In this episode of Provocateurs, Sarah engages in a candid conversation with Leya, the CEO and founder of Pineapple Support, a non-profit organization dedicated to providing mental health care and emotional support to individuals in the online adult industry. Leya shares her personal journey into the adult space, highlighting the challenges faced by performers, including stigma, isolation, and mental health struggles. The discussion delves into the alarming statistics surrounding suicide rates in the industry, the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, and the importance of education for newcomers. Leya emphasises the need for community support and open conversations about mental health, relationships, and the evolving landscape of adult entertainment. The episode also touches on the significance of ethical porn and the industry's role in educating consumers about consent and enjoyment.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Pineapple Support's Mission: The organization provides mental health care and emotional support specifically for individuals in the online adult industry, addressing the unique challenges they face.

2. High Rates of Suicidal Ideation: A recent mental health survey revealed that 60% of respondents in the adult industry had considered suicide, highlighting the urgent need for mental health resources and support.

3. Stigma and Isolation: Working in the adult industry often leads to feelings of isolation due to societal stigma, which can negatively impact personal relationships and mental health.

4. Impact of Fan Platforms: The rise of platforms like OnlyFans has empowered creators by giving them control over their content and income, but it has also led to an influx of new entrants who may not fully understand the long-term implications of their choices.

5. Need for Education: There is a significant need for better education and resources for individuals considering entering the adult industry, to help them understand the potential consequences on their personal and professional lives.

BEST MOMENTS

1. "I have to do something about it. No one else is doing anything about it." - Leya

2. "60 percent said they had considered taking their lives by suicide. Now that is astonishingly high." - Leya

3. "Society stigmatizes people who work in the porn industry. Society makes judgments." - Leya

4. "If you can't enjoy sex without porn, then that's an addiction." - Sarah

5. "The fan platforms in general have given the power to the creators." - Leya

SOCIAL LINKS

https://www.tiktok.com/@provocateurspodcast

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPmCQvMWLaLTayKshPyGOEg

ABOUT THE HOST

Sarah Moxom is the ultimate powerhouse—an accomplished serial entrepreneur, seasoned investor, and master of navigating the human connection. At just nineteen, she founded her first company, a thriving temporary staffing agency, which she has successfully led for over two decades.

With a remarkable ability to blend business acumen with emotional intelligence, Sarah is passionate about exploring the intricate interplay of entrepreneurship, relationship dynamics, people skills, and leadership. Her wealth of experience and sharp insights into human behaviour make her a compelling guide through the challenges of life and business.

Whether you’re looking to sharpen your communication skills, build stronger relationships, or take your ventures to the next level, Sarah is here to inspire and empower you every step of the way.

https://sarahmoxom.co.uk/

In this episode, Sarah welcomes the dynamic DJ duo, Jenn Getz and Alfie, who have taken the music scene by storm since their inception in Dubai during the pandemic. They share their journey from jamming in empty restaurants to warming up for major acts and eventually carving out their own unique sound. The conversation delves into their experiences as female DJs in a male-dominated industry, the challenges they face, and their commitment to being taken seriously for their talent rather than their gender. They also discuss their upcoming brand launch, 8008, which aims to create intimate music events, and reflect on the evolving music scene in Dubai and the UK. With insights on networking, authenticity, and the importance of staying true to their artistic vision, Jenn and Alfie inspire listeners to pursue their passions while navigating the complexities of the music industry.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Collaboration and Growth: Jenn Getz and Alfie emphasise the importance of collaboration in their journey as a DJ duo. They started jamming together during the pandemic, which led to a successful partnership that has allowed them to grow and evolve in the music industry.

2. Navigating Challenges as Female DJs: They discuss the unique challenges faced by women in the music industry, including the need to be taken seriously and the pressure to conform to certain images. They advocate for being recognized based on talent rather than gender.

3. Importance of Networking: Building relationships within the industry has been crucial for their success. They highlight how networking at events like ADE and IMS has opened doors and created opportunities for collaboration and growth.

4. Authenticity in Branding: Jenn Getz and Alfie stress the significance of authenticity in their personal brand. They aim to present themselves as relatable artists rather than fitting into stereotypical roles, focusing on their music and genuine connection with their audience.

5. Evolving Music Style: Their music style has evolved over time, influenced by their experiences and exposure to different genres. They are committed to creating a unique sound that blends their individual tastes, which they believe enhances their creativity and appeal.

BEST MOMENTS

1. "We started as just kind of jamming together and our energy is really good together... it just turned into this giant project." - Jenn

2. "I think the music industry in general is a boys club... you have to work harder for longer for people to take you more seriously." - Alfie

3. "I really don't like the term female DJ. It really bugs me. You're just a DJ." - Jenn

4. "We just want to earn our stripes for being good at what we're doing in all areas, not just because we're two women." - Alfie

5. "When we started playing in Ibiza, it's so different because so many people are like on drugs... the dance was different because they're a bit more like money." - Jenn

SOCIAL LINKS

https://www.tiktok.com/@provocateurspodcast

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPmCQvMWLaLTayKshPyGOEg

ABOUT THE HOST

Sarah Moxom is the ultimate powerhouse—an accomplished serial entrepreneur, seasoned investor, and master of navigating the human connection. At just nineteen, she founded her first company, a thriving temporary staffing agency, which she has successfully led for over two decades.

With a remarkable ability to blend business acumen with emotional intelligence, Sarah is passionate about exploring the intricate interplay of entrepreneurship, relationship dynamics, people skills, and leadership. Her wealth of experience and sharp insights into human behaviour make her a compelling guide through the challenges of life and business.

Whether you’re looking to sharpen your communication skills, build stronger relationships, or take your ventures to the next level, Sarah is here to inspire and empower you every step of the way.

https://sarahmoxom.co.uk/

In this episode of Provocateurs, Sarah Speaks to Dominique (Dom) as she shares her transformative journey from being a nurse in the UK to becoming a successful online coach and entrepreneur in Dubai. She candidly discusses her initial inspiration to enter nursing, driven by personal experiences with her premature baby sister, and the disillusionment she faced within the NHS due to systemic issues and low pay. Dom reflects on the challenges of the healthcare system, the allure of aesthetics, and the impact of societal pressures on beauty standards, particularly regarding fillers and Botox. She also delves into her experiences with dating in Dubai, the cultural dynamics of relationships, and the influence of social media on self-image. Throughout the conversation, Dom emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, personal growth, and the need for authenticity in both life and business.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Transition from Nursing to Entrepreneurship: After three years of nursing, the decision was made to leave the profession due to dissatisfaction with the job and the healthcare system in the UK. This led to the establishment of an aesthetics business and eventually transitioning to online coaching.

2. Critique of the UK Healthcare System: The discussion highlighted significant issues within the NHS, including understaffing, low pay for nurses, and the overall treatment of both staff and patients. The sentiment expressed was that the system is failing both healthcare workers and patients.

3. Impact of Aesthetics on Body Image: There is a growing trend among young people, particularly women, to seek cosmetic procedures like Botox and fillers. While some view these enhancements positively, there is concern about the potential for body dysmorphia and the obsession with appearance that can arise from these practices.

4. Dating Culture in Dubai: The dating scene in Dubai is described as challenging, with a perception that many individuals are more interested in casual relationships rather than long-term commitments. The environment is seen as one where distractions are abundant, making it difficult to form meaningful connections.

5. Personal Growth Through Adversity: The experience of a breakup, particularly with a partner who gained fame on a reality show, was shared as a significant emotional challenge. However, it led to personal growth, a focus on self-improvement, and the creation of a podcast aimed at helping others navigate similar experiences.

BEST MOMENTS

1. "I think the answer is to go private. You don't really see these problems as much here... because it's not free." - Dom

2. "I always wanted to be an entrepreneur. I always wanted to have my own business." - Dom

3. "I think our generation is the worst one for fillers, Botox, plastic surgeries, the lot." - Dom

4. "You can easily just ignore them and distract yourself... but I didn't. I focused on myself and my health." - Dom

5. "If a guy sleeps about, they don't... If a girl does it, it becomes a big thing." - Dom

SOCIAL LINKS

https://www.tiktok.com/@provocateurspodcast

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPmCQvMWLaLTayKshPyGOEg

ABOUT THE HOST

Sarah Moxom is the ultimate powerhouse—an accomplished serial entrepreneur, seasoned investor, and master of navigating the human connection. At just nineteen, she founded her first company, a thriving temporary staffing agency, which she has successfully led for over two decades.

With a remarkable ability to blend business acumen with emotional intelligence, Sarah is passionate about exploring the intricate interplay of entrepreneurship, relationship dynamics, people skills, and leadership. Her wealth of experience and sharp insights into human behaviour make her a compelling guide through the challenges of life and business.

Whether you’re looking to sharpen your communication skills, build stronger relationships, or take your ventures to the next level, Sarah is here to inspire and empower you every step of the way.

https://sarahmoxom.co.uk/