That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding

By: That Hoarder
  • Summary

  • Hoarding disorder is stigmatised and people who hoard feel vast amounts of shame. This podcast began life as an audio diary, an anonymous outlet for somebody with this weird condition. That Hoarder speaks about her experiences living with compulsive hoarding, she interviews therapists, academics, researchers, children of hoarders, professional organisers and influencers, and she shares insight and tips for others with the problem. Listened to by people who hoard as well as those who love them and those who work with them, Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder aims to shatter the stigma, share the truth and speak openly and honestly to improve lives.
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Episodes
  • #166 "Just-in-time shopping": Overcome fear-driven purchases, save money and space, and spend mindfully
    Nov 22 2024
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    • Come to a Dehoarding Accountability Zoom Session: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/ticket
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    • Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    In today's episode, I talk about the strategies I've been trying to address over-acquisition and manage my finances, from savings pots to practising 'just-in-time' shopping. I explain how these methods, alongside mindfully resisting impulse buys and more, are helping me reduce clutter.

    • Personal Financial Management
    • Dedicated accounts with savings pots for various expenses like glasses, car repairs, and gifts.
    • Spending limits.
    • Evaluating the necessity of purchases.
    • Reflecting on past financial struggles.
    • The tendency to overprepare due to fear of scarcity.
    • The impact of hoarding on life, such as emotional pain from bereavements.
    • The challenge of trusting that resources will be available when needed.
    • Shopping Habits and Strategies
    • Emphasising rationality in shopping.
    • The "just in time" shopping approach to combat over-acquiring.
    • Mindful shopping techniques
    • Checking existing supplies before shopping.
    • Using shopping lists with flexible categories.
    • Resisting urge-driven purchases like discounts.
    • Mindful Financial Practices
    • Exploring alternative uses for money beyond impulse buys.
    • Prioritising spending on quality experiences.
    • Past Financial Hardship and Emotional Impact
    • Past experiences of financial hardship leading to anxiety and hoarding.
    • Reflecting on the emotional impact from periods like the COVID-19 pandemic.
    • Personal Growth and Overcoming Beliefs
    • Encouragement to try despite potential failures.

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    30 mins
  • #165 Distraction-free idea capture: Transforming chaotic thought streams into actionable to-do lists
    Nov 15 2024
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    • Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    Avoiding the chaos of complex idea capture systems is vital for preventing distraction and overwhelm. Today, I'm sharing practical strategies for transitioning from idea capture to action, breaking down large tasks into manageable subtasks and exploring tools like Google Tasks and voice assistants for prioritisation and organisation. Plus, I reflect on my own long-term struggle with to-do lists and how to experiment with different approaches to find a system that suits your needs.

    • Simplifying Idea Capture
    • Avoid complex systems to prevent distraction and overwhelm.
    • Focus on simple, streamlined methods for capturing ideas.
    • Set dedicated idea capture times to minimise distractions.
    • Organising Idea Capture Materials
    • Ensure materials and tools are easily accessible.
    • Utilise technology for effortless idea capture using voice assistants.
    • Transitioning from Idea Capture to Action
    • Prioritise tasks based on urgency, impact, or personal goals.
    • Structure and prioritise tasks.
    • Break down large tasks into smaller, manageable subtasks.
    • Combining Digital and Non-Digital Methods
    • Use written to-do lists to complement digital systems for immediate tasks.
    • Essential Elements for an Effective System
    • Thinker's Notebook's five elements: omnipresence, efficiency, organisation, security, and offline thinking.
    • Exploring Digital and Non-Digital Tools
    • Popular digital tools: Evernote, OneNote, ToodleDo, Todoist, Trello, Taiga.io, Google Calendar, Outlook Calendar, Google Tasks.
    • Non-digital methods: scraps of paper, notebooks, preprinted planners, bullet journals, mind maps.
    • Personalising the Capture Method
    • Importance of selecting a method suited to personal preferences and technical comfort level.
    • Experimentation with different approaches.
    • Two-Step Strategy for Idea Capture
    • Combine digital or portable capture methods with comprehensive home organisation tools.
    • Mind Mapping for Subtasks
    • Use mind maps to break down tasks, providing a visual representation.
    • Realistic Time Management
    • Decide on timings based on deadlines and personal flexibility.
    • Visual Task Management
    • Track progress and prioritise tasks using visual tools like checklists or kanban boards.
    • Prioritisation and Breaking Down Tasks
    • Organise tasks by priority for easier management.
    • Divide large tasks into smaller parts for simplification.
    • Timely Task Execution
    • Be realistic about time required for tasks and accommodate flexibility.
    • Psychological Boost from Completion
    • Mark tasks as completed for a dopamine boost and visual progress tracking.
    • Adapting Idea Capture Systems
    • Experiment with various methods to find an effective system that suits personal needs and goals.
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    36 mins
  • #164 Digital hoarding and digital clutter with Dr Jan Eppingstall
    Nov 8 2024
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    • Podcast show notes, links and transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/

    In this episode, I'm joined by Dr Jan Eppingstall, a counsellor with a PhD in hoarding, to discuss the phenomenon of digital hoarding, where people accumulate excessive digital items.

    We'll explore the emotional responses to losing digital content, the organisational and environmental implications of digital clutter, and strategies for managing our ever-growing digital lives.

    From the nostalgic pull of old photos to the overwhelming influx of emails, this conversation reveals the surprising similarities between physical and digital hoarding.

    • Introduction to Digital Hoarding
    • Definition of digital hoarding
    • Comparison with physical hoarding, highlighting similar stress, anxiety, and attachment.
    • Emotional Responses to Digital Loss
    • Non-hoarders experiencing emotions like anger and anxiety over losing digital items.
    • Technological Advancements and Digital Storage
    • The proliferation of digital content creation, especially digital photos.
    • Impact of technology on creating and storing digital content.
    • Historical context of storage limitations versus current capabilities.
    • Broader Implications of Digital Hoarding
    • Extending beyond photos and videos to emails, subscriptions, and digital accounts.
    • Cybersecurity risks and financial costs associated with digital hoarding.
    • Reasons we retain digital content.
    • Emotional Attachment and Digital Data
    • Emotional ties to digital items like photos and documents.
    • Reflecting identity and memory triggers in digital possessions.
    • Digital Organisation Strategies
    • Host's impeccably organised digital life contrasted with a cluttered home.
    • Tiago Forte's PARA method for prioritising digital items.
    • Inbox Zero and maintaining an organised email setup.
    • Challenges of Digital Clutter
    • Volume over efficiency: issues accessing necessary information despite organised files.
    • Parallels between digital and physical hoarding behaviours.
    • Digital Inefficiency and Environmental Impact
    • Wasted time, reduced focus, and productivity issues due to digital clutter.
    • Significant carbon footprint of data centres and environmental concerns.
    • Strategies for Managing Digital Clutter
    • Reducing digital intake by unsubscribing from unnecessary emails and content.
    • Advice on stopping excessive bookmarking and managing browser tabs.
    • Importance of setting up email filters to streamline email management.
    • Creating physical keepsakes from special digital photos for meaningful interaction.
    • Permission Slip Segment
    • Discussion on evaluating difficult-to-discard items for sentimental or practical reasons.
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    48 mins

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Enjoying your podcast very much.

It is better to do this together. My biggest issue is giving away things that has something to do with my kids. My thinking: ‘I think maybe my sister could use this with her kids if she will ever have any down the road…oh I love this my son played so much with this!’ Or ‘ I could sell this.. this was so expensive!!’….just sad!.. I need you… Thank you!

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Could not do this alone

My partner of 5 years left me, partly because of my hoarding and partly for other ptsd and ocd related difficulties. I fell into a pit of despair and shame and felt so alone. It catalyzed my taking in the hoard. It’s been deeply disheartening, alienating, and just so heavy. I found this podcast and for the first time in my struggle I feel so seen ❤️‍🩹 she has such a deep self awareness and brought to my art the weight of the emotional and psychological aspects of hoarding. I’ve made so much progress and when I get stuck or my roommate launches me into a downward spiral of negative self talk by refusing to see the progress I go to this podcast.

I’m almost at the point of self acceptance that I’m considering speaking out about it on social media and extending my hand to anyone else in my community who fights this secret battle. It’s been so hard to feel like I can’t talk to anyone about it or ask for help and if I ever get through this I want so badly to help others as this woman has helped me.

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Informative, compassionate, and proactive.

This is such a fantastic podcast. I appreciate the compassion, humor, reflection, the topics and proactive outlook. The presentation is so well organized and so helpful. It's just so refreshing to hear representation by someone who experiences the disorder rather than being the passive subject of others scrutiny and analysis. This podcast is exactly the kind of dialogue that is needed to destigmatize hoarding disorder.

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