Episodes

  • Bullying, Incarceration, and More Caller Questions from November 1, 2024

    Bullying, Incarceration, and More Caller Questions from November 1, 2024
    Nov 1 2024
    Topics: Critical Thinking, Bullying, Teens, Intimacy, Avoiders, Anxiety, Incarceration, Islam Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares the value of being able to hear another person’s perspective, the ability to have humility and curiosity. 2. My 14yo son is clinging to a relationship with a potential bully; what can I do? 3. I’m a senior citizen and got married 6yrs ago, but there is no affection or physical intimacy in our marriage. 4. After 36yrs of marriage, I finally realized that my husband is an avoider and I am anxious. How can I deal with this? 5. My 26yo grandson is incarcerated and considering converting to Islam; how can I approach him, given his set of circumstances? Suggested Resources: How People Grow Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Estrangement, Separation, and More Caller Questions from October 31, 2024

    Estrangement, Separation, and More Caller Questions from October 31, 2024
    Oct 31 2024
    Topics: Finances, Boundaries, Adult Children, Estrangement, Suicide, Work Issues, Getting Unstuck, Christian Walk, Separation, Counseling Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. John Townsend Caller Questions More: 1. How do I be a submissive wife but get my husband motivated to pay his debts? 2. I have two sons in their twenties who are estranged since the divorce. Their father just committed suicide; how do I connect with them? 3. How do I know if I am following God’s will for my life? I don’t feel I am where I want to be personally or professionally. 4. My wife of 2yrs wants to separate or divorce; how can I get her to get counseling for her past trauma? Suggested Resources: Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Codependency, Drug Addiction, and More Caller Questions from October 30, 2024

    Codependency, Drug Addiction, and More Caller Questions from October 30, 2024
    Oct 30 2024
    Topics: Judgment, Codependency, Intimacy, Connection, Grief, Adult Children, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice asks whether we should point out the mistakes, sins and behavior patterns of others. 2. I am codependent and my daughter asked me to stop speaking for her and her sister; can you tell me how to do that? 3. I’ve been with my husband for 13yrs and married for 3yrs, and I don’t like sex at all now. 4. What can I do to ensure I have healthy relationships? I want to work on myself. 5. Between COVID and car accidents, I’ve lost 35 people close to me, and my daughter just moved to Alaska. Now I struggle to connect with people. 6. My 36yo son is addicted to opiates, wanted by the law, and asks everyone for money. How do I have a relationship with him? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Secrets of Sex Marriage How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Physical Abuse, Abandonment, and More Caller Questions from October 29, 2024

    Physical Abuse, Abandonment, and More Caller Questions from October 29, 2024
    Oct 29 2024
    Topics: Christian Walk, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, Schizophrenia, Abandonment, Affairs, Trust Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares how Jesus had to remind His disciples that God was here with them, and God is here with us in our own tough times. 2. My son-in-law is abusing my paranoid schizophrenic daughter and went to jail when he hit her in the past. Should he be reported again if she can’t support herself and her 12yo? 3. How can I get my niece to get help? Her husband doesn’t have anything to do with her or her children. 4. What can I do if my fianc keeps running back to his ex-wife? He has married and divorced her twice. 5. My boyfriend wants me to sell my house, but I don’t want to because he has betrayed me, and I don’t trust him. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Intimate Deception Emotionally Destructive Relationship To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Alcohol, Avoiders, and More Caller Questions from October 28, 2024

    Alcohol, Avoiders, and More Caller Questions from October 28, 2024
    Oct 28 2024
    Topics: Christian Walk, Alcohol, Boundaries, Screens, Teens, Shyness, Anxiety, Parenting, Avoiders Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim discusses the anatomy of a lost faith. 2. My husband is a high-functioning alcoholic and it affected our 23yo transgender daughter; what boundaries can I put in place? 3. Whenever my 8th grade grandson has an assignment due at school, he is not motivated to do the assignment because he’s addicted to screens and has ADHD. 4. My 5yo granddaughter is extremely shy and won’t use the bathroom at school; how do we help her? 5. In the last 5yrs, why does my husband not speak to me for up to 6mos at a time? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible Understanding and Loving Your Child In a Screen-Saturated World How We Love Our Kids How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Same-Sex Attraction, Aging Parents, and More Caller Questions from October 25, 2024

    Same-Sex Attraction, Aging Parents, and More Caller Questions from October 25, 2024
    Oct 25 2024
    Topics: Change, In-laws, Resentment, Grief, Sexual Abuse, Suicide, Same-Sex Attraction, Regret, Finances, Aging Parents Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill explains the concept of crystallization of discontent when the pain of staying the same exceeds the pain of change. 2. My 74yo mother-in-law is healthy, lives with us, and all she does is stay in her room all day; it’s not fair. 3. My friend’s brother molested me when I was 8yo, and I still have problems with showering and getting undressed. 4. I went to my daughter’s lesbian wedding, but I later said some really hurtful things to her. Now I feel so stuck I want to commit suicide. 5. When is it okay to speak into my parents’ financial situation? They’re in their seventies, and my sister has always lived with them. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • OCD, Demons, and More Caller Questions from October 24, 2024

    OCD, Demons, and More Caller Questions from October 24, 2024
    Oct 24 2024
    Topics: OCD, Church Life, Self Worth, Sexual Integrity, Teens, Disclosure, Christian Walk, Demons, Adult Children, Enabling, Addictions, ADD Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses pathological guilt and anxiety about religious or moral issues called scrupulosity. 2. I was escorted out of my church and kicked off of the greeting team; where is God leading me? 3. Is there a benefit to disclosing my teenage sexual years and regret to my 16yo daughter? 4. I went to a revival and a prideful spirit was cast out of me; how do I keep it from returning? 5. Is it better to get our 22yo son immediately into a men’s home for his addictions, depression and severe ADHD, or allow him to wait 2mos to finish his lease? Suggested Resources: People Fuel A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity Every Believers Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins
  • Affairs, Self-Harm, and More Caller Questions from October 23, 2024

    Affairs, Self-Harm, and More Caller Questions from October 23, 2024
    Oct 23 2024
    Topics: Accountability, Affairs, Separation, Dating, Grief, Self-Harm, Suicide, Church Life Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how hard it is to own what we have done that harms others. 2. My husband had an affair for over 10yrs, we’ve spent thousands of dollars on counseling, and now he only checks the boxes instead of going deeper. 3. My girlfriend broke up with me 2mos ago because her mom threatened to kill herself if she didn’t; what do I do if I’m still in love with her? 4. How can my daughter and I help her college friend who is self-harming? He also has suicidal ideations after someone he knew committed suicide. 5. My roommate has been asking me if I’m plugged into one church and serving and tithing there instead of many churches; what do you think? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception How We Love Changes That Heal Why I Believe To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
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    48 mins