Non-linear Lane" won first prize for women's issues in the prestigious Next Generation Independent book awards. She is former vice president of ADDA and continues to host its webinar series. She lives and works under the pine trees of the Piedmont of North Carolina with four ADHD Shelties, one cat formerly known as feral and one OCD husband, plus 13 cackling chickens.

    In this episode, Linda and I discuss the intricacies of hormone production and fluctuations, and what it means for our daily lives. She explains what's going on during perimenopause and menopause to shed some light on this rarely discussed topic that affects everyone with ovaries. (That's a lot of people for something we don't talk about enough!)

    Let’s jump into a much-needed discussion on estrogen levels and how they affect your ADHD from puberty to menopause, so you can live well as a woman with ADHD.

    Find Linda Roggli here:

    addiva.net

    Instagram: @lroggli

    Facebook: @Linda-Roggli

    Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-246-menopause-hormones-adhd-linda-roggli

    It can feel super intimidating to show up to a party where you don’t know anyone. Well, I don’t want that fear to keep you from finding your people.

    I want to make this super low risk for you to come, try it out, and get a sneak peek before you join our ADHD mom community.

    You’re invited to the next Successful Mama Meetup Open House!

    Join us on Zoom on November 6th to body double for the first 30 minutes, then hangout and meet the other moms in the community for the second half. (Hint hint, we’re pretty amazing IMHO.)

    No charge, no pressure. Just come hang out!

    Let me know you wanna come right here and I’ll send you the zoom link.

    And since it's on Zoom, everyone can come no matter where you live. Self-diagnosis and ADHD-curious moms welcome.

    It’s time to hang out with other moms who get you and make you feel like you’re at home. So come in your comfy clothes and let’s hang out! See you soon!

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  • E245: Conflict Resolution for your ADHD Family with Dr. Tamara Rosier
    Oct 24 2024

    Parenting with ADHD for ADHD is difficult. I mess it up a lot. I apologize a lot. I’m working on it. And I bet you are, too.

    For ADHD Awareness Month, we’re talking to a new ADHD guest expert every week. Today’s episode holds conflict resolution skills for our parenting tool belts.

    Our guest, Dr. Tamara Rosier, is founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. Dr. Rosier is also the president of the ADHD Coaches Organization. She is a popular conference and keynote speaker, is a frequent guest on podcasts, and has published numerous articles about living with ADHD. She lives in West Michigan.

    In this episode, Dr. Rosier and I talk about different types of thinking, finishing big projects, how we can use our strengths to be most efficient, and where we can ask for help to make our lives easier. We dive into her new book, You, Me, and our ADHD Family, and she shares some great tips on resolving conflict in ADHD families.

    Let’s chat about parenting with Tamara as we dive into parenting strengths and nurturing relationships over tasks for a happier ADHD family.

    Find Dr. Tamara Rosier here:

    www.miadhd.com

    Instagram: @dr.tamararosier

    Facebook: @BrainNotBroken

    LinkedIn: @tamara-rosier-phd

    Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-245-conflict-resolution-for-adhd-family-dr-tamara-rosier

    It can feel super intimidating to show up to a party where you don’t know anyone. Well, I don’t want that fear to keep you from finding your people.

    I want to make this super low risk for you to come, try it out, and get a sneak peek before you join our ADHD mom community.

    You’re invited to the next Successful Mama Meetup Open House!

    Join us on Zoom on November 6th to body double for the first 30 minutes, then hangout and meet the other moms in the community for the second half. (Hint hint, we’re pretty amazing IMHO.)

    No charge, no pressure. Just come hang out!

    Let me know you wanna come right here and I’ll send you the zoom link.

    And since it's on Zoom, everyone can come no matter where you live. Self-diagnosis and ADHD-curious moms welcome.

    It’s time to hang out with other moms who get you and make you feel like you’re at home. So come in your comfy clothes and let’s hang out! See you soon!

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    52 mins
  • E244: Prioritizing Intimate Moments for ADHD Couples with Dr. Ari Tuckman
    Oct 17 2024

    ***Note that today’s episode is not for little ears, so grab your headphones or listen away from the kids.

    Intimacy is more than what happens in the bedroom. When things are not going well in the bedroom, it shows up in everyday life too.

    Relationship problems fester when ignored, seeping into the way you and your partner prioritize each other and communicate in your relationship. Throw ADHD in the mix and you’ve got advanced relationship needs, too.

    For ADHD Awareness Month, we’re talking to a new ADHD guest expert every week.

    Today’s guest is Ari Tuckman, PsyD, a psychologist, author, international presenter and ADHD thought leader. He has been widely quoted in media and has appeared on countless podcasts. He is the conference committee co-chair CHADD. He is the author of “ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship”

    In this episode, Dr. Tuckman and I discuss frequent struggles in ADHD relationships, including awkward conversations about intimacy, and where you might struggle with communication. We talk about real life solutions and suggestions on how to stay connected and prioritize your relationship.

    You’re certainly not alone in these relationship struggles.

    Let’s jump into a much-needed conversation about how to keep your romantic partnership strong in the trying stages of life and be present in the little moments that matter, so that you can both work toward a lasting and fulfilling relationship for both partners.

    Find Dr. Tuckman here:

    Website: adultADHDbook.com

    Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-244-prioritizing-intimate-moments-adhd-couples-communication-relationships-dr-ari-tuckman

    It can feel super intimidating to show up to a party where you don’t know anyone. Well, I don’t want that fear to keep you from finding your people.

    I want to make this super low risk for you to come, try it out, and get a sneak peek before you join our ADHD mom community.

    You’re invited to the next Successful Mama Meetup Open House!

    Join us on Zoom on November 6th to body double for the first 30 minutes, then hangout and meet the other moms in the community for the second half. (Hint hint, we’re pretty amazing IMHO.)

    No charge, no pressure. Just come hang out!

    Let me know you wanna come right here and I’ll send you the Zoom link.

    And since it's on Zoom, everyone can come no matter where you live. Self-diagnosis and ADHD-curious moms welcome.

    It’s time to hang out with other moms who get you and make you feel like you’re at home. So come in your comfy clothes and let’s hang out! See you soon!

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    57 mins

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the way it relates to me is amazing

I'm 26 and was recently diagnosed with adhd and bipolar disorder type 1. I am trying to break the abusive cycle my mother continued and this podcast gave me so many tools to help me end the cycle for good. gentle parenting for the win.

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good information, good heart

I appreciate this podcast so much. right now. struggling with severe ADHD on top of severe depression. cripples a person so much most of the time. I appreciate her encouragement, easy steps, recommendations, information, etc.
I've read a few reviews and saw some negative thoughts but I am ready to deal with this and I want to get better so bad! I don't want my child to struggle like me if he ends up having it. but even if he doesn't I want to feel capable and be able to function in the way my family needs! No one tells you about ADHD and how hard it is. I had been searching for something that had to do with being a mom that has ADHD and this is one of the few resources out there. my husband has even enjoyed your podcasts. thank you for your heart. Keep up the good work! You are God's instrument teaching and helping others learn and grow in the chaos and hardship every day brings!

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Only a few minutes in and she gets it!

Only a few minutes in and she gets it! Going to follow...love her! Live hearing It's so nice to be understood!

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Always good!

This podcast has many golden nuggets for moms with ADHD. There are so many episodes that address the things I'm struggling with. The advice/recommendations have helped me through many rough spots. THANK YOU!

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preachy

I did not appreciate her tone. If her audience was kids it would be fine. I am a 42year old mom and need quality info, not a soap box preacher

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