You wanted closeness. She needed space.
You chased love. She pulled away.
Now you feel stuck — and you don’t know why.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why anxious (preoccupied) men and avoidant women are often drawn to each other. And why that spark you felt in the beginning now feels like pain.

What you'll learn:
✅ Why you were drawn to her emotional distance
✅ Why she felt safe choosing someone like you
✅ How your attachment styles locked you both in a painful loop
✅ Why the highs felt exciting — but weren’t real connection
✅ How to break the cycle and stop chasing emotional silence
✅ How secure men lead with strength and stop seeking validation

Topics covered in this episode:

The truth about anxious-avoidant attraction

How your childhood shaped what feels like love

Why distance feels like desire when you're insecure

What changes in marriage that makes this dynamic worse

The steps to stop begging and start leading

What healthy connection really looks like

This video is for you if:
✔️ You feel like you're always the one trying
✔️ Your wife avoids deep conversations
✔️ You blame yourself for needing more
✔️ You want love that feels safe — not like a fight

You don’t need to prove you’re enough.
You don’t need to earn love from someone who can’t give it.
And you don’t need to keep repeating the past.

You can choose real connection.
You can stop chasing what hurts.
You can lead your healing — and your life — with peace, not panic.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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