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Personality Couch

Personality Couch

By: Dr. Rebecca Houvener Psy.D. LCP
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We all encounter personality conflict on a regular basis, whether we know it or not. From funky, can’t-quite-put-my-finger-on-it dynamics with that one friend or family member, to the big blowup drama at work with the last person you’d expect, it all comes down to personality. Join clinical psychologists, Dr. Rebecca Houvener, Psy.D, (“Doc Bok”) and Dr. Cheyenne Fisher, Psy.D., (“Doc Fish”) biweekly as they unpack the most complex topics like personality disorders and psychopathic behavior, while also making room for lighthearted discussions about personality typologies and humorous anecdotes from private practice. Whether you’re fascinated by personality darkness, a concerned friend or loved one, an “armchair psychologist,” or a licensed professional convinced there is something more going on with patients…. This show is for you.Copyright 2025 All rights reserved. Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Ep 32: Paranoia and Mass Murder | Analyzing 3 Infamous Cases
    Jul 15 2025

    In this episode of The Personality Couch, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) dive deep into the dark end of the paranoid personality spectrum, focusing on three notorious cases of mass murder: Jeffrey Weise (school shooter), Richard Farley (jilted lover), and Timothy McVeigh (Oklahoma City bomber). We explore the psychological underpinnings of each of these severe paranoid personalities, the impact of childhood trauma, and how their psyches came unglued. We firstly look at the case of Weise, a 16-year-old school shooter who experienced significant childhood trauma and rejection at the hands of his family. We then turn to look at Farley, an incredibly dangerous example of how erotomania, or extreme unrequited love, can turn into your worst nightmare. Lastly, we take a close look at the infamous Timothy McVeigh, a domestic terrorist obsessed with fantasy, fiction, and comics about revenge. Separating from the Army, but desperate to be a hero, he found an enemy in the very US Government that he used to defend. Our discussion emphasizes that while not all paranoid personalities are violent (most aren’t), paranoid personalities in forensic settings can quickly unravel, making them among the most likely to commit mass murder.

    Are you a clinician stuck on a case? To schedule a consultation, please visit the practice website to contact us! https://www.questpsych.org/

    Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Paranoid Personalities and Violence 02:07 Childhood Trauma’s Impact 05:00 Case Study: Jeffrey Weise - The Traumatized Killer 05:37 Weise’s background 07:52 The Day of the Shooting 10:18 Motivations 11:11 Analysis & Discussion 14:00 Case Study: Richard Farley - The Rejected Lover 14:50 Farley’s obsession with Laura Black 17:45 The Day of the Shooting 21:50 Farley’s Motivations 23:30 Analysis & Discussion 24:46 Masochistic Infatuation Defined 25:18 Erotomania Explained 27:22 Case Study: Timothy McVeigh: The Oklahoma City Bomber 27:44 Background 33:07 Leading up to the Bombing 36:48 Motivations 38:30 Analysis & Discussion 40:19 Summary & Conclusions

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    42 mins
  • Ep 31: Paranoia, Paranoid Personality, or Schizophrenia? | Which Is It?
    Jul 1 2025

    In this episode of The Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack how paranoia, paranoid personalities, and psychotic disorders overlap. We explore the line between personality disorders and psychosis; misuse of the term schizophrenia; and introduce the concept of paraphrenia as it relates to psychosis in the paranoid personality. We also explore the historical context of paranoia, the nuances between paranoia and delusions, and how the terms became so intertwined in history. We end with our own unfiltered thoughts about limitations to DSM diagnostic categories and how paranoia became so confusing!

    Are you a clinician stuck on a case? To schedule a consultation, please visit the practice website, which will guide you to the email address to use. https://www.questpsych.org/

    Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Paranoia and Psychosis 02:14 Defining Paranoia 03:15 Sociocultural Paranoia: The Salem Witch Trials 04:22 How Paranoia Leads to Psychosis: A Train Metaphor 06:51 Defining Delusions 08:21 Persecutory Delusions 08:55 Delusions of Grandeur 09:32 Jealous Delusions 10:01 Erotomanic Delusions 12:01 When Paranoia Becomes a Diagnosis 13:14 Paranoia in Personality Disorders 14:34 Wait- Paranoid Schizophrenia is NOT a Diagnosis?! 16:03 Defining Paraphrenia 16:43 Defining Schizophrenia 17:54 How is Paranoid Personality Disorder Different from Schizophrenia? 22:50 The Difference Between Schizophrenia and Paraphrenia 23:11 Confusion in Definitions and DSM Limitations 27:24 Closing

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    29 mins
  • Ep 30: Paranoid Personality | The 6 Subtypes Explained
    Jun 17 2025

    In this episode of The Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) continue our discussion about paranoid personality disorder, exploring its three severity levels: Mild, Borderline, and Paraphrenic. We unpack the six subtypes of paranoid personalities as outlined by Dr. Theodore Millon: The Self-Righteous Mistrustful, The Obdurate Mistrustful, the Querulous Paranoid, the Insular Paranoid, the severe Fanatic Paraphrenic, and Malignant Paraphrenic. We highlight the fragility of Paranoids at all levels of severity, noting they can easily deteriorate with stressors and setbacks. We emphasize the importance of understanding these very common personality dynamics in all settings, especially with increasing paranoia in the post-pandemic world.

    Are you a clinician stuck on a case? To schedule a consultation, please visit the practice website, which will guide you to the email address to use. www.questpsych.org

    Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Paranoid Personality Disorder 03:44 Paranoid Personality Disorder Symptoms 06:03 Historical Examples 06:09 Timothy McVeigh - Oklahoma City Bombings 06:36 Richard Farley - Erotomania 07:52 Explaining the 3 Severity Levels 09:30 Mild Paranoid Personalities: Mistrustful Types 10:16 Self-Righteous Subtype 14:28 Obdurate Subtype 17:14 Moderate Paranoid Personalities: Disorder Level 17:44 Querulous Subtype 21:32 Insular Subtype 23:52 Severe Paranoid Personalities: Paraphrenic Level 25:44 Fanatic Subtype 30:57 Malignant Subtype 36:12 Summary & Conclusion

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    38 mins
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