In this session, we talk about the insidious and surreptitious role of fear in our lives. It may surprise you to learn how fear just might be driving us in our day-to day lives and we may not even realize it! Ten percent of Americans have phobias, so we explore the ten most common phobias and explore whether or not you might have one.

Learn about how we develop our fears and why we hold on to them at a much higher level than we need to. Identify the primal fears you were born with and the ones you have picked up along the way. Your deep dark fears could be sending you messages that you may need to pay attention to or maybe even unlearn. We explore the concept of core fears and talk about how to identify yours. The fears you hold onto can cause avoidance, dysfunction and unnecessary pain and limitations in your life.

Explore what the doctor has come to understand about managing and reducing fear from her experience of examining the inner life of many patients through the years. What are you afraid of? Check this episode out and learn to live fearlessly!

Dr. Brown holds a BA in Secondary Education/English, an MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, and MPhil in Social & Behavioral Science and a PhD in Human Services with a Specialty in Public Health. She is a licensed Professional Counselor in the State of NJ.

This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy. If you are someone you know is struggling with mental illness, please seek the help of professionals.

*Episode 12 Trigger Warnings: Trauma, Anxiety

In this session, we talk about the exciting world that is happening inside of you while you are sleeping. We explore the ten most common dreams and what they might actually mean. You might be surprised to hear that many of us are having the same dreams! Learn about how to interpret the meanings behind your dreams and nightmares and how these sleepy stories can be sending you messages that you might need to pay attention to.

We explore why we dream and discover why dreams and disrupted sleep can affect us so much in our waking lives. Statistics tell us that 95% of our dreams fade before we get out of bed: why is that? Let’s stop using pop psychology from the internet and learn the real truth about your dreams from Dr. Deborah, using biological, psychological, and neuroscience perspectives. Explore what the doctor has come to understand about dreams from her experience of examining the dreams of hundreds of patients over the years. Don’t sleep on this episode!

*Episode 11 Trigger Warnings: Trauma, Anxiety, Death, Frightening Situations

Statistics tell us that 75-80% of most of our thoughts are negative. If that’s you, you are haunting your own house! In this session, we explore why we over think and try to determine if you are having racing thoughts and rumination. We uncover the power of how our thoughts shape us, and how much those thoughts are shaped by our own selves versus others. Learn about how the 5 C’s (complaining, criticizing, concern, commiserating and catastrophizing) could be affecting you. You will understand the role of negative thoughts in our daily mental health and learn to reduce the thoughts that are actually hurting you and hindering your progress. When your head gets less noisy, there is more space for joy to grow!

Let’s remove the sense of powerlessness to which our own thoughts contribute. Are the thoughts you think on repeat even true? Don’t waste another minute or day or year searching through your head to identify with your fears. Come on, you got this! Stop haunting your own head and challenge your negative thoughts. Let’s lose the shame and grow the vision!

*Episode 10 Trigger Warnings: Domestic violence, negative thoughts